If a man doesn't want to be in his childs life, the woman uses the 'ole "YOU NEED TO BE IN YOUR CHILDS LIFE AND YOU WILL BE IN YOUR CHILDS LIFE" routine... If a man WANTS to be a father... the woman uses the 'ole "YOU WILL NEVER SEE YOUR CHILD AGAIN" routine... This usually only applies towards woman whom have been scorned. You RARELY see a man do this!!! *i know it has happened, but it is a rarety*
2006-09-23 08:05:42 · 9 answers · asked by Joshua C 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I realize not ALL women are like this.... BUT PLEASE, Tell my WHY that women that do this... DO THIS!!!
2006-09-23 08:10:40 · update #1
APPARENTLY, some people JUST CAN'T READ... I understand NOT ALL WOMEN are like this - and SOME MEN do this; however, when this situation occurs - it is mostly done by women. PLEASE READ THE PREVIOUS STATEMENT. I only want to hear from people who can comprehend this VERY SIMPLE QUESTION!!! I don't want to hear from an ape who has learned to walk erect and talk. If you answer with "Some men do this, or some women are not like this..." or something similar to that, then you are a moron with ability to reason.
2006-09-25 08:35:05 · update #2
because some women are immature and should realize it's the kids that get hurt the most out of it. it's between the 2 adults, the kids should not be put in the middle, the kids love both parents and shouldn't be used to hurt the other one.they really need both parents in there life unless one is a alcoholic, abusive or drug addict.
2006-09-23 08:16:18 · answer #1 · answered by smurfette_ftwayne 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think it is the other way around..I know plenty of women who have been scorned but the guy is the one being a low-life..
Expecting everyone to revolve their life around him..including the children.
and I am saying like 90% OF THE FRIENDS I KNOW going through divorce and seperation.
Alot of women dont want their kids hurt but the guy wants to see the kids only when he wants to..not being mature to follow scedule
wants to help support the kid he made ONLY when HE wants to.
and usually puts a girlfriend infront of his kids needs.
or he shows irresponsability by not living straight..drugs,alchohol.
So it goes both ways..talking about people ive seen in their relationships not saying %100 of men are like that
but YES i have seen men do this...using kids as wedges
my sis-n-law went thru that
2006-09-23 08:25:26 · answer #2 · answered by sHiNe 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's sad, isn't it? they are really hurting the child most of all. But a scorned woman is feeling grief, maybe abandoned. It depends on what happened to the relationship. They probably just want to hurt the father back as much as they were hurt, or perceived that they were hurt.
2006-09-23 08:15:39 · answer #3 · answered by bathagent 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Because the courts allow it to happen. The only way to stop that practice is to assign a parenting coordinator to come up with a shared parenting plan to put the kids first. Kids needs love and support from both parents!
2006-09-23 14:01:16 · answer #4 · answered by chancesare45 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The best I can say is "Who knows?!"Some times,it's just a way get back on the guy whom she deems the cause of her pain.Some times it's to try and gain some leverage in what she might feel is a hopeless situation.A desperate attempt to make him stay,or give in to her demands,or whatever.
2006-09-23 08:18:10 · answer #5 · answered by Enigma 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not all women are this way. However, they usually are trying to hurt the father and/or make him feel guilty about not being involved.
2006-09-23 08:12:58 · answer #6 · answered by fdrsnail 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
not all women are like this.. my sons "sperm donor" is not in his life. not since the day i told him i was pregnant. and really. i could care less..
2006-09-23 08:09:24 · answer #7 · answered by kyrracampbell 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
men would do it too if children were staying with their fathers after divorce, not with their mothers.
2006-09-25 01:23:13 · answer #8 · answered by Annie 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
my daughter doesn't need to socialize with filth.
2006-09-23 08:12:45 · answer #9 · answered by prettysexycalves 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋