and how did you know that they were the "one"?
2006-09-23 08:44:03 · 64 answers · asked by stokegal 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
got married for the first time when i was 18 was divorced by the time i was 20 Then I got married again when i was 22 and im now going through my second divorce im 24 now. You dont ever know that there the one you just take a chance and if it doesn't work then it doesn't work but i'll never have any regrets because I wouldn;t be who i am today if I'd never got married to either of them.
2006-09-23 08:49:20 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've never thought anyone was the "one" so I haven't been there. I once thought it was on the cards, but realised it wouldn't work and have never strayed down that road again. I'm in my late 30s now so who knows if I'll ever go there as I'm more cynical now and used to my own space. When I thought I might do it my heart would do little somersaults at the thought, even after arguments and fall outs but there were just too many other problems between us it was like climbing Mount Everest. I guess if I was faced with it again you have to have the love and trust to be prepared to just take a great big leap of faith into the unknown together, because you can never know for sure. But if it feels right and you love and trust each other then you've got a pretty solid foundation to build on.
2006-09-23 17:16:13 · answer #2 · answered by janebfc 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am single, a lot of people get married around the age of 21. In my opinion, I think the age of 24 is a good age to get married though. People feel it in their hearts and soul when they are find the right person to get married. You get along with each other and you can trust and communicate with each other well.
2006-09-23 08:59:20 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
We got married when I was 19, he was 21. We knew each other since I was 12 (he is my best friends brother) and started dating when I was 16, moved in together when I was 17 (to escape my mom). I do love my husband (we have 3 great kids together), but I think it probably wasn't the best idea. We should have waited (although I am glad I got away from my mom). I should have gone to University (having to do that part time w/3 young kids and working isn't easy), we should have had time and space. I had my 3rd baby by the time I was 24. We jumped in headfirst and are still suffering from major concussions!
No it has never been easy, but I don't think it is supposed to be.
2006-09-23 15:52:16 · answer #4 · answered by Tawnja N 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-09-23 09:52:29 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was 30yrs old when I married my soul mate.......but that was after spending 10 years with the wrong man and 4 years on my own. I had a lot of learning on my side when I met my current husband and I feel that it really helped with my maturity and growth when we got together. But on the purely romantic side of things, I just knew that I would spend the rest of my life with him, I had never ever felt so loved completely in my life other that with him. On the day we married, as I stood in the back room in the church waiting for my father to come and tell me that they were ready for me to walk down the isle. I had a few minutes to myself, I was so calm so at peace with the decision, I was not in the least bit nervous or scared, I knew because I had absolutely no questions in my mind or heart that I was defiantly making the right decision. There was absolutely no question that he was the one that I would be for the rest of my life. I know it sounds cliche' but you just know.
2006-09-23 09:15:21 · answer #6 · answered by NolaDawn 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm 25 and I'm marrying my soul mate who's 22, i know he is the one as we have been together 2 years now and have had to go through many ups and downs as we are not the same religion and his parents think he should marry a Muslim girl, but we have still decided that we must follow our hearts. we know that once we are married will be together 4Eva.
2006-09-23 09:49:25 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was 21 and he was 23. That was 8 years ago and it was the smartest thing I've ever done.
I can't say exactly how I knew he was the one, but I guess I can say that it was the very first relationship that I was in that I never for one second questioned. So I guess I knew he was the one, because I never had to ask myself if he was the one- it was a foregone conclusion at the start.
:-)
2006-09-23 08:58:45 · answer #8 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was 27 and we'd already been together for 7 years. Next week we will have been married for 4 years and next month we will have been together for 12!
After that long we were pretty sure! When we got married we'd been together longer than my parent's marriage lasted so i thought that was a good sign :)
2006-09-23 08:49:25 · answer #9 · answered by Andromeda Newton™ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was 17
2006-09-23 10:44:47 · answer #10 · answered by SWEET LIL ME 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋