Tell me what can I do for him. Really what would make you most happy?
2007-04-07 08:56:10 · 5 answers · asked by Submissive 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Speaking only for myself and not necessarily recommending this solution to everyone, you could make up to me for something horrible by handing me a hairbrush, pulling down your pants and lying across my lap. That would make *me* most happy. You may wish to consider other solutions.
2007-04-07 12:52:47 · answer #1 · answered by MrStern 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Well, if you didn't tell him about your friend's little pass, then you really have to be careful you don't over do it on the make up or he'll ask what it's all about.
If you did tell him, which you probably should, if as you say, nothing happened. Then it depends on how he reacted. If he got mad at you, then probably just apologize and do everything you can to avoid any issues that make him mad until he calms down. If he got mad at your friend, then try to spend time with your hubby, not just in bed, but spend a whole evening just doing stuff together.
And either way, your friend is no longer your friend. He went too far, and you have to cut him loose. If you can't do that, then you are partly to blame, because you fell for him somewhere along the way.
2007-04-07 16:19:31 · answer #2 · answered by rohak1212 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I'll have to agree with "free-lan". The best thing is "HONESTY". Whether you did cheat on him or it's totally something else. Communication and straight up honesty will be the very best way to make start and mend things. I would want my wife to sit with me and explain to me what had happened. No need for all the details but come out and be as honest as you can without trying to covers things up. This would be greatly appreciated. From there, the two of you need to discuss, what's next . There will probably be lots of questions, answer as best as can. If you truly want to, you find the strength to do it. Good luck.
2007-04-07 16:26:24 · answer #3 · answered by howzit 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
END IT NOW WITH FRIEND!
You cheated on husband and your marriage and yourself too! Now , you must come clean with husband, you must tell all, to him the whole story and nothing but HONESTY at that, and then offer him the opportunity to either forgive you or divorce you!
Go to counseling, with husband if he forgives you and then work on your marriage with husband!
2007-04-07 16:10:10 · answer #4 · answered by Free-Lance 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
umm id suggest a getting new lingerie and giving him a great night... im talking scnted candles the whole shibang... (SEX if you didnt catch my hints)
2007-04-07 16:01:22 · answer #5 · answered by linkin_brandon973 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋