i want my part of it the legal way cause his wh.re in there,what about me and kids.
2006-09-21 13:12:15 · 4 answers · asked by lasilent71466 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You sound like a soon to be ex who wants to give him hell wherever he goes, not knowing when to let go! Leave him alone and get over being bitter, and trying to continue to control his "purse strings". Some women would be glad that their ex moved out of town! Don't use the kids as an excuse for your personal vendetta! I know how ex wives think! Been there, done that!
2006-09-21 13:23:24 · answer #1 · answered by macfifty06 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok i have to be straight up and honest with you about this and you might not like what i have to say ok. First i dont know what your circumstances are to the divorce. Second if he is paying child support then whether or not he is buying a house is not your business. Third you need to concentrate on you and your kids and your homelife now. If you sit there and worry about what your exhusband is doing then you are letting yourself down. The reason i say this is because i did the same thing to my second exhusband. I use to worry about where he was, what he was doing and who he was seeing. I finally learned i had to let go of him of course me and him are back together now but it took six years for us to come to that point. When i was separated from him by the same token what i did was none of his business. As long as he paid his child support thats all i needed to be concerned with. I would highly suggest that you let your state agency for child support deal with your exhusband also follow the terms of your divorce. If your exhusband was not abusive and he can visit with the kids and he pays his child support then leave well enough alone. You need to work with him concerning the kids. Thats all the concern you need. I know what state laws are and i know what the police officers and my attorney told me. You will of course have to get his address but then some states do not require exs to give their current address to you. I know this is a difficult situation for you and the kids and believe me hon i can sympathize with you however get what support you can, regardless of what kind it is and get on with your life. To hold on to the past will only hurt you more. Start dating again. Remember if he gets a new girlfriend you will just have to realize he has the right to do that and you have the right to find love again too. It could be worse he could have died then what your kids would be without a father. I wish you the best but remember you can draw more bees with honey than vinegar and with time you will learn this.....dont be spiteful be happy he is gone....
2006-09-21 20:25:11 · answer #2 · answered by firey_spirit_66 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is public record. You can go to a title company in that county and ask them pull the records. All you need is his name. Any other info you can give them will be better and make the process go faster.
What state do you live in? I may be able to help.
2006-09-21 20:16:17 · answer #3 · answered by GEE-GEE 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go or fax that city or ask your lawyer
2006-09-22 07:37:39 · answer #4 · answered by freeman3905@sbcglobal.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋