Marriage & Divorce - 21 September 2006

Me and my wife are very different sexualy. She is very concerviative, and it's hard to get her to experament. I'm very liberal, and like excitment, risk, and the thrill of something new. I'm not talking about cheating, my wife is the only one for me. I do want to do some new things and everytime I bring it up she refuses. What are some ideas that we could try that wouln't be to risque (other then what's listed), or how could I bring the subject up to where she would be more willing to try some new things?

Some things that I would like to try are
Sex ouside the bedroom, possibliy outside
Having her masterbate while driving in the Highway
Watching soft core porn together
Going to a strip club together
Recording ourselves on video
Taking erotic photos of her

My goal is not to make her feel uncomforable, but get her to open up sexualy, we have been together for 10 years and I love her dearly but I've been board and am beging to loose intrest in sex.

2006-09-21 12:34:11 · 18 answers · asked by honest guy 4

My boss is a bland in her early 30's. When i start my job, i dont like her. i thought she is prejudice and she don't like me at all.

I decided to love her and never tell her about it. but she manages about 40 people, she is smart and find out about it i guess.

i did some extra ordinary work for her by doing my job more than what is suppose to. one time when i am in the hall way of my working building she said hai and i replied by saying hai. but she look in my eyes and i feel like she like me to talk to her about my love.

She took my picture in the happy hour and i think she pretend like she is taking other new hire pictures too.

As she is married and have a baby. i think i can't talk to her about my love. i am suffering every day that i love her and cant tell her because she is married and she is my boss. And also affraid that she is gone tell to all my coworkers about what i try to tell her. what to do?

2006-09-21 12:33:01 · 13 answers · asked by lesyork_man 1

THe foreplay in my relationship was kind of boring, so I started to play follow the leader with my husband (whatever he did to me i did the same) and we would take turns...he seems to REALLY like this turn taking and following the other....I wasn't sure if it would work but it seems to.....does any other guys like doing this as well, what turns you on about the entire thing anyway???

2006-09-21 12:31:20 · 5 answers · asked by ilih2006 1

2006-09-21 12:26:50 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ok, here is the deal. I have a very small family, as in two people besides me. And then under a dozen freinds. He has a very large family and weddings are a big deal. Just his mom has 5 sisters and just ONE sister will consist of 16 immediate relatives. I don't even know how we can have this wedding without his family paying for 3/4 of it. So, how do I bring this up and get them to agree in a nice way?

2006-09-21 12:12:04 · 18 answers · asked by blulillly 2

pillow that I have had since I was a child? Its a sentimental thing, but she just doesn't get it.

2006-09-21 12:10:03 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous

my husband and i work in the same building,he gets aff at 3 pm , i get off at 330 pm ,he goes to visit a female worker in the same building but different area while he waits for me, i ask him about it he say no.then i ask were are you going he says to meet his friend and talk about work and that she leaves late everyday also when i see this female she doesnt speak to me ,knows im his wife and if she see us together she only speaks to him,he says she doesnt have to speak to me, i feel that its disrepectful that she doest speak out of common courstey and he shouldnt allow it to happen.

2006-09-21 12:08:07 · 24 answers · asked by butterbean 1

2006-09-21 12:02:10 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

Although divorced from my husband we have remained close friends for over 2 yrs, now i am finally getting my life together, new house, job etc...My husband who has had a year long relationship since our split has asked me to try again, the house move being our *fresh start*...i know my kids would love to have their dad home and i do love him but im used to being a single parent now and manage well...should i risk it all once again?? or should i move on alone with my kids?...arghhhh i dont know what to do!!!

2006-09-21 11:59:37 · 16 answers · asked by dreamer 2

1) his fault we broke up
2) ring not given as a gift (for a holiday)

2006-09-21 11:58:00 · 33 answers · asked by Jenelle 5

television in another room?

2006-09-21 11:55:26 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-09-21 11:55:15 · 5 answers · asked by tiffanilyn_22 1

Since the ceremony lasts about a day, it seems that power must first come from and ultimately reside within the people. So, what is the ceremony all about?

2006-09-21 11:54:02 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

In regards to the extra payments I make they are via my online account so totally traceable.We were not married but together for a very long time we also have another child at uni and she bleeds me dry but that is life.Also the csa told me any overtime I do at work will deducted as well even though I have to do it to survive. with the new version of the csa coming about can I get this situation sorted? I currently work 60 to 70 hours per week and on the verge of a nervous breakdown.Also the ex refuses to work full time even though our youngest is a teen.

2006-09-21 11:48:35 · 7 answers · asked by HIMSELF 3

My husband decided he wanted to chase more tail as soon as his boots hit Iraq. Yes,it was Via Internet...Ex: Asking girls for pictures..sexy letters,you get the idea. Even talking to an old GF!! Anyhow,we were just married in July,and he is already doing this crap? I don't think so!! I have been home waiting,worried,loyal,all year long with all the chances to meet people but I don't care a thing about it. We said our vows and ,I meant my vows. He broke my heart,and crushed his 3 little stepdaughters as well. I have proof he was doing this stuff,and I want out before it is to late. We were together a long time,but I just found this stuff out. Can I file for a divorce even though he is in Iraq? If not,how long do you think it will be? Thank you!

2006-09-21 11:43:45 · 22 answers · asked by Holly 3

My wife and I met at a bible camp in high school. We got married shortly after college. The problem is, she thinks I'm a sex addict. We were both celibate before we got married and agreed that our first night was "worth waiting" for. Is ONCE A WEEK too much? How often do normal, healthy couples have intercourse? I'm afraid I'm not making her happy and I'm getting quite self conscious about it.

2006-09-21 11:42:22 · 21 answers · asked by Brian M 1

is screw!!!!!!!!!!! Should I leave him

2006-09-21 11:35:08 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

Trouble is we live in a reasonable house and I will have to split it and downsize to something awful. Married for 30 years and after working my socks off will end up with very little. Also I really love my home and will be heartbroken to leave it.

2006-09-21 11:28:32 · 30 answers · asked by linda b 2

email me at tip_tam@yahoo.co.uk and prove it!. lololol. a typical capricorn as you can see. x tom.

2006-09-21 11:23:59 · 9 answers · asked by tip_tam 1

This is a serious question. The reason for this is I'm 22 years old and married. I love the thought the 1950's and the woman's place in it. I believe that a woman's place is to "serve" her husband. I also believe that a lot of these "woman's rights" issued that have been dealt with have lead to the destruction of our kids. Women need to be at home that is their job. Why is this not acceptable anymore? I know a lot of women are going to read this and be furious with me. Please don't be. I just want to see if there are people out there that still believe in old tradition. I would love to hear men's point of view on all of this. Thank you and please don't be rude. :o)

2006-09-21 11:23:29 · 28 answers · asked by Julie 3

It makes me laugh every time I read in the papers that the Marriage rate has fallen, and the British Government have concluded that it has gone out of fashion......duh.....we would love to get married, but when one of you is working and the other is at home looking after the children, the financial LOSS is massive.

Are we the only couple who feel like this???

2006-09-21 11:21:46 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-09-21 11:18:00 · 10 answers · asked by marykuntfarts 1

Can a married japanese man,sponsor his taiwanese lover to come here in japan?Would the Embassy will allow such?even though the japanese is married?

2006-09-21 11:16:26 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

but after yesterday when we had a fight,he shoved me not hard enough to hurt me pysically but emotionally i'm really hurt.I still carry the scars(emotionally)from a previous relationship many years ago where i was bashed and emotionally tortured.My husband knows this I thought he was different.We have two young sons I don't want to lose them if i leave but i know my husband would fight me for them.how do i stop hurting and move on.

2006-09-21 11:15:54 · 7 answers · asked by poptrash 2

it was only a afternoon delight with the neighbor man, and my hubby says if we dont he'll tell the guys wife. what should I do? serious answers only please

2006-09-21 11:11:45 · 30 answers · asked by marykuntfarts 1

He is suffering from an injury and is down in the dumps. Any ideas on how to make him feel better?

2006-09-21 11:10:10 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-09-21 11:06:39 · 4 answers · asked by Candace111888 1

My finace and I are about to start the marriage class you have to take to get married in the Catholic church (Pre-Cana) and we know that we are going to have to take a questionaire where they give me a sheet of questions and him the same sheet of questions and we have to answer them seperatly then compare our answers. Can anyone who has been through Pre-Cana fill me in on what to expect from these questions?

2006-09-21 10:59:23 · 5 answers · asked by CityChic919 2

cars when I was backing out of the driveway? I know its my fault and I shouldn't drink & drive but they both had their rear ends sticking out way too far.

2006-09-21 10:57:50 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

I've been invited out tonight and really feel like some positive attention that i never fail to get when i go out should i go out and enjoy myself?

2006-09-21 10:56:59 · 22 answers · asked by poptrash 2