Marriage & Divorce - 21 September 2006

Hi i am 22 and have been married a year and have a baby boy named nathan. I work as an accountant at the moment and my husband works for his family buisness a small deli. I have a huge problem with my friends and husband 2 of my friends are cousins Adrienne is a computer engineer and cousin Tom is a lawyer they are always polite but he hates them still. My Best friend Steve is gay and he hates having him in the house because of it, friend Mark works for an insurance company wich makes my husband not trust him, and last my good buddy Vinny he thinks is a looser because he has not graduated from college yet because he partys a lot.He even hates their wives my cousin tom is married and he thinks his wife also a teacher is a pedifile!My friend marks wife he called her too her face a moron for being a stay at home mom.

2006-09-21 10:55:36 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm totally infatuated with Alice, I spend most of my free time dreaming and researching Ann B. Davis from the Brady Bunch? That blue maid outfit drives me nuts.

2006-09-21 10:49:56 · 14 answers · asked by Sausage Fingers™ 3

To me, it seems an arranged marriage from my mom. He is my mom's favorite student. I loved him before and proud to have him since he was a top quality man in our world. In fact, our marriage isn't so good for 20 years, As he betrayed me in our beginning by having affair with a girl, but I forgave him as he said will make up me, the marriage still no good these years that due to he's disrespect me. My emotional separation from him happened and I suffered for years. We broke up some times. Until I left him for another man in Nov 05, he woke up and knowing that he has been unfair to me for years, but he tried to kill himself. So I came back to him and I still care about him. Now he's trying his best for me, but I couldn't love him again. Because everything had changed after all. But I'm worry that does he will kill himself again if go?
I have a story on my page http://360.yahoo.com/my_profile-.1D8ZsM8erQzBETkA1iUS_ABtSSpjg--;_ylt=AsNQfoy35Yj4TVZXaOolTzWkAOJ3?cq=1
My questions here:
Should I stay or should I go? What's the morality between my choices? Can I stay in a broken marriage if my love for him is gone? Do I have any responsibilities for my husband and my son (he is 22)? Is that fair if I force myself stay in this marriage?
What can I do, if he said he can't live without me? Does he will kill himself again if I go? What can I do if he really tries his best for me? Do I need give him another chance? How about if I can’t love him again? How can I deal with my choice: a stable life with my husband or an insecurity life with my boyfriend? How can I deal with if I’m afraid of to be independent woman?


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2006-09-21 10:38:24 · 18 answers · asked by Marilyn 2

2006-09-21 10:37:08 · 27 answers · asked by ooopancakeooo 2

2006-09-21 10:30:33 · 17 answers · asked by mom_of_5 2

2006-09-21 10:26:34 · 15 answers · asked by john_0502000 3

We don't need the money- he just feels obligated to work more and more because his dad is his boss. He is a computer programmer for a business, and "if we don't get this finished this week (which seems to happen a LOT) we won't be able to present our product. Then the deal will fall through." How do I go about asking my husband to spend more time with me without sounding selfish myself?

2006-09-21 10:26:12 · 15 answers · asked by mdawne2 2

Is Ainslie a good name for a baby girl?

It's pronounced "Ayn-slee." It's Irish or English or Celtic, something like that.

Our last name is Isaac.

Ainslie Isaac.

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2006-09-21 10:25:47 · 14 answers · asked by Zero 1

Mr. Yahoo, I know you're there, why are you messing with me. Just because I slept with Yahoo's mom, all of the sudden I'm public enemy #1.

2006-09-21 10:22:20 · 12 answers · asked by Landau C 1

We have 3 kids and have lived together for all this time,I will never claim to be perfect but FAITHFULL hell ya!In my eyes he was so perfect.A good dad,always held his job,a good lover and everything in between...Now I feel lost and kinda like a timebomb waiting to go off...Even now I would probably still take a bullet for him,take some heat for him,WHY??? Please if you know why let me hear it....For the record he is not a loser,or a punk~Maybe a little conceited but nothing to be trippin on~in a bad way.My baby is so fine.....****, I wish he was still mine.THANKS FOR LISTENING.....

2006-09-21 10:20:46 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

when my husband and i are having sex, after the first 5 minutes i start to get really dry down there. i have always done this and it is very uncomfortable for both me and my husband. we can never really finish and we never enjoy it anymore. i have to talked to a friend of mine about and she suggested more foreplay but we always have plenty of that. Do any of you have any ideas on what the problem could be? only serious answers please.

2006-09-21 10:20:22 · 26 answers · asked by pebbles68701 2

2006-09-21 10:20:05 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

Alyssa Marie is the name of my husband's ex wife.

He wants to name our daughter that. He says "It's just a pretty name, I like it."

But, it's his bloody ex-wife's name!

2006-09-21 10:19:27 · 22 answers · asked by Zero 1

This is going on in Tennessee while I live in kansas? My husband filed for divorce and I no longer have representation. $$ Anyway, we agreed to settle but I was told it will still have to go to court to be decreed? And that I would not have to be there? How do I know his attorney is not just trying to screw me? I have had several people tell me yes I have to be there and no I don't. I do not know who else to call? I don't want to hurt my side by not showing up. And They still have not even told me when a date is? What do I do? I do not want to lose custody of my daughter, he already has my youngest . and I agreed to do joint. I am freaked! What do I do, who can I call to make sure my husband and his attorney are not trying to screw me?

2006-09-21 10:16:39 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

I think my husband is addicted to our computer. He wastes time in front of it every single day and won't go to bed with me at all and stays up untill 1 or 2 AM. When I talk to him about it he says I am an adult, and I thought about taking the computer out or breaking it but I am afraid he would hurt me if I did and would be SO MAD. I don't want to control him but what can I do if nothing I say seems to work? How many hours is too many on the computer in a week? I have written down how many hours he spends on it before and he gets mad and I see that in comparison to the time he spend with me it he spends way too much on the computer. Usually just 3-4 hours in a week with me and then 20-30 on the computer. HELP! Also he says it's my fault he gets on sometimes because he only wants to spend time with me when I am really happy and do something he likes. Thank you everyone~!

2006-09-21 10:08:28 · 33 answers · asked by tina*21 2

I think it's a beautiful name. I want to name my baby girl "Gaynor Rosacea"

Gaynor means: Medieval form of GUINEVERE

Rosacea means: a chronic form of acne affecting the nose, forehead, and cheeks, characterized by red pustular lesions. (LOL nobody would know that, though)

The only other option is Alyssa Marie which I think its a BUTT UGLY NAME. My husband likes it and I HATE IT

will my kid get teased badly with Gaynor Rosacea?

2006-09-21 10:05:07 · 47 answers · asked by Zero 1

I love them both dearly and I would never dump either one of them as they are so special to me.

2006-09-21 10:04:46 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

Hi.

I am due to have a baby in 3 weeks (girl) and I need a name.

I've narrowed it down to:
-Gaynor Rosatia
-Alyssa Marie

which is bettur?

2006-09-21 09:56:23 · 27 answers · asked by Zero 1

I've been married almost 6 yrs. There was no love at first, later I had it. But I lost respect. We went through some problems in the past. I forgave ( emotional cheating, flirting with 11 year olds and disrespectful attitude,wandering eye).
Good behaviour for 4 years, and yesterday- found 13-17 yrs. girls porn viewing history in his computer.
My heart is attached to him - he is basically a good person in general.
On top of that, Mother-in-law asked to move in today with us. I think I want to leave him, scared to have children with him. But, how do I do it if she moves in???? And what is the best way to leave????
Also, I work for him full time and have a part-time job. And have a dog I love deeply. I am all alone in this country and have no real friends. I will be visiting my family 2 months later.
Any advice will be appreciated. I don't know how to leave....

2006-09-21 09:50:45 · 19 answers · asked by lola t 1

I still love my wife. The only thing that has ever made me feel better than her is my son. I dont know if ill ever get over her. I miss her more every day.

2006-09-21 09:43:52 · 15 answers · asked by joezelk 1

I still love my wife. The only thing that has ever made me feel better than her is my son. I dont know if ill ever get over her. I miss her more every day.

2006-09-21 09:43:31 · 5 answers · asked by joezelk 1

I delivered my baby four days ago and oh god.

We're Scientologists, so we wanted a silent birth. It was anything but silent when I let rip a huge fart.

My husband was very angry that I disturbed the silence of the birth, and he also said it smelled bad and was gross

I can't face him anymore! He comes home from work in 2hours, what do I DO?

2006-09-21 09:42:57 · 53 answers · asked by Anonymous

I know I don't love my husband anymore. I look at him and think of all he's done to me and I get sick to my stomach. I want to leave so bad, but feel trapped. I'm so dependent on him. I already have everything planned out on how I would get by without him, but I'm scared to go through with it. I'm scared of taking care of my baby alone, going to school, and working all at the same time. Is this even possible? What do you guys think? Would it be worth it to be happy?

2006-09-21 09:39:17 · 31 answers · asked by Carrie! 4

While I was married, my husband had purchased a truck which I signed for with him. We have now been divorced for 3 years and yesterday I got a call from the finance company stating that I HAVE TO PAY for his deliquent 4 months. I explained to them that my divorce decree was specific in that my ex-husband keeps the truck and the payments of the truck which was signed by the Judge and sealed by the court. The finance company said that THEY OVERRIDE the Judge and that I am liable and that the late payments are being reported on my credit.

I have a call into the Judge's assistant and I suspect that my ex is in contempt of court.

When I talked to the police last night they said that I have no legal right to repo it because my name is not on the registration.

So if I have no legal right to take the truck and have a divorce decree that says he is responsible for the payment of the truck what options do I have?

It just doesn't sound right to me. Your thoughts or suggestions.

2006-09-21 09:38:47 · 11 answers · asked by kimmer 3

If you have accrued so much in bills but make a good salary... how do you go about finding a lawyer? Any tips on how to get one and use payment plans or something? Its for a divorce. So any help would greatly be appreciated. I doubt she would be able to get a free one because she makes to much. But she is over run with bills... any help???

2006-09-21 09:30:37 · 16 answers · asked by buccaroooo 2

cars? or other people's boats? or even someone else's house? I mean, it's America, just keeping up with the Jones' and all.

2006-09-21 09:28:30 · 27 answers · asked by Sausage Fingers™ 3

as the result of the charges brought against for crimnal wounding charges reulting from the crime she commited?posted here under divorce.i,m safe in assuming one resulted

2006-09-21 09:20:29 · 9 answers · asked by houdini 3

i found out where my ex's girlfriend works, and i want to go see what she looks like, but don't know how to go about it. who can tell me what to do?

2006-09-21 09:18:21 · 24 answers · asked by Cutie 4

i have 2 childs.i wanna get divorce from my wife she has no home no car . no money .she is not working. but i have house in usa.and money also 3year old son ,2year old daughter.will court give me the children or not?

2006-09-21 09:17:15 · 7 answers · asked by stranger 3

I have a man I cant trust. He cheats so much, I'm not sure the baby I'm carrying is his.

2006-09-21 09:16:39 · 34 answers · asked by Ivory_Flame 4