Marriage & Divorce - 7 April 2007

I accused my wife of being a flirt for years. She has always denied it but has just recently admitted that maybe I'm right. There is a thin line between socializing and flirting. How can she distinguish the difference and show me that she wants to make a change.

2007-04-07 09:30:34 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-04-07 09:26:38 · 34 answers · asked by A Real Fan 2

About 8 yrs ago me and my hubby used to watch porn together. That was fine untill I was working 10-12 hr days to come home and find he had been watching porn all day. This bugged me so I made a decision to pull all the porn out of the house.. I thought the problem was gone intill a few days ago I found some really nasty movies in his drawer. I watched about 2 min's of one and was so turned off at how they were degrading the girls whom looked to be about 15 yrs old..
I mentioned it to my hubby that I found the movies and his reply was that they were not his. He said his co-worker burns the movies and sales them. I do not believe him but oh well..
please give me some feedback should I just let it go and forget it or should I leave him???

pornful in cali...

2007-04-07 09:25:32 · 9 answers · asked by sissybombay 3

Get up and clean the entire house so you could relax all weekend?

2007-04-07 09:08:47 · 5 answers · asked by ♥SummerRain♥ 6

Currently i am living with my hubby in texas (not my idea we moved for his job in insurance)but i have a degree in marine biology that i cant use really here and i hate it here!Hubby said it was temporary but now says it perminent. I am working as a secretary at the moment bored out of my mind!He does not get why i am so mad!?I was offered a job as a seal trainer at a zoo in tri-state area also studying the seals and i want to take the job.Considering a divorce at moment.
Read last post if you want the reason.

2007-04-07 08:58:29 · 11 answers · asked by Elle L 1

Tell me what can I do for him. Really what would make you most happy?

2007-04-07 08:56:10 · 5 answers · asked by Submissive 1

Do you love your wife/husband? If not explain why?

2007-04-07 08:46:18 · 16 answers · asked by Anointed71 4

maybe not the same part for everyone, but some part must die. whether is indepentant you, or your hopes and dreams, etc....... why is that?

2007-04-07 08:44:29 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-04-07 08:39:38 · 34 answers · asked by A Real Fan 2

Why do they let themselves be abused by their mates or Even chinese Woman Come on, Get into the Groove, Why cant the men learn that The U.S.A, is no country to abuse woman, Because here is our American country the woman have every right to carry a gun with them at all times, and to fight back our abusive spouse and to move on withourselves with carreers and hope, And one of these days Some stupid foreighner is going to abuse there chick and that chick will pull the trigger on him, and then they will learn

2007-04-07 08:11:05 · 9 answers · asked by trudycaulfield 5

I am an ordinary 15 year old girl and I live with my mum, step dad and 2 younger brothers (3 and 4 years old) my mum tends to get very stressed out about my brothers and uses me as her punch bag to take it all out on! It has come to a point whereby I can’t take it anymore. She physically abuses me and threatens not to tell anyone. I have thought about moving out but everyone says that it is not as easy as it looks. Has anyone got any information about how I can live in the ymca or in a hostel until I am 16? Or any advice on what to do in the mean time?

2007-04-07 08:07:07 · 46 answers · asked by Priyanka R 1

I have been married 3.5 yrs and i feel a mixture of hate/indifference to my hubby .We met my last year of college and we got engaged then married by the end of that year.I dont think we knew each other that well.Problems started on the honeymoon he was ultra christian and still a virgin. I had been with 3 guys before meeting my hubby so i tried to take charge he got upset and the many times after that when i wanted to try something he he turned me down.Our sex life never got any better i hate it and thus far have stopped having sex with him for past 4 months.He trys to force me to go to church since he goes every suday. I prefer to go to my own church(catholic) when i please.Hubby thought i should dress more conservativley and took it upon himself to do some clearing of my wardrobe.I am a free spirt who likes to try new things from food to hobbys and he would rather not most of the time.Feel like he is suffocating me and he never listens.

2007-04-07 08:03:56 · 16 answers · asked by Elle L 1

2007-04-07 07:47:08 · 14 answers · asked by junebug501 3

For 5yrs plus,my relationship with my indifferent husband never improve but only got worsen.Thot d same as otrs,marriage wil turn out ok especially wen blessed wif our lil one who is 4 tis year.Instead of ironing out the issues,trying to find root causes of our differences,he choose to paint pictures to family n frens.I was in tramendous pain n hurt to c him behave meek n weak not daring nor wanting to confront our issues.Tried numerous times talking 2 him,but end up getting no where as he sees no fault of his but stating his own tune.He uses soft approach n that even freaks me even more!!Everything is routine.He works 9-6pm.Lots of time at home to save money.A miser n do not understand to gain more in Gods word,u'l have to give n share wif d others.Slp by 11pm.Laze n not help me wif hswrk,both slp in seperate rm n not'v intimacy let alone sex for 4yrs.Takes baby gal outings on weekends,play an hour n thats enuf as a father besides d provider in monotery?Nw plays Angel suddenly!!!

2007-04-07 07:36:04 · 7 answers · asked by itchi 1

Does anyone need family advice i am an advice columnist.

2007-04-07 07:29:25 · 9 answers · asked by winterbabe24 1

My husband is real jealous. We both have a my space account and he be adding girls and i only would add a boy if he was my sister boyfriend,cousin ,husband or inlaws.

2007-04-07 07:21:36 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

I've got all kinds of nosense from this web but isay God loves you.

2007-04-07 07:19:56 · 12 answers · asked by Ivan o 1

would you let your husband go out all night with his friends and not come home untill the next morning if you were pregnant? if you wouldnt let him but he did anyway what would you do?

2007-04-07 06:57:45 · 19 answers · asked by Gina B 2

I've been with my boyfriend for 5 years now. From day one he's always told me that he could see us getting married, and we were going to one day, and have kids the whole shabang. He knew from the very first weeks of knowing me that my dream was to get married and have kids. I have a medical condition and if I don't have kids by the time I'm 30, my chances of being able to conceive drops 70%. I'm getting ready to turn 27 (2 weeks actually). This has been weighing on my mind and finally I talked to him.He told me he never sees himself getting married. He wants to stay together and still have kids, but not get married. He says he loves me, and can't imagine life without me, but I don't understand the big hang up on marriage then. I don't want to be one of those girls that says "Marry me, or else", but I feel betrayed, and lied to. I love this man with all my heart. He is my dream man, and everything else is great except for this. Time to cut my losses, and take a gamble?

2007-04-07 06:49:05 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

He is the type that doesn't care, and can dish it out, but can't take it. And please no smart answers like I probably am, I need serious answers only.

2007-04-07 06:38:55 · 18 answers · asked by mutt 6

2007-04-07 06:33:12 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous

I let a friend of mine stay at my house last night in our guest room after a night out partying. My husband has been out of town for a long time. My friend came into my room and started to cuddle with me and then he kissed me. I started kissing him back. I stopped it before it went to far but I feel so horrible. I just do not know what to do! Do I tell my husband? Do I spare his feelings being it did not go far? Please help me! I know this is such a horrible thing to do to him. I love him with all of my heart and I really have no idea why I started kissing my friend back. I had been drinking but I do not use that as an excuse. I did stop him. What is the best thing to do?

2007-04-07 06:29:23 · 24 answers · asked by Submissive 1

Cut all ties with their family. If so why and did you ever again include them in your life, any regrets?

2007-04-07 06:25:21 · 9 answers · asked by GoodGirl 3

My husband recently got a high profile job in the entertainment business, and now women call him all the time looking for a job, or trying to get in good with him. When we go to a restaurant we can't even have a private meal without people coming to the table to talk. He was in charge of hiring models during one event, and now he gets barraged with offers to be the new models. I am just not sure how to handle all this attention. I get attention on my own, its not that. It just I am not used to being in the spotlight and being looked at and talked about. I am shy. I just feel like some of these women just see dollar signs when they see him. Any advice would be appreciated.

2007-04-07 06:13:04 · 11 answers · asked by casey308 2

i tried to defend myself about something that my husband accused me of doing. but he didn't wanna listen to me, so raise my voice up. my son was there. so he asked me to leave the house.

2007-04-07 05:57:13 · 17 answers · asked by vic 1

my 21 year old son drinks way to much beer, Now he is in jail for giving beer to minors, Im not working due to a accident and dont have insurance but, he needs help where can I get the help he needs without paying for it? Im not going to bail him out of jail this time ,if he would only understand how much drinking has cost him I think he would quit but he just dont seem to get it

2007-04-07 05:53:10 · 15 answers · asked by gary c just let it play out if u 1

I have caused problems in the marriage, but I usually am not the one to point it out. My wife has always had divorce on the tip of her tongue when trying to get through to me. I wanted to know how other people's relationships end. Do the women usually suggest the divorce? Or is it a mutual thing, or even is the man just tired and wants to get out? And if my wife wanted a divorce, is it right that I lay down and agree, or is it a test?

2007-04-07 05:44:03 · 11 answers · asked by Pachinko Machine 2

instead of marriage what other ways could be special to show a commitment to each other.both 35 year old got kids with previous partners etc. looking for an unique and special gesture of love and commitment to share.

2007-04-07 05:36:54 · 18 answers · asked by purepleasureuk 3

I am 27 yrs old and my hubby is 35 we have been married 6 yrs not so happily he cheated and i cheated to get back at him (but he did not know that till recently).The affair calls into question the paternity of my 2 kids (twins) .Been seperated from hubby 1.5 yrs now and not spoken in 4 months.He came home to attack me (black eye swollen face) because he found out about the affair.The man i had an affair with is an ex.bf from HS who is a mechanic from another town owns a shop.I have no clue how hubby found out because my ex.bf for his own personal reasons never told.So it would have to be one of the men that works their?I want to find out who so he gets fired!

2007-04-07 05:33:39 · 14 answers · asked by Carrie L 1

2007-04-07 05:18:42 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous