2007-06-23 07:37:59 · 15 answers · asked by dasiy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You don't. For a guy marrige is all about sex. The guy finaly has a woman he can have sex with 24/7.
2007-06-23 07:40:54 · answer #1 · answered by null_the_living_darkness 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Why would you marry someone who thinks marriage is only about sex? Did you think it would change once you tied the knot? If those are his views I think you made a tiny bit of a mistake. Try talking to him about it though. Does he really think marriage is just about sex, or is that an exaggeration? If he's not reasonable enough to listen to your point of view then you should probably cash in and move on. Divorce isn't really something to be entered into lightly, however, if the marriage wasn't given enough thought, you probably don't have too many other options.
2007-06-23 14:47:42 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hahaha usually its the other way around ha.I would show him by doing more together. take a hike or have movie night. I like to have a date night either once a week or once a month where its your guys day. This in the end will help you guys bound and the sex and marrige will be banging!
2007-06-23 14:44:21 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him that you can to be friends and can have fun and if sex falls into place for both of you then go ahead. Sometimes women do not want sex like the men do and you need to tell him that. Is he wanting it all the time or once a week/month? Travel, cook, bike ride, talking is a big part of the marriage more than sex is.
2007-06-23 17:29:20 · answer #4 · answered by travelgirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only time sex becomes an issue in marriage is when there either is none. Or, when a woman(or man) performs out of implied "duty", the latter being almost as bad.
"Sex is like oxygen, you don't care about either until you're not getting any"
2007-06-23 15:01:24 · answer #5 · answered by Tom S 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would just ignore him when he asked you for something or when he wants you to do something then he will relize why he needs you and its not only sex. And when he gets really mad you can tell him "cummunication is a big thing in a marriage isnt it?" And see what he says.
2007-06-23 14:43:20 · answer #6 · answered by Laura B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that's a tough question. but how is it more? living and holding each other, but i think you do everyting that a relationship without marrige does. just you guys are sharing everything with eachother.
2007-06-23 14:43:05 · answer #7 · answered by kuki 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If he thinks that that is all marriage is about then why did you marry him? Tell him that if he doesn't learn how to be intimate with you without being "intimate" with you, then you won't put out for him any more. Good luck.
2007-06-23 14:41:30 · answer #8 · answered by from_a_dark_place 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ur husband is a grown man if u have to explain that to him, why did u marry him?? Let him have some accident that leaves him with no ability to use his thing and then he'll see what marriage is about.
2007-06-23 14:42:18 · answer #9 · answered by cece715 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, i'd start out with marriage counseling. & so he's not disappointed,make sure he knows marriage counseling isn't a sex session with a therapist.
2007-06-23 14:41:19 · answer #10 · answered by judy bo-booty 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋