Marriage & Divorce - 7 April 2007

2007-04-07 05:09:44 · 8 answers · asked by jumpin jack flash 1

Okay i am 22 and going to graduate from college in the upcoming months! i have been married for about 2 yrs happily.I have a 3.5 yr old son from a prior relationship before i met my hubby.Only 3 people aside from me new who my sons father was my parents and i told my husband when he asked me about it when my son moved in with us 10 months ago.He apparently new my son's bio-father from highschool plus they had been buddy's but he promised not to say anything to anyone.His buddy (also my son's bio-dad)invited us to his wedding 2 months ago and talked my hubby into flying out with us back to nj.I did not want to go but my hubby said he had already rsvp.During a wedding rehersal it came out(fight) what my secret was and that my hubby had cheated on me with the bride 6 months into our marriage?How could my hubby cheat on me?

2007-04-07 05:06:23 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-04-07 04:53:07 · 23 answers · asked by Sandeep Mittal 4

My partner and I only work about 6-12 hours a week, each. We spend the rest of our time together or at least in the same room. Our apartment isn't very big. We're happy with this situation and very comfortable with eachother. How many of you could actually tolerate this? I've known of a few couples who were married for awhile and couldn't stand this! My partner and I have lived together for about 2 years. It really because we are young or is it just us? What do you think?

2007-04-07 04:44:46 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

About a month ago, I found my wife of 24 years has been having an affair with a coworker. She had exchanged upwards of 130 cell phone calls between them, openly lied to me when I asked her if she knew who the number belonged to (I had it verified). I asked her what she was going to do about it; and she said "I'll tell him we're going to patch it up." Now she has purchased a "pay as you go" cell phone plan, usually comes home about 4+ hours after she's scheduled off work (but gets home just before I do) has been wearing "younger style clothing" and dousing herself with perfume more than usual. This is just tearing me up... I've never cheated on her. Both of our kids are "adults" (one is late teens still living at home) I'm going to try counseling, bu how will I ever trust her again?
I appreciate your input.

2007-04-07 04:38:10 · 56 answers · asked by I found out 1

She told me last night that while she was shouting at me she went all hot, sick, dizzy and tight chested and felt like she was ready to pass out.
Even now she says her heart feels like someone has grabbed it and now twisting round.
She knows im worried about her and am helping her but she says she doesnt know how to control it - she says it feels like she goes from 0-60 in half a second.
She's not aggressive physically but shouts and screams too much too soon.
What help other than talking to her available?

2007-04-07 04:33:12 · 19 answers · asked by ? 5

2007-04-07 04:26:46 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

Wow, really, I couldn't care less. He doesn't like the same books I like. In fact, I think he'd rather read comic books. Wow, really I couldn't care less, but he gives me this puppy dog face when I go on the internet instead of watching movies with him, but his movies are so boring. He's watching some James Bond movie right now, but I can't be bothered to pay attention. I get the jokes, but I hate the plot. Should I feel bad?

*Note, I know this is not really a serious question!!!!

2007-04-07 04:20:48 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-04-07 04:06:53 · 27 answers · asked by Angela A 2

2007-04-07 03:47:25 · 16 answers · asked by bella-d46 3

my fiance and i have been going out for two years, i love him sooo much. He's perfect, sweet, kind, loving understanding and a genius in Columbia medical school currently doing residence at 24. He is goreuous 6'9, broad sholders, tan, black hair, blue eyes, in amazing shape. One problem he is a virgin, by choice philosophical/religous reasons.I lied to him and said i was. He is Catholic, doesn't act holier than thou and very understanding. A friend of mine dated him for a while she told him that she wasn't a virgin from the start, they were together for awhile, she said he was wonderful, understanding and always a gentlemen she said he said it happens, id be lying if i said i didnt wish you were, but love you and thats what matters, she wants him back and she knows i lied. Anyway, we were dating for two months and he told me I though he was kidding and said i was. its true friends told me, and i lied more i was scared. I love him so much. this week made me feel awful

2007-04-07 03:43:07 · 8 answers · asked by blondebabe24x 1

about 4 years ago i had met my hubby we had only had 1 date we werent in a serious relationship at that point we had just met and i had slept with someone else i had spent the past 3 and a half years trying to tell him but when every i try he seems to cut me off and i get side tracked VERY easily anyways we got married june 2006 recently i finally just broke down one day and blurted it out that i had slept with this guy a long time ago i hate hiding things from my hubby were always very honest with each other now he does not trust me and im not aloud to call or even see this guy (this guy has been one of my closest friends for ever we were very intoxicated ) my hubby gets very angry when i even mention this guy i do regret what i did but i wasnt even going out with my hubby then i just felt he should know what should i do i want to keep my friend and my hubby serious answers only please

2007-04-07 03:27:55 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

the Russian prostitute i hired for the week....she doesnt speak english & keeps noding her head &smiles when i tell her to get out.

2007-04-07 03:19:06 · 40 answers · asked by Anonymous

If ur husband came home late at say 1am after saying he'd be home by 10pm after night out. Doesn't let you know he's stayin a bit longer. Worried u 4n him several times at 12 midnight, no reply. Ignores ur 4n calls. When you ask him he says he lost track of time. Next couple of days he still ignores you when u 4n him or text him even to just say hi.

2007-04-07 03:07:52 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

So what do you think of marriage right out of high school? Like if you are both truly in love with each other and want to be together forever and start a family.

2007-04-07 02:52:36 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous

I would like to know what is the law in a muslim country when a non muslim man converts to islam so that he can take advantage of the islamic sharia law to his advantage. The man is hindu married to non muslim but now he would like to convert to islam so that he does not have to pay alimony and have two wives. Originally married under the indian marriage act. Does this mean that the sharia law will apply now that he has converted? Doesn't the original law apply ie the law of indian marriage act to the woman. Which law would apply to the non muslim first wife? Under what basis can she fight her case? The husband is having an affair with a muslim lady in a muslim country. Is it true that he can easily divorce his first wife and pay only for three months of maintainence? Is it easy to convert to islam?

2007-04-07 02:50:00 · 7 answers · asked by Lady D 1

I just answered a question .... where a lady had just found out that her husband had built up a £15k debt..... and she was thinking about leaving him.....

I just found it a bit sick as they have 2 kids and had been together for 8 years ..... to throw it all away because of £15k....doesnt seem rational to me.....

surely love is more important than money....isnt it...?

2007-04-07 02:49:48 · 22 answers · asked by Fox Hunter 4

A little background first, I quit drinking a year ago because my wife cannot handle her alcohol and we were fighting all the time when we drank.

Last weekend she wanted me to go to a party with her and her coworkers and I said no. I asked her to please not get drunk and drive. She said ok, of course she got drunk and crashed on our friends couch and then drove home in the morning. .

Last night she got home and said I have to go to a party with my coworkers and would you please go. I said no again, I have my son this weekend. I was woke up at 6 this morning with her crying and saying she had a problem. She reeked of booze and said I was raped at the party. I am suspicious, she didn't call, she went to the hospital supposedly and a rape kit was done, she says the guy was arrested, she has a small black eye, no other sign of struggle, she's very defensive, I am not getting much info. Yes she has lied to me before but not on this level. How should I handle this?

2007-04-07 02:48:23 · 15 answers · asked by Cliffy 2

It's really annoying. He keeps trying to touch my ears and that is the most disgusting thing ever so I yelled at him and laughed him. He just laughed, so I licked my finger and stuck it in his ear, then he held me down and touched my ears. What am I to do?

2007-04-07 02:26:00 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

i am (unhappily) married and in love with a guy i work with who has a girlfriend. He has told me that he is very sexually attracted to me, as i am to him. He has a girlfriend that he sees and talks to every once in awhile. He tells everyone that he is unhappy in his relationship, but doesn't want to be without her (they've been together for 10yrs), but don't live together. he has said he is afraid to have a long term commitment type relationship because of his divorce and of this relationship with his girlfriend. i'm not sure how to handle this...i want a relationship with him, but he doesn't....for now. how to i handle this situation??? we are really interested in each other...we talk everyday at work, and at nite online. Only serious answers please.

2007-04-07 02:23:03 · 12 answers · asked by Verge 2

Do you just pay child support, or also play some important role in childs life, how do u manage two lifes, dont u feel like going back to hr, what about kid how do u deal with that and what about ur current gf and all that.

Please advice me how to deal with such a situation, how painful it is to break up with ur pregnant but cheater gf.

2007-04-07 02:17:07 · 4 answers · asked by Krish d 1

My BF and I would have/have been together for a year at the end of this month. In Dec. his ex. gave birth to a duaghter and said it was his. The paternity results came back about a week ago and she IS his.

His ex was so in love with him, and ironically said she didnt know sh was preg. until she gave birth ( a month early, she was due in jan 07).

This has put a tremendous strain on our realationshiop. Last night he was babysitting his daughter for the first time alone last night. I was there for about 15 min then left. I called him up and said that being with him hurt me more, so i'd rather be withouth.

I love him SO MUCh and he does the same. But this is SO hard for me to deal with this. The ex. has a new BF and seems to be living the life while our relati. is pretty much in the hole.

I also had an abortion in Oct. 06 and every since that day ive had a hard time dealing with it. And then this new baby comes and it even more difficutlt.

Please SERIOUS REPSONSES

2007-04-07 02:02:37 · 10 answers · asked by SouthCackalacky 1

just something i was thinking about.........whilst on porn

2007-04-07 01:58:50 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-04-07 01:58:20 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

ok here is the funny thing, i was typing out other questions and i received a call from my ex, she was asking how was i and stuff, no i dont have feelings for her anymore, we talk like brothers and sisters, sounds grouse huh ? well that is how we talk no hushy mushy stuffs, and i ussually ask her how is life and all ,, is it wrong ? i used to feel wrong last time maybe because i had some feelings or sexual thingy but not anymore, i dont have anything in my heart,, what is your opinion ?

2007-04-07 01:52:53 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

Especially to the husbands out there. Do you dare to have office flings? Is it possible? What happens afther the short stint? Do you know what I mean?
At least once right? What happens after?Guilt?

2007-04-07 01:44:03 · 13 answers · asked by Amy R 1