It is, on all ground, customerised that being loyal to each other in married life is the most desired situation in this world. Also addition of immense love for one another makes the taste of life marvelous. But is it paid in earth or heaven after death? Or is it just cordial formality ?
2006-09-23 08:12:12 · 9 answers · asked by computersir 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
both life and death..
2006-09-23 08:16:41 · answer #1 · answered by mizsinister 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Csutomerised is not a word. Anywho, you question assumes that there is an afterlife, the existence of which is highly suspect at best. Consider how you would live if this life was all you had, then make that decision. That would be the most sensible thing to do for sure.
2006-09-23 08:16:57 · answer #2 · answered by kmankman4321 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Loyalty to your wife will be repaid by your wife. If with this loyalty there is love and caring and the desire to be only with her. From your post I believe that you too love each other immensely and that in itself is the reward. I can't talk for the bible, it says adultery is a sin, but I do not have a clear definition for sin and its ramifications.
2006-09-23 08:17:57 · answer #3 · answered by g49joeybethl 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Living life in the here and now is what matters.
Why try to reach heaven when you are still on earth.
Loyalty, committment, honesty, fidelity & infidelity --- are all values and qualities to be lived out HERE on earth not in heaven.
Once in heaven, everything that is so associated comes automatically.
Would anyone cheat in heaven? Lie?
2006-09-23 08:28:53 · answer #4 · answered by MOHABIR L 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Everything is about choice - if you chose to believe in life after death, if you chose to be faithful, chose who to love and why.
You made a choice to marry your wife... so instead of wondering what will happen in the future, chose to live in the now and love her now... but then again, it's your choice as to what you do, right?
Aloha!!
2006-09-23 08:24:56 · answer #5 · answered by gabriel_demus 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
everything you do has a consequence, call it karma or "what goes around comes around", we have free choice to create our lives, so if we have loving thoughts, we will create loving relationships and needless to say, negative thoughts create just that. so you decide what you want to create in your life and your reincarnations, and if you think this is nonsense, think about it for a while and about things that have happened in your life and why they happened.
2006-09-23 08:22:16 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Both- just work on the now and trust in the later
2006-09-23 08:31:47 · answer #7 · answered by johnnydean86 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i belive both here on earth and the after life
i belive in karma
2006-09-23 08:29:02 · answer #8 · answered by fxdlharley 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sounds like you're in it for yourself, in which case you get exactly what you deserve.
2006-09-23 09:57:08 · answer #9 · answered by folklore 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋