Marriage & Divorce - 21 September 2006

my hubby and i have been together for 7 yrs. and married 5 and a half...we have a pretty good relationship most of the time but i need some ideas on how to spice things up all the way around not just in the bedroom...we have 3 kids so theres not much time for just the 2 of us till there all in bed. which sometimes is to late for my hubbys cuz he fall asleeps due to the fact that he works late hrs .... any serious advice is wanted and needed...

2006-09-21 14:43:29 · 9 answers · asked by Always Asking 2

2006-09-21 14:40:57 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

in women's clothes than you do??

2006-09-21 14:39:46 · 9 answers · asked by BiBJ 2

Our rent is about 600$ a month and our lease is up in march,

2006-09-21 14:39:23 · 16 answers · asked by mplimp2000 2

My hubby is not feeling me tight nemore down there after 4 mos of marriage. I have tried Kegel exercises as well but doesnt work. We both started as virgins but I guess I lost my tightness early on. We both r very depressed. His pen is good around 5.5

PLs help.

2006-09-21 14:35:53 · 10 answers · asked by shahjitim 1

....all dressed up in women's clothes?

What do you do or say?

2006-09-21 14:33:17 · 24 answers · asked by BiBJ 2

My husband left me two days ago without warning with all the bills
due and overdue and I have no job and no money and no trans-portation to go be with his ex-girlfriend. HELP!!!

2006-09-21 14:26:30 · 10 answers · asked by nikki 1

One who helps you make up for the characteristics that you lack? or one who further increases those characteristics where you excel at?

2006-09-21 14:01:00 · 14 answers · asked by tedhyu 5

Someone put in a change of address through the Post Office.
Does anyone know how I can get the forwarding address they put on the form?

I did not know what catagory to put this ? in.

2006-09-21 14:00:18 · 4 answers · asked by zora w 1

I wish me and my husband were back in middle school or early highschool before we had sex and got married at 18 and had a baby girl. Has anyone wished they could turn back time.?That is the only time when we were together that we did not fight like we do now at ages of 21. We are headed for divorce and this is all i can think about?How happy and in puppy love we were?Anyone else gotten married and thought of this or like this?

2006-09-21 13:56:27 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

well, i'm married but left my husband for another man. Because my husband was an *** hole. Well, I think I am P.G. for this other guy. I wanted to know if I am pregnant do I have to does the baby have to carry my husbands last name or can I but it under the real fathers last name

2006-09-21 13:49:00 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-09-21 13:44:45 · 42 answers · asked by Anonymous

We have a son who is five and a half, and my husband seems to do a lot of things for him that he can do for himself. He is already a shy child who lacks confidence, and I worry that by doing everything for him my husband is exacerbating the situation. From what I understand, confidence comes from learning that you are capable of doing things for yourself. For example, tonight my son had to draw a snake for "homework." He kept crying that he didn't know how and refused to do it. I would have given him some pointers and maybe drawn a sample for him, but that's all. My husband, after much whining and crying on our son's part, actually ended up drawing a dotted-line version of the snake and had my son trace it. Am I being too "hard" about all of this, or do I have a legitimate concern here?

2006-09-21 13:39:57 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-09-21 13:37:22 · 10 answers · asked by Shilisha C 1

Don't feel you have to answer the why. It's a long story but I'm trying to make a point about something to my husband.

2006-09-21 13:34:15 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous

Please help i dont know what to do i told my husband to quit being friends with him. But he wont and it was proven that i never slept with this guy help

2006-09-21 13:34:02 · 15 answers · asked by jesterfrack 1

2006-09-21 13:30:13 · 23 answers · asked by smartypantz49 1

I called my soon to be ex-husband on his cell phone and he answered and told me he was having*** at that moment. If I was that other woman I would have got up and left right then. Why would you have the phone at that moment? Why would you not turn it off?

2006-09-21 13:20:48 · 23 answers · asked by hawkespatricia 2

On Friday right before my 30th birthday I got a letter in the mail from J. Smith? Anyway the letter starts out, your husband is cheating on you. It goes on like this and names a woman in my husbands office and other key details such as he is planning on doing it when I am out of town and he has told everyone he is leaving me etc. My husband straight out denys it, we have been married almost 5 years and he has never lied to me that I know of. I can't leave him based on a letter and he is my husband but I don't know why someone would write such a thing?

2006-09-21 13:19:33 · 15 answers · asked by ? 2

I am married and headed for divorce we tried everything but fear at 21 years of age with 8 credits i still need to graduate from college and a three year old daughter no one will be intrested in me and i feel a little old. I have kept my figure 5 ft 6 and 109 pounds but am embarrassed when around other people my age. What is life like after a divorce? I feel like i am not a normal 21 year old and am socially dumb?

2006-09-21 13:15:29 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

Would you call it cheating if you found a your husband talking to
someone on yahoo 360, she shows him her breast. Then he responds that he would like to see those again and suck on them!
He ask her for her phone number.

I am heart broken he said he would never do this again but it doesn't fix anything. Im not chopped liver, I can't understand why
he has to look at her breast. Im hurt.

2006-09-21 13:13:43 · 26 answers · asked by lizzybit64 3

i want my part of it the legal way cause his wh.re in there,what about me and kids.

2006-09-21 13:12:15 · 4 answers · asked by lasilent71466 1

Recently discovered my wife has been having an affair with a work colleuge. We have since split-up. How can I get my own back, any suggestions? Murder is NOT an option. (Although contimplated)

2006-09-21 13:09:07 · 55 answers · asked by Bont11 5

What ways outside of the physical side of your marriage has your spouse made you feel special, for no other reason than that they loved you, and wanted to make sure you felt that love? Please, no vulgar answers, only clean answers please, and please stay away from the physical, you can talk holding hands or a tickle or something, but I'd rather leave the intimate side out and show how they can be made special even in public. Thanks. :)

2006-09-21 13:04:42 · 9 answers · asked by Kendra 5

The "father" of my kids lives in FL with his new wife (1300 miles from his kids) he nvr calls writes and only sees them 1 or 2X a yr. He will be moving about 13 hrs away next month and I am infuriated to think that this behavior will continue. My kids (4 and 6 yrs old) don't call him Dad or really care about him and have learned on their own that they can't expect anything from him (despite me trying to get them to talk about him, i nvr say anything bad!) My ? is the next time he is here do I confront him about the wonderful relationship that he is destroying, not to mention the heartache they are going to feel as teenagers and adults as they realize there father doesnt care about them?
PS...I have a great boyfriend who adores them and whom they call Daddy.
Thank you for yoour help!

2006-09-21 13:03:50 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

Have you ever felt that a person was more than just making you happy and content in a relationship? Ever felt like you crossed over to a whole new level of LOVE?

2006-09-21 13:02:40 · 5 answers · asked by timidlady2003 2

I am engaged (we have been together for over a year) and I purchased a box of condoms for me and my man to use together. I purchased the box two weeks ago. One week ago there were two condoms missing from the box (he obviously did not use them on me)---I flipped out on him---and today, when I went over to his house there were 3 more condoms missing.

When I found the condoms missing I did not act as if I found them...I acted as if everything was ok...and then broke down later on...

Last week he told me that his brother (who doesnt live with him) took the condoms.

I dont know what to do in this situation...I dont know if I should say anything at all or just let it go...we have been having sex all of the time...nothing has changed on that level.

Should I ask him about the condoms I paid for that have obvoiusly not been used on me?

I am hurt and confused. Please help...

2006-09-21 12:53:11 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am so frustrated. My husband has an affair so we got divorced. We have a son so we have to be in contact with one another. I try and contact him as little as possible and by email when I can. I have never let our son see us fight. I do not bad mouth my ex or the other woman in front of my son. I am working very hard to get myself and my son through this situation the best I possibly can. But it seems that everything I do is for everyone else's benefit. This is so tough and I am tired of biting my tongue. But I will keep doing that because my son's happiness is my number one concern. Sorry...I am just ranting and feeling sorry for myself. Any ideas on how to make this bitter pill easier to swallow??

2006-09-21 12:53:10 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

So my husband and I have been trying to work it out. He doesn't know that I cheated but we both agreed there was a problem and we ignored it. Now he thinks everything should be fine just after a few days. We always end up argueing over sex, but it is alway him . He doesn't realize it dead for us a long time ago and we won't get it right back, but if he keepts pushing the issue for it the less I would want to do it. He says we should just seperate before things get out of hand. I somewhat agree but there is so much a stake I would just stay because of it. For one we have a daughter and I would have to end up moving back to the state we came from. I just don't know what to do.

*We have both brought up things that we kept to ourselves that upset us or we didn't like about the other, and we both were shocked. Please help.

2006-09-21 12:46:45 · 26 answers · asked by Lady Dee 3

My marriage is failing i am 21 years old i got married at 18 when i got pregnant with my daughter. I am starting to resent my husband and cant shake it are fights have gotten so bad he now pushes and shoves me. We have gone to therapy but it seemed to make things worse. He hates the fact that he went to work and my parents paid for me to go to college. When we fight i feel like it was when we ere in middle school. I am begining to question if we ever lover each other. My husband feels i ruined his life by having our daughter. Should i file for divorce? my husband barley nows his own daughter?

2006-09-21 12:45:05 · 37 answers · asked by Anonymous