my hubby and i have been together for 7 yrs. and married 5 and a half...we have a pretty good relationship most of the time but i need some ideas on how to spice things up all the way around not just in the bedroom...we have 3 kids so theres not much time for just the 2 of us till there all in bed. which sometimes is to late for my hubbys cuz he fall asleeps due to the fact that he works late hrs .... any serious advice is wanted and needed...
2006-09-21 14:43:29 · 9 answers · asked by Always Asking 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Try dating again - no I don't mean someone else, your husband. Once a month - go out. Do something just for the two of you. Also, try leaving little sexy notes around for him. Just use your imagination and you'll come up with some good ideas!! Good luck!
2006-09-21 14:46:35 · answer #1 · answered by ? 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Wake up early, before the kids sometime and see if there is enough time to do something constructive with hubby in the early morning.
Many people find that early morning intimacy is better than late night due to having more energy to do something and it usually lasts longer too.
2006-09-21 22:00:39 · answer #2 · answered by patbendrv 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Surprise him once in a while with a nice bedtime outfit....tease each other with emails during the day...or text messages... enjoy a night out once in a while...like a date..doesnt have to cost money...a walk in a park...maybe a simple picnic... a marriage is hard work and people can easily grow apart...if your'e already feeling that then get to work girlfriend...you obviously love him and he needs to know that and you need to feel that. Good luck..
2006-09-21 22:20:26 · answer #3 · answered by Lynne B 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have weekends free try and do something out of the ordinary like take the kids to a sitter find a nice quite and secluded spot where there wont be any distractions and take him away with your body
2006-09-21 21:50:31 · answer #4 · answered by poppa bear 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you need to spicy,hot chili pepper,,jalapeno spice: first have sex when both have desire and the best time for both,not only at night.Have sex is excited, when you do not schedule when,where,how,will happen.If you have family,one day (whatever is better day for you),send your children with your relatives (grandma,grandfather,etc),and have time for you and your husband.so,both can go to a not expensive hotel,and have a second honey moon.Well there are more ideas,of course.this is my answer,good question.In your daily life,you can go outside to have a good dinner with your husband.
2006-09-21 23:08:58 · answer #5 · answered by cobrasnake 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my husband and i ahve "date night" once a month we go out just the two of us and get reaquainted it really spices up All of your relationship cause youre excited to go and youjust feel really good for a while after that. or for small pick me ups buy him a card you just cause just reminding him you love him i have done it and my husband was happy for days on end. It was a small gesture but it really made him feel good and therefore i felt good
2006-09-21 22:26:14 · answer #6 · answered by ::Mama to be:: 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try a little "dirty " talk when you speak on the phone. Tell him how hot he looks to you and how hot you get when you think about his skin touching yours. Tell him that you need just 5 minutes. Tell him how he makes you feel so good. Let him know that you are a lusty, sexy, dedicated wife.
2006-09-21 23:10:31 · answer #7 · answered by s h 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not really any ideas but I wanted to let you know I love the little picture you have. It's so pretty.
2006-09-21 22:26:43 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you read cosmopolitan? its a great magazine for women. every month there is some new sexercise to try! good luck
2006-09-21 21:49:45 · answer #9 · answered by ally32_74 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋