2006-09-21 14:40:57 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Time heals all wounds. This is a tough one and I definitely can empathize. Trust me, it gets easier as time passes but the memories will still be there. They just wont hurt as much. You will go on with your life and start a new one. Remember, you cannot go on until you come to terms with the pain, then the healing will begin. Luck to you
2006-09-21 14:54:25 · answer #1 · answered by CTMEDS 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You never do.......completely. But you move on.......
It gets easier with time, how long, who knows...but it does get easier.
You'll get over it, it takes time as the weight is slowly lifted. It gets better, it gets easier...
It's hard to start over on your own, you feel alone and you feel like noone understands what you are going through, other than having a good listener, no matter what anyone says can take away the hurt and the pain, except for your heart, when it is ready to erase and reboot!
But you will always remember your first love, and what you learned from it and you move forward.
2006-09-21 23:29:59 · answer #2 · answered by rdhedhottie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would have to say you never get over the first one.
Time heals all wounds. But tht first Love will always have a place in your heart. If it trully is over you need to go on with life.
There will be another some day someway Love will find you again.
2006-09-21 22:24:39 · answer #3 · answered by luvpanty48 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First love, that's hard. I don't know if I can I'm over my first love. Time is always a good thing, i feel that with time and understanding what didn't work the first time, will help move you through your rough time. Be true to yourself, have self respect and confidence. Know what you want. Be happy, about all decesions that you make. Don't let anything stop you in finding your true mate. Don't settle, compromise,
2006-09-21 22:13:14 · answer #4 · answered by Jennifer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know if there's any "getting over" your first love. I think you just have to come to the conclusion that you two aren't togther any more, keep his memory and love alive in your heart, and move one to someone who wants you as much as you do. For me, I haven't seen my first love in 6 years and ran into him a few months ago and it was like nothing had changed. I still loved him and wanted him to love me back but it just doesn't work like that. So, don't worry about getting over him because there is no "getting over" him. Just put his memory in a "box" and find someone who loves you.
2006-09-21 23:20:17 · answer #5 · answered by Shelly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Best way to get over it - please don't bash me for saying this - is to date more and try to fall in love again. It hurts really bad the first time, but after having had a few "loves" you realize that bad things pass and good things come again. You learn to break up and still be in one piece. Broadening your scope of relationship experience can be very helpful if you learn your lessons and try to make it better next time.
2006-09-21 22:43:23 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm finding myself in the same boat, only I'm male and losing the love of my life after 6 years of fun marriage. She joined the military and believes she's grown beyond our relationship and doesn't want me to be a part of her life anymore.
To answer your question, it takes EXTREME HATE to get over them, shutting them out of your life forever, or the sweet release of suicide. I just know the minute I have to sign that divorce paper, that last option is gonna start looking real friendly.
2006-09-21 22:50:18 · answer #7 · answered by zelgadiss 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U can't just get over your first love, especially if u split in good terms. It will just get easier and easier with time until you're strong enough to give your love to another.
2006-09-21 21:59:22 · answer #8 · answered by cheetah7 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I used to always think, in this situation that I could not find anybody better than the person I was just with. However, after little time you meet someone else who was just as good if not better.
2006-09-21 21:47:54 · answer #9 · answered by fizz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You won't ever get over him. He's part of your life and your history forever. But you CAN build a new, happy life and move on. It will take time. You need to grieve first.
2006-09-21 21:53:57 · answer #10 · answered by Wiser1 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋