2006-09-23 08:51:57 · 37 answers · asked by KAL 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Do you have kids to reassure? If not then find yourself again.
2006-09-23 08:55:07 · answer #1 · answered by wanttolpve 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
File for a divorce. Once the divorce is complete you begin your new life. Join clubs or interest groups and meet new people. You may want to take classes at a community college to further your career. Get out and enjoy life! DO NOT hang around in bars. You never meet the right kind of people there. REMEMBER that you do not need a man to complete yourself. You are capable of being a whole person without being married or having a boy friend.
2006-09-23 08:55:32 · answer #2 · answered by physandchemteach 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I suppose the time to think about this one was before you made your move. Now, do whatever is necessary to support yourself and get happy! You are rid of a stone around your neck, you are the same person you were BEFORE you married, and you have a whole world waiting for you. Give yourself some time before you dive back into the "love" scene, think about what was wrong, what went wrong and avoid the same "type" the next round. If you are attracted to "bad Boys," change yourself starting today. Good luck and peace.
2006-09-23 08:56:11 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The primary need presently is to get your thinking back into an order you can feel comfortable with. Gain some confidence in yourself! Then set some important goals for you life. Become active in volunteer work or anything to keep you busy and your mind occupied with anything other than your problems in a marriage or out of it.
Is an opportunity to make yourself over, just as you want to be.
2006-09-23 08:55:42 · answer #4 · answered by mrcricket1932 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take a huge break. Talk about this to your family and friends and get this out of your system. Then focus on all the things that went worng and make a commitment that you will not go through the same phase again.
If you are religious, turn to GOD and pray and do some deep meditation to find out who you are and what are you going to seek in the near future.
Stay strong and cry when necessary to get all of it our from your body and mind. Good Luck.
2006-09-23 09:15:08 · answer #5 · answered by US 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask yourself that. Do you make major decisions irrational all the time? You should seek counseling. You seem as though you really do not know what you want out of life. Your decisions are coming between relationships, mental health well being, and you are confused. Life is not a journey that we stroll down it is a path that we take to get to our destiny. You seem very lost and not getting what life is all about. Please, get some help and guidance. When you get on a good path and you know where your life is taking you, you can just live. Best of Mental Health and life long happiness to you!
2006-09-23 08:56:34 · answer #6 · answered by Shayna 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you need to find a secure place to live. and if you 2, are not getting back together, file for a divorce and move on. or try counseling. you need to do what's best for you Hun. and your kids if you have any? i wish you luck. you can write me if you like. i hope everything will go well for you.
Tasha
i know how that goes. been there. i moved on and found a wonderful husband now.
2006-09-23 08:56:22 · answer #7 · answered by tash 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I left my husband I would be completely lost.
2006-09-23 08:58:30 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to a lawyer. You need to protect your assets. Take a year or at least a few months to get to know yourself again before you begin dating again. Be strong and independent and know what went wrong with that relationship so that you don't make the same mistake again.
2006-09-23 08:55:09 · answer #9 · answered by just browsin 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
have completed all that was there.
have you seen what intense mirror he has been for you and you for him?
What you can do is look into your heart and let that little voice speak
Develop yourself spiritually
be the whole woman
there's many books
one of the best boks is anatomy of the spirit by caroline myss
or any of her other books
for support to live life according to you destiny
asl alfons for help.
www.alfonsven.com
love frans
2006-09-23 08:57:06 · answer #10 · answered by franslaimbock 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go and have lots of fun meet new people go on a trip. good god the world is yours to explore now so get out there. and you never know you might meet some one new to cuddle up next too
so go for it girl blow of some steam
and have a ball :)
2006-09-23 09:01:02 · answer #11 · answered by jambo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋