I have enough problems to deal with and i'm looking for help, not looking to get made fun of, i know i have a wierd situation but its what i'm living right now. Glad everybody else has such the perfect life because i am very far from that
2007-06-23 10:06:10 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I think they might be confused. They aren't sure if you are married and pregnant, getting abused by your husband who ruined your life and abandoned you in the middle of nowhere except you were still in the trailer park lusting after your brother in law who is contemplating helping you breaking into your double-wide cause your abusive baby's father has locked you out. Confusion tends to make people bitter.
2007-06-23 10:20:19 · answer #1 · answered by indydst8 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How are we supposed to answer that if we don't know what your 'weird situation' is? If you're looking around and thinking everybody else has such a perfect life, maybe you're just overestimating things entirely.
Are you sure you're not just being overly sensitive?
2007-06-23 17:10:19 · answer #2 · answered by Askrat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to take a deep breath, centre yourself, and make sure that your wierd situation isn't solvable. I don't know why people are picking on you, or what the wierd situation is. All I know is that once you are one with yourself, and you regain your self confidence, there will be nothing for them to pick on except a stable person who is handling their own problems. If you need anything else honey, just post agian, ok?
2007-06-23 17:16:28 · answer #3 · answered by Lachesis 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well when my sisters husband used to get drunk and then he would beat her she has been hospitalized her face was destroyed but luckily reparable and my other sister when her husband would drink to much he would put a pillow over her face until she passed out and then rape her. so if u think that the people who are giving u honest answer because someone might care about your well being with out knowing you are picking on you. then you are in whats called denial he will NEVER EVER I REPEAT NEVER change EVER!!!!! he will alway beat u then apologize give u flowers buy u some jewelry and do it again in two marriages i have seen a total of 31 years of abuse and i am only 26. wake up and leave before he kills you because he didnt mean to beat u that badly
2007-06-23 17:17:49 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
People are cruel. But you should know that by now. You can't be so sensitive to their responses. There is always going to be that one azzhole that has nothing better to do but make matters worse. Just take the good advice and keep moving forward.
2007-06-23 17:13:57 · answer #5 · answered by Truth Hurts 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honey they are probably saying those things because it is easy to say and very hard to do especially if there are children involved...
if you want to stay with him which i dont advise.... then you need him to go to rehab or something.... but i really dont recommend living your life that way....
its a very tough way to live and now adays its easier to leave then it used to be back when.... you can get support from him also.... Come on... do you want to spend the rest of your life like that
2007-06-23 17:14:34 · answer #6 · answered by Sal 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok at this point who even understands your situation? your husband is posting that you're sleeping with your father or his brother and are pregnant by one or the other and he's saying he slept with your sister or mother or the family pet and is pregnant by one or the other...no wait your sister is pregnant by him or was it the family pet...at any rate...none of us can keep up anymore...and it's alot easier to make fun than actually try to sort it all out....
troll
2007-06-23 17:12:25 · answer #7 · answered by juda75 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you the one whose husband is beating her? We are not picking on you, we are trying to knock some sense into you. You need to leave him. You can not make him stop hitting you. THERE IS NOTHING YOU CAN DO!! He has to go to rehab or get counseling because HE wants to. So please leave him. His losing you might be what makes him see that he needs help.
2007-06-23 17:20:38 · answer #8 · answered by Sierra 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you look for answers and ignore them---- then you make it everyone Else's fault!!!!!!!!! Hes bad news and you are playing your part too!!! If he cheated on you with your mom --- did it make it even when you f#@ked his brother???? Get help and get out! Quit being stupid! If you wont listen to answers or take advice---quit asking for it!!! Geeeezzzzzzz get a new life!!!!!!!
2007-06-23 18:43:16 · answer #9 · answered by daniel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This wins for random post of the day.
2007-06-23 17:19:09 · answer #10 · answered by iampatsajak 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋