2006-09-21 13:44:45 · 42 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Sure why not...id like to test drive my stuff before I actually say I do and be stuck with somethin i dont like.
2006-09-21 13:45:53 · answer #1 · answered by lildevilchild_87 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, sex before marriage is considered to be pre-marital sex. I believe you have the correct definition.
2006-09-21 13:47:12 · answer #2 · answered by None 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well the bible says that pre-marital sex is a sin.. But then again what if u never find the person u are to marry....What do u do then just go around with built up pressure inside.. God knows everyone sins because everyone (the majority of everyone) is having pre-marital sex...Hardly no virgins these damn days
2006-09-21 13:47:01 · answer #3 · answered by mstiffany 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Absolutely! You know i don't think i could stand the thought of being married to a man who could not turn me on sexually. I know the old timers will disagree with me on this one but i don't care. I believe if you are going to be married to someone they must be able to light your fire and keep it burning. Nothing worse than a dud in the bedroom. I do suggest using safe sex though. The old thing of dont have sex before marriage is seriously outdated and its a thing of the past. A marriage not only consists of honesty, trust and all that but it also is important to have great sex love making however you prefer to call it. I had sex with my husband before we got married, we stay married for nine years of course we got divorced but we are back together again its been 15 years but he still lights my fire without that well we would have problems to say the least.
2006-09-21 13:49:45 · answer #4 · answered by firey_spirit_66 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What you or I or anyone else believe is right matters little besides the truth. God doesn't. Too, I believe a lot of people with aids or other diseases wish they hadn't. I believe a lot of people who didn't wait, and it didn't work out, wish they had that beautiful, once in a lifetime gift saved for the true love when they come along. Try asking this question, and see how it does.
Did you save your virginity for marriage, and are sorry now that you did? I think the answers might be interesting.
2006-09-21 14:13:17 · answer #5 · answered by choo-Choos Mom 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I simply love when people throw their God and the Christian bible into the mix.
Simply put. It is your body. When you feel you are ready for the joys and responsibilities that go along with sex, then you should completely enjoy your body as you see fit.
BUT this comes with a word of caution: Do not be foolish with your body. Be careful and mindful not only of diseases and pregnancy, but of your emotions as well. Once you do become sexually active you have entered a whole new phase of your life, and it is not to be taken lightly.
Before you consider having sex with another partner. Explore your body for yourself. Learn what pleases you. Be confident in yourself and your own sexuality. Find that within yourself before you decide to go that next step with a partner.
Sex is not evil. It is not tainted or dirty. If you find someone that you are commited to in your heart - then no document by the courthouse or signed certificate from a "man of the cloth" will change what you've already done by commiting your heart to your lover.
If you are ready, seriously know the consequences of your actions before you take them. You are responsible for yourself. You can blame no one else once your decision has been made and you've carried out your actions.
2006-09-21 14:00:36 · answer #6 · answered by eedoe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes! How else can you tell if the two of you are sexually compatible? I also believe in living together for about a year or so before marriage so you can see if the two of you can get along togehter in the same home when you are both there 24/7, etc.
2006-09-21 14:08:58 · answer #7 · answered by honey 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should have sex with as well as live with the person you plan to marry before you do. Too many people get married to realize they are not as compatible with the person they plan to be married to as they thought. If a person would live with the person they plan to marry for six months then they will find out how compatible they really are. Marriage is one of the biggest decisions in life and you should be sure of it. Just like every other big decision you have to basically do research before deciding.
2006-09-21 13:51:28 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
In all honesty I think it would be best to wait. I wish I had, it would have saved me a from a lot of drama. You should wait until you meet the right person and get to know them intellectually and spiritually and become best friends. Once you are married then you can come to know them sexually. Sex now a-days is so over rated.
2006-09-21 17:38:27 · answer #9 · answered by danikatspecial 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well i am not saying premarital sex .. is the wisest thing ..can get you into alot of trouble.. but most of us in this day and age has had premarital sex.. as a mother i try to advise my children not to have sex till they are married .. though i know in the end .. they will do as they please .. and will end up having sex before marriage .. as far as beleiving in it .. yes i do .. does it exist anymore .. not really .. do not see many people with that kinda will power
2006-09-21 13:51:17 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not having sex before marriage is the best possible way to marry a person who doesn't like sex. Or is gay.
2006-09-21 13:46:21 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋