I found out a month ago my husband has been cheating on me, for over a year, and with numerous women. He has never said he's sorry for doing it. He's ony apologized for possibly giving me something I can't get rid of, and says he will continue to cheat unless I give him what he needs. About a week ago, he told me he loves me and wants me, but he's still communicating with these other women. In fact, the other day, he was text messaging me within the same half hour of talking with one of them.
I have hired an attorney, and will be filing for divorce. He still shreds his cell phone bills and is very protective of these other women. Isn't very forthcoming with information, when at this point I have every right to know anything I ask. He doesn't see the point of it, and never will. I truly believe I'm better off without him.
2006-09-23 06:52:12 · 13 answers · asked by MaknMeCrzy 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I GOT TESTED..I'M IN THE CLEAR, THANK GOD.
2006-09-23 15:13:57 · update #1
What are our choices ?
2006-09-23 08:23:19 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are. I found out husband #1 was cheating after only being married three weeks. I was devastated and so angry. It took a while for that to go away. Life goes on and you will be fine. They are many great men out there. Don't ever have regrets about leaving.
2006-09-23 13:57:12 · answer #2 · answered by Fleur de Lis 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's something that people will never understand. If you are going to cheat then at least get a divorce first, right? God men are so dumb when it comes to relationships. Go get yourself checked and file for the divorce and get his *** for adultery. You are absolutely right, you deserve better than him. I think they really expect us to just forgive and forget. Sorry men, women really are the smart ones when it comes to cheating.
2006-09-23 14:04:04 · answer #3 · answered by Just_Curious 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl you are correct you are better oof without him
my dearest friend in the world end up with AIDS
because she did not beleive she was better off without him
Keep the Strengh
Good Luck
2006-09-23 14:01:22 · answer #4 · answered by waiting for baby 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, Mei Mei, you obviously aren't a fool if you're already in the throws of getting rid of this ******!
Stay strong and know things will get better. And when they do, find someone who will truly love you and no one else!!
Good Luck!
Aloha!!
2006-09-23 13:58:11 · answer #5 · answered by gabriel_demus 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't have sex with him anymore, what in the world are still living with him if he gave you a disease., you say you can't rid of of that
disease. I don't what the he gave you but you better go to another doctor, you have a quack.
2006-09-23 14:24:42 · answer #6 · answered by Nicki 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go thru with your divorce and don't ask any more questions. Be done with it and let him do what he's going to do. It's time for you to start detaching emotionally and not caring what he does. He doesn't care does he? Let him go and move on.
2006-09-23 20:30:05 · answer #7 · answered by trainer53 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Great that you are leaving him, but drag him through the mud when you take him to court because of the disease that he gave you. Take him for all that he is worth.
2006-09-23 14:30:18 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
a firned of mine went through the same thing...just don't ask for every single detail...it will haunt you for a very long time...just pack, get your respectable half and leave. but don't leave first, be in control.
2006-09-23 14:06:18 · answer #9 · answered by jazz_thieves 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hope your attorney can bring into evidence that he gave you something...he needs to pay for that through the nose.
Hope you can kick his butt in the courtroom...
2006-09-23 14:11:34 · answer #10 · answered by OleMarbleEyes 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You go girl! Let that bastard go and good luck!
2006-09-23 13:58:10 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋