Marriage & Divorce - 21 April 2007

I am super ugly, but my husband of 11 years wont keep his hands off me for a second. He constantly tells me how hot I am and I KNOW I'm not. When will he get tired of me?

2007-04-21 13:13:05 · 25 answers · asked by . 4

I know that on rare occasions they end up married but what about the other times? how long do they last?

2007-04-21 13:09:56 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

I really appreciate all the answers as I also notice some were from people who probably don't even have a kid, and those who might think they'll never go thru this, well this is not the only time this six yr. old has done it, is more than three and has gotten people not just me in trouble and so something that his teacher has notice too. Im looking for a way out not to hear that "give it some love, his mom is jusst like him and so I guess I can't do anything about it. thank you anyways and thankyou more to those last three answers I got of that people that answer and know what is like to be there.

2007-04-21 13:05:39 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

I though only a married person could commit adultery ?
What does Jesus mean when he says "to lust"

2007-04-21 12:51:24 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

when I read books on divorce to educate myself as to options in waht could be an upcoming custody battle...reading the words of cases and advisements feel like popison entering my brain...I don't want those images in my head...it hurts...it consumes...I read about the divorce rate...the children in suicide...young adults from broken homes going to jail...ex-wives attaking breakiing mens spirits and homes and business and forcing them into poverty...all out of revenge and retaliation...no concern for the kids...I love my son...I see him alot..I live 5 minutes away form him...but now she is trying to take him away from me through a new marriage and go 2 hours away..impossible for me to drop him off at school..she tried to abduct him and got caught 6 years ago..and now she is trying to abduct him legally...using her upcoming husband...he has money...and I never thought of her to be such a person for 16 years...now 3 years after the divorce she is trying to make my life a living helI

2007-04-21 12:29:15 · 6 answers · asked by RealEYES 1

my husband and I have three kids together but he has two of his previous marriage and I have one, so all together we have six. Every time there's a discussion is cause of his six yr. old one and I can't take this anymore. I feel like leaving him, but then I think of the other little ones and I can't. too cause I don't have any kind of support from anyone and I find this hard, I like to get an advice in what to do whith this relationship because the problem of all this is that when I discipline his son and tell him he actually takes it as the kid is the victim. Then the kid so acts like it, he's very smart and like to turn the facts around (lier) and is something I hate, I don't hate the kid but the way his dad treats him.. He got a detention on Thursday and so I told him that he was grounded and could'nt whatch t.v, then yesterday Friday I finally told his dad and so his dad ask him, he told him after a long time of questioning him and after an hour, he was watching t.v with him.

2007-04-21 12:21:06 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'd like to hear what you think because in my opinion, it's a terrible thing! Please post what you think and why. I'd like to hear why.

2007-04-21 12:13:25 · 10 answers · asked by alannaa* 2

My spouse of eight years out of the blue wants space. Our relationship I thought was going great, apparently I was wrong. We have children together and everything. She wants me out to give her space. Well, that part I understand. I don't however understand why she seems like this is nothing. She's happy and of course I'm not because I'm still in love w/ her. How can she be happy about this? She doesn't go out much so I don't know about an affair. Nothing led up to the seperation, and believe me I've looked. So what the hell is going on? We still sleep together but no touching. Yeah, it's horrible. She works of course and so do I. Can it be pressure from life or can she really fall out of love with me in a single day? She says she loves me but is not sure about being in love w/ me. She wants to figure it out. That's fine. But, how can she be so happy about it ? It's like it does not bother her.

2007-04-21 12:00:10 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

If you found out your husband or wife was cheating, hurting the kids, robbing banks, or something like that, and you felt you should divorce them, would you still love them even though you wouldn't want to be with them? Or would you hate them and pretend you never knew them?

2007-04-21 11:57:08 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

I don't know what to do. Im driving all morning... about 200 miles. I'm at Starbucks. I'm in the middle of nowhere and I dont' know where to go. I'm angry, confused, and guilty.... guilty of being me or something... I don't know. I'm posting on a fraggin' web site. what a joke. who should I tlak to. what happened... I don't know. I really don't know. Yesterday my wife and I went to my inlaws house to spend the weekend. we're getting ready to celebrate our second child. She's a girl. last night I had a few drinks with her mum and pop. I normally don't drink so I only new one or two. I had three and fell asleep on teh couch. I woke up this mroning with my sister-inlaw on top of me. i didn't wasn't thinking at first but she was on top of me. I was in her.... and don't know how I got in this position but it felt good. I knew right away it wasn't my wife and freaked... but it felt too good and I continued... felt wonderful and then it was finished... she kissed me. said its our secret.

2007-04-21 11:55:01 · 12 answers · asked by lars77 1

lady in my mind,
do you mind if i look your picture that is copied under my eyes!
anytime when i close my eyes,what do you know,a man in love!
does you ever thinking about it?i hope you have a soul of love in your world of sense!i like your sense however i'm out of your wolrd and life....helas-french knows what that mean! i see someone master of our all wolrd and destiny see us..anyway,
when the heart is full of pain the brain coming to blowing up!
but i really know these empty heart-feeling wont exists!......
i, never forgot that :god ever and ever... after then creation of my love-------is you.
thanks a lot .
the long tongue!
mars.

2007-04-21 11:54:55 · 1 answers · asked by mohammad reza ahlollah savabi 1

why is that this is so one sided against men? There are plenty of women who also punch, slug, scratch etc...

why is it that if a man receives this kind of deal..he is expected to just deal with it...since he is typically bigger and stronger than she is..even if she doesn't hurt him....why is it OK?

are we to ALWAYS assume that for her to do whatever...she HAD to be provoked? That she HAD to be doing it out of self defense?

who thinks that this kind of stereotypical CRAP is the VERY foundation of what Lifestyle Channel plays against men? That for women to release that inner rage HAD to have their switch turned and COULD NOT do this of thier own will?

2007-04-21 11:46:02 · 10 answers · asked by juanes addicion 6

was cheating on you 5 years before during separation, then shes moves back in, 3 months of counseling, she moves out again...says she will get into counseling for 9 months and doesn't, pushes for a divorce but kept up the relationship for with me for 2 years after the divorce (I know it sounds crazy) all during while I was trying to reconcile, us being together with our son the whole time in two different homes, leading me to think that there was a possibility of reconciling, then cuts it all off abruptlty swearing there is no one else...then I find out the whole time she was with me she was seeing another guy and now she is marrying him this summer...and trying to move my son 2 hours away from me...also finding out that a dear friend of 20 years knew about it the other guy and never said anything to me during the affair...how am I supposed to be supportive of my son - getting to know this guy - he doesn't like him and he was instrumental in tearing our family apart? all this truth...

2007-04-21 11:30:18 · 14 answers · asked by RealEYES 1

After all, this very topic is named, "Marriage AND Divorce." So we all know the likelihood of the latter following the former.

Many people won't get a pre-nuptial agreement because they think it is unromantic, and just expecting failure.

If it were required by law, however, like the blood test, wouldn't that alleviate the "unromantic" element? Then courts wouldn't be flooded, custody rights would already be figured out, no one would have to lose everything they owned, and marriage itself would feel like a much safer option.

2007-04-21 11:10:46 · 15 answers · asked by Ciaoenrico 4

2007-04-21 10:41:19 · 25 answers · asked by Antonia B 1

2007-04-21 10:28:12 · 10 answers · asked by Oscar B 1

Do you feel any different when you get married? what is differnt when you get married. any advice on this would be very helpful to me.

2007-04-21 10:21:17 · 23 answers · asked by blue_eyed_woman_23 3

We've been together 16 years, married 13+, no kids. Just last year he met somebody online and now thinks he needs to be with her. She lives accross the country, with her mother and has 3 teenagers.
We're broke and have no $$ for him to move.
To top it all off, unexplicably I am still very much in love with him.
He left me about a month ago and is living with his parents, enjoying no responsibilities other than to text message his girlfriend until his fingers bleed.
I'm trying to be friends, but am finding it difficult not to try and change his mind.
HELP!!

2007-04-21 10:18:54 · 18 answers · asked by matalemom 1

2007-04-21 10:12:26 · 20 answers · asked by sandt 1

Her husband is great. She loves him to death, but made an agreement with him long ago. She told her husband that when she gets angry, he can punish her. He would never physically hurt her... so instead when she yells at him, he picks her up, strips her naked and ties her hands up over her head and her legs to the bed while she is sobbing and crying and screaming COMPLETELY EXPOSED. He also opens the shades/windows and turns on the lights and calls her "slut." She almost convulses she gets so mad and has a hard time breathing. He doesn't let her get up and dressed until she has calmed down. He says bondage and nudity will cause her to submit! Well he did it the other day while I was over and I wanted to help but she kept telling me not to... so I had to watch her endure this. She was so humiliated and hasn't called me since. What should I do about her, but more importantly about her situation. She is such a weak person!

2007-04-21 09:54:56 · 6 answers · asked by kaybeaner 1

2007-04-21 09:34:43 · 26 answers · asked by Kay H 2

She says its not an affair, but she spends the night at his place once a week, took a vacation to Mexico with him, and had him take our kids camping. She says she's doing this so I can work -since I don't make enough money to support our lifestyle. If I made more money, she wouldn't see him. I know this is not true, since I'm pretty sure my earnings are on the high end of the scale - still, some people make more. Our kids are confused (ages 9 and 10) and see OM as a sort of 'uncle.' I keep asking her to stop but she refuses. She also has an anger management problem and physically lashes out. I don't know what to do. What should I do? I don't think she'll agree to counseling.

2007-04-21 09:34:18 · 24 answers · asked by 'mazinworld 1

He is 64, and not interested for the past 10 years? I had a problem with this.

2007-04-21 09:20:50 · 17 answers · asked by connor 1

2007-04-21 09:12:25 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-04-21 09:10:05 · 10 answers · asked by strange-artist 7

I'm 19 and my live-in fiance is 23. He has a 2 year old daughter (whom I love and adore competly) and we are having a son this august. We do our best to be respectful, open and honest, while also remembering to never go to bed upset. A huge rule in my book lol. But as much as we love each other and want to continue the family life we have begun together, I get scared. My parents married young and I fear that if I do as well I will end up divorced like them. Are there any tips for newly weds or just simple wisdom to remember during tough times ahead? Thank you everyone!

2007-04-21 09:04:09 · 8 answers · asked by PiX iE 2

I have a job opportunity in Australia. What permissions will I require to take my stepdaughter?
We do not know the whereabouts of my wifes ex partner, but he has a PR. But he refuses to see her.

2007-04-21 08:56:38 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

she (my indian mother) thinks marriage is something that should be arranged and sooner the better. I am 21 and live in the uk (she lives in india) and i just want to meet the right person at the right time - any advice on what to do?

2007-04-21 08:49:40 · 7 answers · asked by julietinfairverona 2

THAT IS SOMEONE WHO GOES TO SOMEONES HOME THAT NEEDS SUPERVISION, DURING THERE CHILD VISITATION TIME, requested by the courts

2007-04-21 08:42:13 · 4 answers · asked by chinadoll 1

My husband is verbally abusive, I don't trust my in-laws, and when we fight he threatens to get FULL custody. I am TERRIFIED that there is a chance that he would even get 50% custody, let alone 100%. I would agree to supervised visitation, but my husband doesn't pay attention to him now, so I am afraid of what it would be like when my husband has him without me. Once again...he is ONLY 2 Months old, and he is 100% breastfed.

Please give any advice you have!

2007-04-21 08:31:34 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous