Marriage & Divorce - 23 September 2006

My son is getting married. Their children will be less than perfect and for several generations my family has been marrying in order to produce better children. I am 6 foot 9 and my IQ is 162. My wife is 6 foot 3 and her IQ is 160. We have two sons. Our son that is getting married is 7 foot and has an IQ of 164, however the woman he is marrying is 5 foot 1 and has an IQ of 108. Their children will be inferior, what can I do to change his mind?

2006-09-23 09:26:29 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous

I help my wife around the house, do the dishes every day, cook about half the meals, mow the lawn, sweep & mop the kitchen floor every few days, clean the bathroom, etc. I vacuum the carpet once a week but she says to vacuum every day. I think that is excessive. How often do you think carpets need to be vacuumed?

2006-09-23 09:25:42 · 22 answers · asked by roskez13 5

My husband is a builder, all of the assets are in his name. He has been emotionally abusive for several years. I have nothing but my car and my children. I have no where to live or work.
I don't know what the next step in the process is.

2006-09-23 09:23:18 · 19 answers · asked by KAL 1

Do they cover a brides face? Or are they the thing that they wear in the back of their heads? What is the purpose of a wedding veil??

2006-09-23 09:10:06 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

I don’t understand why all of my significant others including my present one always ***** about money.

I mean really, even when I was the only wage earner I was still bitched at.

This relationship I am in now is the only one where I haven’t been the only wage earner.

I do not “ask” for everything and I do not want much, rent a few movies once a month or so, maybe take me out to dinner now and again, just general spending time with me.

That must be way too much for all of them.

The current one is ending up so much like the first that it is getting hard to distinguish the difference between the two, except that now it’s with a female and before it was a male.

A lazy male , sleeping all the time, computer junkie, who didn’t care if we were together or not cause we lived together what more time can you spend with someone. “We are together all the time, what do you mean you want time, how much more can you want?”

He used to say that, and now she does…

Is it me? Am I the one that is doing something that they don’t like, to the point they do not even want to be seen with me in public, or what?

She says I am reading too much into it and granted I probably am to a degree, but really what else am I to think about the whole situation?

She doesn’t like what I like, the music, the movies, the games, nothing… Why does she like me if we have nothing in common at all? Yea, I know differences attract but there has to be something there that the couple can do together even if it’s just playing a game of cards sometimes, but she doesn’t even like that either.

I have never loved someone as much as I love her, Never…

I love her children completely as if they were my own.

But saying that, the ole additive comes into play… “Is Love always enough?”

I say it could be, if she could just stop fussing at me about stuff that just doesn’t fit all the time.

I could understand if we were destitute and had nothing and I wanted something, but it has never been that way I am not stupid, but she thinks so. That is not a guess I assure you.

Maybe if she spent a few hours with me every evening, I don’t know …

But I did try that with the “Male” and it didn’t work.

I don’t know… I just don’t know what to do anymore.

Maybe just do nothing, yet everything, never ask for a thing, never complain that’s there’s no communication, Nothing.

Why?

2006-09-23 08:53:16 · 20 answers · asked by krystinah 2

2006-09-23 08:51:57 · 37 answers · asked by KAL 1

2006-09-23 08:47:42 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

and how did you know that they were the "one"?

2006-09-23 08:44:03 · 64 answers · asked by stokegal 2

When he asked me to marry him I told him that I want to wait atleast 8 mths before we got married. We have been back and forth in our communications and really don't know each other that well. So I decided that I want to go back to dating only.I told him I want to slow the relationship down. But it does not seem that he understand that and still is trying to buy me a ring. He works too much and I have some questions about some of the things that he tells me. I think that he has a drug habit. But says that he does not. And he loves to talk slang to me. Which, I hate. And when I tell him things that I don't like it he takes it for a joke. Pretty much I realize he is not who I want to me with at this point so that is why I want to go back to dating only maybe we just need more time. But how do I tell him this with out hurting his feelings? And how will I know if he understands and will respect that?

2006-09-23 08:36:04 · 21 answers · asked by mstweety123 2

especially when you are feeling better with that person than with your spouse.when that person can do more for you in words than your spouse can do period. and i dont mean sexually i mean emotionally.

2006-09-23 08:31:54 · 10 answers · asked by super girl 3

you left your house keys to your wife who is deaf and dumb.you left for work that day,and you told her that you were not coming back that night.But unfortunately,you came back very late that night and she was sleeping.how would you tell her that you are back?

2006-09-23 08:29:12 · 16 answers · asked by george 1

Will someone please tell me what it means when your wife of three years trys to contact her ex boyfriend on myspace?

2006-09-23 08:23:13 · 30 answers · asked by ossifer8301 2

2006-09-23 08:20:52 · 13 answers · asked by Len Rose 1

2006-09-23 08:17:18 · 8 answers · asked by sneakyflip5 1

2006-09-23 08:12:35 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

It is, on all ground, customerised that being loyal to each other in married life is the most desired situation in this world. Also addition of immense love for one another makes the taste of life marvelous. But is it paid in earth or heaven after death? Or is it just cordial formality ?

2006-09-23 08:12:12 · 9 answers · asked by computersir 1

2006-09-23 08:12:05 · 14 answers · asked by Len Rose 1

I JUST GOT MARRIED AND NEED TO CHANGE MT NAME HOW DO I DO THIS?

2006-09-23 08:11:16 · 3 answers · asked by kelly 3

If a man doesn't want to be in his childs life, the woman uses the 'ole "YOU NEED TO BE IN YOUR CHILDS LIFE AND YOU WILL BE IN YOUR CHILDS LIFE" routine... If a man WANTS to be a father... the woman uses the 'ole "YOU WILL NEVER SEE YOUR CHILD AGAIN" routine... This usually only applies towards woman whom have been scorned. You RARELY see a man do this!!! *i know it has happened, but it is a rarety*

2006-09-23 08:05:42 · 9 answers · asked by Joshua C 1

2006-09-23 07:52:46 · 13 answers · asked by super girl 3

I,ve been giving me sister in law one for a few months now but the silly cow left her earing in the bed and the wife's only gone and found it, well the ol womans gone SUPERNUTS and challenged us, of cause we both denied it but she been suspicious of our affair now for a while. She is quite a violent wife and says if she finds out we have been sh agging while she has been at work she will break her sisters nose and john bobbit me, so i ask who the hell is JOHN BOBBIT?????????????

2006-09-23 07:50:18 · 21 answers · asked by qcumber man 3

Last April I went and looked at an apartment, and came home to tell my husband about it...he was busy and could not come with me. While trying to talk he got frustrated stood up and slammed his fist straight down infront of me on the table. I said your mean. Then he screamed at me "**** You.", I asked him to lower his voice and he said "I don't ******* care." I told him that I cannot be with someone that is going to treat me this way and he said "There is the ******* door leave then." I cannot beleive I was treated this way by someone who says they love me, and it still hurts inside me...any thoughts to help me? What do you think of this behavior? Thanks.

2006-09-23 07:30:25 · 17 answers · asked by ilih2006 1

2006-09-23 07:23:48 · 11 answers · asked by leeash192004 1

okay we had a dna test , father didnt sign birth certificate, child has mothers last name. mother and father are married.
father is homeless- living with his mom, no stable job no car.
mother has partly stable job she works 4 days a week, has 2 cars, has own house.

who would get custody? my husband is mentally abusive, curses at my 2 y/o son. i want a restraining order monday
do i get to keep my son? he is really mean to him and gets mad if my son pukes. its sad

please help what do i do?

2006-09-23 07:23:37 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

my husband and i are separated. he says that we are because we need time to ourselves to clear our minds of some things. he bases some of his decisions according to the "Word". he doesn't believe in adultery or divorce. but i'm afraid that during this trial separation, he me find companionship else where or he may not return to me.

2006-09-23 07:11:47 · 7 answers · asked by leeash192004 1

im going to marry my muslim bf in november and people are giving us both alot of hassle about it and i just want to know what other peoples views are

2006-09-23 07:06:20 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband is in Iraq,and I want to do something very special for him,he comes home next year at end of April or the beginning of May.Money is not an issue.

2006-09-23 06:58:20 · 13 answers · asked by MS.KNOW IT ALL 3

She found it on my computer once before. I told her never again. Impulse caught up with me and so did she when she came back home sooner than I expected. She even hates if I watch something on TV in which there may be nudity or hot girls. She will get upset and go to her room and lock the door. That boggles my mind because she is a freak in bed (good way)...but the fact that I lied and promised no more porn is the worst part. I feel she is very insecure. I guess it is because I am looking at other women bodies , and that I lied. I am 25, she just turned 21. Do you think this will go away as she matures? Or do I get out now as she is too controlling? We have dated for a year and a half and lived together for a few months now. I love this girl to death but afraid it can only get worse.
Little help here!?!?!?! We both have talked about marriage before, but no way if this gets worse. I am in no hurry to rush into anything regardless of this situation or not.

2006-09-23 06:54:56 · 30 answers · asked by Jenkins 2

I found out a month ago my husband has been cheating on me, for over a year, and with numerous women. He has never said he's sorry for doing it. He's ony apologized for possibly giving me something I can't get rid of, and says he will continue to cheat unless I give him what he needs. About a week ago, he told me he loves me and wants me, but he's still communicating with these other women. In fact, the other day, he was text messaging me within the same half hour of talking with one of them.

I have hired an attorney, and will be filing for divorce. He still shreds his cell phone bills and is very protective of these other women. Isn't very forthcoming with information, when at this point I have every right to know anything I ask. He doesn't see the point of it, and never will. I truly believe I'm better off without him.

2006-09-23 06:52:12 · 13 answers · asked by MaknMeCrzy 2

O.K. Long story short. My husband got mad at me three days ago. We didn't have a fight per se; he just got mad at me because I was late meeting him somewhere. Since then, he has ignored me completely for three days. He seems very angry with me and I'm miffed about silent treatment. I've been very neutral and calmly asked him how he is or if he's angry. But he doesn't even answer my questions!
Now he is an immigrant who moved here only 5 months ago, and I know he's having adjustment problems. We need to live here (the U.S) because he doesn't work at all and we rely on my money and job here. I've done everything I can to make the adjustment smooth for him by getting him involved in English classes and gym. The reason he's angry with me has to do with the amount of hours I have to put in my job....but what can I do...I'm the sole provider.
Everyone here would tell me to have a serious talk with him. But he won't talk to me. We haven't even slept in the same bed for three days

2006-09-23 06:46:52 · 7 answers · asked by Ms.Kimchi 1