Marriage & Divorce - 21 September 2006

My husband?Conversation?How can i make him talk to me?Is there a way?

2006-09-21 04:36:12 · 20 answers · asked by EMMA 2

she broke p 5 years ago, had one abortion almost got married. talked to him since then, now she talks to him on the phone once a month. yesterday she wanted to meet his new girlfriend.

Is she justified? When I tell her that i dont want her to see her ex in person, she says I dont trust her.

2006-09-21 04:35:52 · 29 answers · asked by Night Guru 2

I have been married for 25 years. Sex is becoming more infrequent and far less intense with spouse. I am extremely aroused most of the time. I have met several women over the years for sex and have been committed to those women for a brief period of time. I enjoy the romance, I enjoy the stimulation of a new lover and continue to do it. I have no guilt, I love my wife, I cherish her, but with no sex I'm miserable!
The women I engage with are all married as well and we share much the same challenges.
No guilt why?

2006-09-21 04:27:17 · 26 answers · asked by r g 3

I divorced my husband of 14 years in June 2006 because I got tired of feeling like his maid and feeling that we didn't have anything in common any more. I have been seeing someone since then whom I dated 29 years ago. I feel great when I'm with this person but I can't stop thinking about my ex-husband and wondering if I moved to fast to the divorce. He has since found another also.
I am so confused by my feelings. My new boyfriend is attentive but really rough around the edges and tends to get angry very quick, something I am not used to. I have only a 16 year old left at home and am 44 years old. I would appreciate any answers :(

2006-09-21 04:26:30 · 12 answers · asked by cramerje 1

My husbands father pleaded no contest to sexual misconduct with a child. I say his dad can never be around our kids agian, he is trying to stick up for him. This miconduct took place between him and his daughter, and his granddaugters. I want to protect my kids, and feel that if he forces the issue, or allows his dad contact with our kids he is violating our family. Am I right, and is it fair to threaten divorce if he tries to bring this man around my kids.

2006-09-21 04:24:06 · 25 answers · asked by marlee6996 2

when I came home form work last night went on my pc ,went into my history and seen that my wife spent all day searching for her old boyfriends on differant sites on my pc...are marriage has been rocky how do I appraoch this matter???

2006-09-21 04:23:47 · 15 answers · asked by bam 2

I married a man that I met on the net..He has lied to me a lot.He told me he was married twice and had 3 daughters.I found out later that two of the daughters was from his first wife,then he married again ,then he married another woman and had the third daughter,thats the marriage he failed to meation.Now that I am married to him He don,t have sex....He has lost all his sexual desires.he still lies,lives in the past,and is a couch potato.He does nothing around the house except sit or lay.he draws a check each month so it helps me.I am active and like to do things ,he is very uninteresting and has really pulled me down.My kids think Im crazy for being with him ,they think he is a loser.I ran him off once cause he flipped me on the floor and could have broken my neck.I am going nowhere with this man,my life is on hold.....He will not communicate....His last 3 wives left him,and I know why....I feel trapped because I feel that I am wasting my life...However my roots tell me divorce is

2006-09-21 04:21:12 · 28 answers · asked by slickcut 5

I have been with my fiance for a few years and engaged for 1. He is the love of my life, but he has so many serious faults i cannot stay with him. He has a tendacy to lie, expects the whole world to do him a favour and has really bad temper tantrums (he is 28) where he acts like a child. i know he loves me, but it isn't enough. despite his excellent and costly education, i have come to the conclusion he is not very bright, but insists on arguing points and acting very arrogant, on top of being generally quite lazy and relying on me to do the housework adn generate most of the money. despite this i love him madly, how do i do what i know is best for me? Then how do i get over it?

2006-09-21 04:17:34 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

Between my 50 hour a week job, my home, my finances, and my calling in my church, how can I manage them better so I am not running around in circles. I try to do a schedule of cleaning, it is very good, but I can not seem to stick to anything. I am procrastinate (sorry spelling) very bad! I can organice well, and everything I just cant follow through. My husband also works at the same place I do, I am an accountant. We both do house work and I take care of the finances. We want to have children but I really need to get my life organized. Any Ideas?? Oh and we are trying to have children with no luck so far, so I am not waiting for the perfect time because I know there is no perfect time! Thanks

2006-09-21 04:16:26 · 12 answers · asked by wondering 2

he cheated on me.. would cheating on him would make me passive about what he did.. i just want the pain to be gone.

2006-09-21 04:12:49 · 51 answers · asked by addiee 3

Married 4+ years. Two weeks ago she accused me of cheating (again). She has not spoken to me (not one word) since. In the past I have always been the one to speak first and explain and apologize. I have never been untrue to her but her ex cheated and she says all men cheat. I am no longer able to tolerate her jealous behavior. I want to leave her. How much financial responsibility do I have as her sponser?

2006-09-21 04:08:13 · 8 answers · asked by milessumner 1

2006-09-21 04:05:11 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

What is a man supposed to do when he wants to love his wife (not all about the physical) by wanting to take her out dancing, hugging kissing, touching, careessing, leaving little notes saying I Love You. But...she won't let you. Always focused on other things SO much that she forgets she has a husband. She gets the help she needs with the kids and housework (both in and out). The man shuts down and only begins to think about the day to day activities, and gives up trying to get her attention. HELP!

2006-09-21 03:55:49 · 42 answers · asked by maf20057 1

I have already apologized for treating him badly. I am trying very hard to be patient. He says he still loves me but is unsure if I will go back to being nasty to him again and is scared of going through that hell again. I have sent ecards, loving e-mails, I tell him I love him and miss him, and I have been there to help him when he needs it since he is studying for a big test right now. He is being so distant, I just wondered if anyone had any creative ideas of what to do that will get his attention and let him know I am really in love with him.

2006-09-21 03:50:38 · 14 answers · asked by lady_reed_03 2

my wife left me about 1.6months back and sent me a legal notice for divorce. I obliged and filled for divorce in bangalore, Subsequently she filled 498a against myself and my parents. Then she filled for maintanece. Now we are supposed to go through councelling. I want to know, what precautions should I be taking in councelling session

2006-09-21 03:48:21 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-09-21 03:45:23 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

they become paranoid that they are being cheated on? Have you ever noticed this? They do not even have to get caught and they give themselves away by becoming so concerned that they are being cheated on.

2006-09-21 03:40:48 · 15 answers · asked by ????????????????? 1

My wife and my younger brother both work for a small company. Their birthdays are both next Friday. His wife and I would like to do something embarassing for them at work (im sure his boss will go along). They both have great senses of humor. Any ideas?

2006-09-21 03:36:29 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

Me and my husband decided to have a threesome and my husband is really good at picking girls up trust me. well I am not Ive never picked anyone up in my life and I and we decided on this girl and I really dont know what to say to get things going she seems like she is attracted to my husband but Im not sure if she is attracted to me. what should I do or say.

2006-09-21 03:22:54 · 38 answers · asked by Anonymous

SO I have been married for 2 years and I completely spoil my wife, I cook her dinner 90% of the time, I serve her the food, clean up afterwards, I'm always making sure she is taken care of all the time. I take her anywhere she wants to go, I contsantly buy her presents all the time, I am always making sure she feels loved and feels special... she does do stuff for me alot but no where compared to what I do for her in a day to day basis.. am I going too far with this? meaning that I know she loves me but if this were you would you know the diffrence of taking advantage of the situation or taking it for what it is?

2006-09-21 03:21:34 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous

Not sure what the categories are?

2006-09-21 03:15:26 · 20 answers · asked by jules 4

2006-09-21 03:10:48 · 35 answers · asked by pureessence 2

Just over a year ago a man at work sent an email to my wife, what he wants to marry her, if she becomes available. She did not answer him, but during this year once mentioned that to me. I did not take it seriously. She stayed with two kids at home, one was newborn, I was working, sometimes too much. Just before going back to work, we had big fight, her mother was visiting, and she made it way worse... I had to ask m-in law to leave. On first day at work that man asked my wife how's everything. She complained.
He started writing love letters to her. She would reply neutral sometimes. For 2 months we were ready to divorce every day. For years before we had just perfect marriage.
He asked her for sex. She refused, but offered a lunch. He insisted. She never show up. He called her b***, they broke up. I found out by accident a week later. She was extremely ashamed of herself, asked me not to call him or his wife, and forget it. Looks like she is truly sorry. What is better to do?

2006-09-21 03:10:08 · 25 answers · asked by Nickolas99 1

In continutaion with my previous question ..to decide between my separated husband and my married friend.?
My husband could never understand me.For last 06 months my friend has been witnessing all my problems and has been trying to get me back in the marraige and we have discussed our marriage problems also.Its just that whenever i am in problem caused by my husband..he comes around to help me.My husband has been physical and has done everything to hurt me.He has kept my son with him also .He threw me out our house and claims that his house.My husband wants to wait and watch and then decide about the marriage after 01 yr.I dont my status of marriage.My friend is trying his best to settle me down.I have no job ,no family and no money.He has been supporting me in getting a job.He is so genuine as a person that anybody can fall for him and so have I.I found everything in him ,which was lacking in my husband.He also loves his daughter and says we would have as good couple if we met before.I can say his marriage is OK .He does has his share of fights and then regrets his mariage.He says he love
To decide upon my separated husband and my new friend?
My husband has opted for separation and i have a friend who just stands by me all the time.He is also married but at the same time claims that he loves me.I am emotinally dependent on him.He calls me up everyday and talks to me and declares his love also.At the same time also maintains that he loves his wife.Do i trust him.He always help me whenevr i need it.I too care for him but dont wanna break his family.I have also not decided what to do with my broken marriage.My husband refuses to talk to me.He also has my son with hi

i need help to decide upon my marriage?
I had been married to my husband for last 8 yrs.It was an love marriage.He is 11 yrs older to me.He also happens to be 2 time divorcee.2 yrs back we had fightes and he broke my hand and took me to police station and just behaved like a creep.He threw me out and kept my son with him.I stayed with my parents.He never bothered about me and also started legal case against me.I didnt react to it as i never wanted to take up any legal case and bring my son to court.After 6 months on my Brother in laws insistence i statrted sending him mails and he then asked me to join him bak.I did that and reasoned out that i will get bak my son.Also sincee he was moving out from his parents house ,my in laws problems was also waived off.Two yrs later he has again come bak to my in laws city and i started working.He was without ajob.H estarted fighting with me and to larger extent it was my MIL's hand in that.He again started becoming physical.He one day called up my boss on pretext of meeting him.

2006-09-21 03:05:39 · 18 answers · asked by 2467 1

I'm really confused now a days. I'm chatting with a girl for two years and now she says that she is in love with me and wanna marry me. She is from Middle-East. Whenever we meet on net she always force me to come there and take her into India.

This is true that, now i m emotionally attached with her and like chatting with her. Even i sometimes feel uncomfertable when I cannt chat to her for few days. But i dont think anybody can fall in love on net. Is it?

Please advise me.

2006-09-21 02:41:23 · 18 answers · asked by dinker_kaushal 1

Three high school students inmy area have died in the last 72 hours. In every case I wonder what parents are thinking.

The first one died on his birthday in the brand new sports car his parents bought him. He wasn't drinking...just being stupid.

The second one was stabbed to deeath by another girl...over a boy.

The third one was with a friend's mother on their way home from a concert. The MOTHER was driving her child and her friend...she was drunk and got on the freeway going in the wrong direction. She is fine and so is her daughter but the other girl wasn't so lucky.

I have three kids and understand wanting to give them things...make them happy...spoil them but what good are we doing? And as far as driving my baby drunk...I would have beat the hell out of that woman, then beat the hell out of myself for the rest of my life for allowing her to go.

Are the kids out of control or are we?

2006-09-21 02:33:02 · 42 answers · asked by sasha 4

2006-09-21 02:24:02 · 17 answers · asked by cool_itis2004 1

2006-09-21 02:22:33 · 13 answers · asked by lei 1

2006-09-21 02:21:33 · 20 answers · asked by bazilsmom 1

OK, here is a brief 411! My husband abandoned me and his two infant boys to go live with his long time mistress. He left us with no money and no food. WE also lost our place to live. While he was living with us (his family) I wasn't aloud to work and he couldn't hold down a job. He was gone 4 to 5 days out of the week to hang out with his friends. I had no money for bus fare (car was broken down) so me and the boys could never really get out to go anywhere. So, me and the boys stayed at home, watched TV, barely had any food, and had major cabin fever! My question is, should I feel guilty that the same thing is happening to him? I moved to Texas to live with my mom, I had no where else to go with my two boys. He is still in Utah with barely any food, no money for bus fare to go out, and is going stir crazy at his mistress's home. This has never helped me financially to help support ither of his kids!

2006-09-21 02:21:24 · 44 answers · asked by pregyfrog 2