2006-09-23 08:47:42 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
As an ex husband and father...it's hard to tell you. But you must...I emphasize MUST. you must sit down with him and tell him...but furthermore...you must tell him why. don't give that bs about "I'm just not happy" or "I don't feel complete". If you have someone else now tell him...although trust me that won't work out for you and your lover if you are cheating on him either. If you was in love enough to marry him,,,then both of you need to know what is wrong. Maybe...just maybe if you tell him why then both of you can work to change that. that doesn't mean that you will work it out but at least you both will know what is going on and know that you was honest about it and have the option of reconsidering your choices.
2006-09-23 09:30:51 · answer #1 · answered by Kenneth S 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sit down and have a talk with him and let him know your intentions. I am certain there will be many questions asked, so be prepared to answer the best you can.
2006-09-23 16:49:21 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just flat out tell him - don't play games or beat around the bush - just say it. It won't be easy, but it will be short and to the point.
Good Luck!
Aloha!!
2006-09-23 15:51:51 · answer #3 · answered by gabriel_demus 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i mat be 13 but tell him that u wanna be friends and then tell him that u still dont fell complet so i love that ur not lettin anything in ur way but stay up and good luck
2006-09-23 15:50:07 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Chances are that if you feel this way he feels it too.
Just sit down and talk to him about it. It isn't that hard to do. Find a quiet time to discuss this issue.
Please have enough respect for him to talk to him before you have legal papers served to him.
2006-09-23 15:50:48 · answer #5 · answered by physandchemteach 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Tell him you both deserve to feel happiness and that you don't and that you cannot see it happening anymore with him.
2006-09-23 15:55:09 · answer #6 · answered by chief8166 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him when he raped u on the honeymoon u pretty much knew he was the wrong one!
2006-09-23 15:49:49 · answer #7 · answered by dreamy 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I told my ex that i didn't love him anymore and that pretty much set the mood.
2006-09-23 16:07:49 · answer #8 · answered by NolaDawn 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
set him down i would say in public and tell him whats on your mind
2006-09-23 15:57:30 · answer #9 · answered by stevens_monroe 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him it's over.just like that... i mean he's going to find out anyway. just go straight and to the point and explain why if you have too
2006-09-23 15:51:31 · answer #10 · answered by prometida 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋