2007-04-21 09:34:43 · 26 answers · asked by Kay H 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
YES!!!!!
If he truely loves and respects her he can be turned on by her for years WITH OUT porn.
Real men DON'T NEED PORN!!!!
Porn is nothing but lies and is degrading to women. And it sends a message to wives that if their husband looks at porn, that she's not enough for him.
I'm happily married to my wife of almost 11 years and I don't need porn to be turned on. She does a good job of that herself. Why need porn when I have her.
2007-04-21 11:08:58 · answer #1 · answered by Bryan M 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
As a man, I say yes. Now the question is can that same woman be turned on by that man for years without medication?
2007-04-21 11:54:29 · answer #2 · answered by Robert L 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yep. I've been married to the same woman for 26 years and we never watch porn(she doesn't like it). But we still get down 2-3 times a week and were still experimenting with different techniques. We're into Tantric Sex right now. It's been good from the start and continues to get better every year.
2007-04-21 09:39:27 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Of course he can...but as with everything, familiarity often breeds boredom...so don't let it become boring. Role play, use costumes, etc. And porn...big deal. IF he gets turned on by porn, then comes to bed and really lets you have it, what is the problem here...surely you are not jealous of porn or pics? Porn becomes a problem only when the man prefers to JO to porn than have real sex at all times. occasional jo sessions are normal...we all do it. But if it gets in the way of real sex, a problem is growing.
2007-04-21 09:42:21 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes.I have been married for 10 years and my wife is still the sexiest woman I have ever seen.Although porn can be used as a mood starter but turn it off before any action starts......good luck
2007-04-21 09:38:28 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your answer is YES he can.... If you can think of different ways to keep his attention. Such as when he comes home from work, be in a negligee or naked. Show him that you are the porn star in his life.
If you feel good about your self then don't let the sex life get dull, think of different things to do. ASK him what his fantasies are, then go from there.
2007-04-21 10:14:56 · answer #6 · answered by Army_ABN 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Most definately yes..
Both partners need to be willing to try a few new things occassionally and communicate exactly what they want/need/like and both people can remain turned on by the other... When the communication and imagination break down problems begin to arise..
As long as both parties strive to keep it fresh, fun and exciting both parties can be turned on by the other for a lifetime...
2007-04-21 10:06:07 · answer #7 · answered by Diane (PFLAG) 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why not? I would hope to think that I would still be able to turn my husband on after years of married bliss. We tend to forget what attracted us to the person in the first place. As long as we cultivate that notion, I don't see why things can't stay alive for years to come!
2007-04-21 11:11:44 · answer #8 · answered by Special K 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've been with my bf for over a year now and hes not into porn so yeah its possible
2007-04-21 09:38:34 · answer #9 · answered by Angelique 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yes I really think he can. You just have to keep going for the WOW! You have to keep shocking him so he never gets bored. From men that I know they do say doing the same thing over and over does get boring. Do it in different places, clothing, ways,toys, write nasty notes,play games. Find what works for you! Bring out your freak!
2007-04-21 09:52:01 · answer #10 · answered by mizzy64stelly64 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋