i found out where my ex's girlfriend works, and i want to go see what she looks like, but don't know how to go about it. who can tell me what to do?
2006-09-21 09:18:21 · 24 answers · asked by Cutie 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Cutie I know it hurts when you are still emotionally attached to someone and they have moved on but God made you beautiful and there is someone out there who is going to love you the way you want to be loved. Even if you see his girlfriend, what is it going to do to improve your situation? Nothing. If this is an attempt to hold on to your ex, it may do the opposite, it may push him further away from you and make their relationship stronger because he may think that you not emotionally stable and it is good that he moved on. You could get yourself in trouble with the law as well because if she recognizes you and feel uncomfortable with you spying on her, she can file harrassment or stalking charges against you. Cutie I know you want to see her because you are wondering "What she have that I don't" where you should really be wondering "Why waste my time thinking about someone who has moved on" and affirm that you are a beautiful person regardless if people accept you or not. Pray, Go out with friends/ family, date, vent, cry, and do things to take care of and better yourself because you are worth it. Take care. Things will turn out right for you.
2006-09-21 09:54:17 · answer #1 · answered by sam 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why do girls always have this fascination about their boyfriend's past? This is far from unusual and I don't understand it.
Are you trying to see how you compare to his past loves?
Would you feel better if you knew she wasn't as pretty as you?
How would you feel if she was a real knockout?
Do you have an idea you might want to get to know her so she could tell you about your boyfriend?
I would find it very hard to believe that any man would have the need to know about your past.
All of these and more are going down a slippery slope to nowhere.
Forget her and enjoy the fact he is with you. You are who he is with now and that is all that counts.
2006-09-21 16:34:05 · answer #2 · answered by John B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What kind of work does she do, easier to tell u how to go about if we know what her job is.. like if shes a waitress that would be simple u just go and eat there and look at name tags when girls walk by cause obviously u know her name.. but if she works in a office it would be harder ...
2006-09-21 16:32:10 · answer #3 · answered by brwneyedgrl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont listen to them go ahead and walk right up to her and introduce your self let her know you have her ex show her how worry about her you are so she can get back into the picture secretly calling him taking him some where you wont find out and smiling at work all day all because you brung her back in the picture
2006-09-21 16:29:58 · answer #4 · answered by sunrisedrifter 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you want to bring the past into your future? Stop starting childish games. You can be jeopardizing your relationship if you are doing this behind your man's back. Take heed of what I'm saying. You have him now. Let the past be the past.
2006-09-21 16:24:12 · answer #5 · answered by hope 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is a hot super model and genius IQ. Are you trying to see if she is worthy of your ex? Take a shower, shave your legs, put on your hot clothes, do your makeup and hit the town. Don't worry about what he has, make him worry about what he is missing...
2006-09-21 16:40:05 · answer #6 · answered by Suthern R 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Nothing, she is an ex and none of your business, stay out of her life or you are likely to be labeled a stalker...and rightfully so! Get over it already!
2006-09-21 16:20:13 · answer #7 · answered by dappersmom 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Why would you want to see your ex's girlfriend? Are you you a glutton for punishment?
2006-09-21 16:34:18 · answer #8 · answered by faith 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
gurl why would you want to find out what yo mans ex looks like evidently she doesnt compare to you or he would be with her thats casuing drama that ca nbe left alone i know you would like to know because i wanted to too at one point in time but you gotta let tha tgo thats very immature
2006-09-21 16:21:05 · answer #9 · answered by BabyDoll 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really must satisfy your curiousity, here's what to do. Don't go into her work. You want to see her, but don't want her to see you. Get her name and look her up on myspace.
2006-09-21 19:23:27 · answer #10 · answered by Niknack 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋