Marriage & Divorce - 21 April 2007

I am 5 months pregnant and it's very noticeable, since i started out fairly small. I know in looks i am attractive, but now that i am thsi far along, i don't feel very attractive in a sexual way. My husband does still have sex with me, but is it just cause he wants sex and not cause he finds my body beautiful still? what do you think as a man?

2007-04-21 04:51:25 · 12 answers · asked by sknygurl022002 2

FART! It was a monster fart if I do say so myself. Even air freshener couldn't hinder this beast!

2007-04-21 04:48:04 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

I was told by our circuit clerk that i could file my own divorce but they said i would need the proper papers for alabama. They told me they did not know where i could obtain these papers. Does anyone know where i could find them? Thanks

2007-04-21 04:38:22 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

we started off getting to know eachother, and after a week he asked to come of and I said too soon for that. I live alone that's why. I wanted to take our time for at least a few weeks. It's been a few weeks but since that day. He stopped calling everyday. Now only every3-4 days. He asked me out a week 1/2 ago but hasn't followed up on that. He from another culture. I love that. I wonder if he's not interested in me. I want to invite him over now but he hasn't called in 3 days. I hate waiting. I've done good though-haven't called hardly at all since we met. I have run into to him that was 3 days ago and haven't heard from him. I just can't figure out if he likes me. I don't want to ask him, it's too soon for that. But I do want to feel him out and see if coming will be better to hang out. Then we don't have to spend money. We are both short on money in our jobs. He works FT and goes to school almost FT.

2007-04-21 04:35:50 · 3 answers · asked by Tere S 1

I have a turn-on that my wife doesn't share. I love talking about it, watching it, etc. and I would love for her to at least think about it. She knows about it and knows I'd like her to participate. It doesn't involve her in a sexual act...nothing perverse or demeaning. *From a previous post, I gather I need to disclose it. It's wrestling. Watching two women wrestle competitively.* How persistent should I be before I just totally give up? I don't want to annoy her, but I want her to know to know how much I would enjoy seeing her do it. This is my fantasy and my wife is my dream girl. It makes sense to me...

2007-04-21 04:32:59 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

We were married for 1 yr & 3 mnths.We even hav a child of 1yr (u guyz understand that we commited****that thing earlier widout any prevention)Prob is he is very lazy to work &earn.He also has the habit of Boozing. He forces me to bring money from my parents(his family members are not supportive).I lie to my parents something or the other &bring. But he drinks , wastes all money by giving it to others &spends money lavishly.He also beats me up very badly &next day Compromises.I hav to give my salary also to him . One Main thing i definitely know that i can change him if he 'll leave drinking. He has many times promised me of leaving the drinks but has'nt.He also scolds me very vulgarly.One week back i came back to my mom's house as he scolded me near my office &on the road very badly.I came back to teach him a lesson I know that he also loves me very much &can't live widout me .He came to my place &asked to forgive .But my dad did'nt agree for thant &gave him 2 mnths time to show his c

2007-04-21 03:58:18 · 46 answers · asked by Anonymous

i am a 21 year old mother of 1 gorgeous little boy and i am married to a fantastic man. yes my life sounds perfect but ever since i have given birth to my son, all i do is think negative. i worry about his future like will he be popular etc. i stress about how much attention gets paid not only too me but also my son and my husband. sometimes i stress and think that we are not liked and all kinds of thoughts - ALWAYS NEGATIVE. i feel like i have no friends and when i go to talk to people i think to myself that they dont like me (i think this for no reason at all)this is all very frustrating. negative thinking is taking over my life, i want to live a happy, care free life with my family. This is driving me insane. at a time in my life when i am supposed to be happiest i am actually quite miserable. i am on 21 this should not be happening to me.

2007-04-21 03:34:46 · 18 answers · asked by confused 1

In the case of a woman who is suffering from panic disorder and anxiety and/or depression. Her husband has told her that he is fed up with her and why can't she be normal? He is adrinker and also will not pay any of the bills etc leaves all that to her to worry about even though they are 14thousand in debt.

He insists on sex when he wants it and even if she is feeling unwell or has side effects from her meds he insists and she is not strong enough to say no. If she does say no he gets in a furious mood. I believe she is in an abusive relationship because although he does not hit her he controls her and i think what he does to her is classed as rape. She also self harms but hides that from him as he goes beserk and won't even sleep in the same room when she has done that.

Any advice i can give her appart from 'get out'???

2007-04-21 03:33:58 · 15 answers · asked by Michelle 4

2007-04-21 03:28:20 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-04-21 03:27:20 · 31 answers · asked by Dhiru 1

i m going to uni. after 5 yrs. out of which 4 yrs. i was doing job related to my field and one yr. was house wife. also i m going through separation and i m different country than my homeland. my course will be starting in sep. but i want to prepare myself from now but the problem is whenever i sit to read and try to concentrate, i start thinking about separation, why it happened to me etc. and end up closing the book. when i was a student before 5 yrs., i was a focused and bright student. now i want to become like that again and want to get really good grades, but hows that possible if i continue like this? please give me some good advice - i know it usually takes few years or months to get over separation but in this case, i must perform best in univ. and build my career again i do not have years or months to be sad about it. is there any book or something i can read and heal immediately? any other advice?

2007-04-21 03:15:39 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

My wife of seven years and I are seperating. We have four children and she refuses to go to therapy to try to make things work. She's become very distant, she will sometimes turn away when we embrace. Nothing and I mean nothing bad led up to this. We have had our share of problems in the past, but that was years ago. She works in an emergency room 50 or more hours a week. She does not go out much except to go to work so I don't see how she can be having an affair. Yet, she seems so happy like nothings wrong. I don't get it. I'm still so very much in love w/ her. I feel like crap all the time. I try finding out what's wrong she just says she wants space. Why? I treat her like a goddess. Why doesn
t she want to try to fix things when there's so much we have built together? I feel sick to my stomach over all of this. I don't know what to think or do. She no longer kisses me good-bye or calls during the day, what gives? She acts happy. I'm so miserable. What to do?

2007-04-21 02:43:51 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

I posted a question the other day, and everyone wanted to know what book i was reading that opened my eyes to how badly i was treating my husband...
"The Proper Care & Feeding of Husbands"
by Dr. Laura Schlessinger
one page into the book and i couldnt believe it! i am the luckiest woman in the world, and my husband loves me so much, and all this time i was treating him like dirt. then i would complain that he was ruining our marriage. all this time everything was my fault!!!! I was very pro feminist until now, but am no more. women are so destructive to our relationships, and we dont even realize it... LADIES LOVE YOUR MEN!!!!!

2007-04-21 02:39:05 · 14 answers · asked by *never give up* 4

ok I have been married for 3 years, My husband and brother go out alot they go to clubs and bars -which is fine but last night when my husband must have thought I was asleep him and my brother and a few friends were having drinks when he called this girl he met at a bar one night and I heard him say he called her a few times so I got the phone and called her she said "your husband?" and said you better talk to him about that and so He said he never cheated and I do believe that but why the calls I yelled and screamed at him and told him If he wanted to go out and cheat to Divorce me first and do it now while were still young so I don't have to worry about this anyways I'm hurt and angry as any married woman would be so what should I do what would you do if you were in my shoes? Thankyou

2007-04-21 02:36:46 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-04-21 02:24:51 · 16 answers · asked by sska 1

There is a girl that I met on the internet and we had sex on our third date.
I dont know what to expect from this and since I am from Greece I dont know how things like that work here.
Is that how these things work here in America?
Should I consider it something serious for the future or its just an adventure?

I am wondering because she is still active at yahoo personals. Her activity says-active during the last 24 hours
She also doesnt believe me that I dont have a wife and kids



Thanks in advance

2007-04-21 02:21:41 · 6 answers · asked by afriki 1

Just curious.

2007-04-21 02:11:17 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-04-21 02:10:39 · 9 answers · asked by Eunice M 1

And did you find happiness and peace again?

2007-04-21 02:08:51 · 12 answers · asked by wiser 1 3

I’ve been married for 7 years now and we have a 5 yr old son together. My husband travels every few months on business for weeks at a time leaving me to take care of the boy sometimes on my own. I not only have to put up with a 5yr old but also with my husband being away so it is any surprise I had a year long affair? I’m 31 and deserve a lot better. I don’t plan on telling him about the affair because I just know he’s going to try to make it out to be my fault. Why do so many people automatically assume it’s the cheaters fault for cheating?

2007-04-21 02:08:45 · 32 answers · asked by Tammy 1

2007-04-21 01:37:47 · 17 answers · asked by rold g 1

I have custody of tmy 2 daughters and there mother owes me $11,000 in back support. The child support agency has been very unhelpful. Recently she filed income taxes and the aency told me they would intercept them and send it to me..She called yesterday laughing because she some how received her tax returns..Can the incompetant agency be held reliable? I know dozens of men here in Wisconsin that have been to jail for falling $500 or less behind...shes $11,000 behind and NO action taken yet...any advice?

2007-04-21 01:24:52 · 6 answers · asked by marc54847 1

Everyone has their "thing" that they want/need in a relationship. For some people, missionary position is enough. (Gosh don't know who these people are). For others fuzzy handcuffs and the like are more the flavor of choice. What if your partner was into DD? (please google if you don't know what I'm referring to) I need men's perspectives mostly because men have been raised that it's wrong to hit a women. So what would your reaction be if that's precisely what your partner wanted? (Remember this being a consentual relationship...I'm not talking wife beater here).

Would this be something you'd think your partner needed therapy for or would/could you accept it as a kink? Thanks in advance for opinions and thoughts on the matter.

2007-04-21 01:06:22 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

Explain the mean of love

2007-04-21 00:36:23 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous