my husband and i are separated. he says that we are because we need time to ourselves to clear our minds of some things. he bases some of his decisions according to the "Word". he doesn't believe in adultery or divorce. but i'm afraid that during this trial separation, he me find companionship else where or he may not return to me.
2006-09-23 07:11:47 · 7 answers · asked by leeash192004 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Actual separation greatly increases the incidence of divorce.
2006-09-23 07:14:39 · answer #1 · answered by DrB 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes giving each other space will help clear the mind, the air, and their attitudes towards those who are in their lives.
They need to re-organize their priorities in life, and see the big picture and re-examine all the reasons why they are married to that person in the first place and then make some changes for the better.
Chances are pretty good that they will get back together again, once the air is cleared.
2006-09-23 14:14:52 · answer #2 · answered by snorkelman_37 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is always good to have time to yourselfs. Maybe you go out with the girls while he out with the guys. Something like that. If he really loves you then he is not going to cheat. Me and my husband do the alone thing at least once a week. Never any conflict. He doesn't have a problem with talking about what he does and neither do I. It's just some fun girls night outs.
2006-09-23 14:20:30 · answer #3 · answered by Just_Curious 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you two do not work on the relationship during this time, and seek counseling. Then not a good chance it will survive.
2006-09-23 14:30:47 · answer #4 · answered by Common Sense 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on the couple, if you both want to be back together you will, but if either of you moves on, then the answer is obvious. There is no percentage or way to calculate it, each of us is unique, therefore each of our relationships are unique.
2006-09-23 14:15:02 · answer #5 · answered by OleMarbleEyes 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It already sounds like he did, I don't no him, but it sounds suspicious. I wish you both luck, I think you both need to seek professional help tho work out your problems as a couple. If he won't go at least go by yourself.
2006-09-23 14:17:37 · answer #6 · answered by Right Wing Extremist 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he probably already has someone else.
2006-09-23 14:17:46 · answer #7 · answered by nananas 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋