In regards to the extra payments I make they are via my online account so totally traceable.We were not married but together for a very long time we also have another child at uni and she bleeds me dry but that is life.Also the csa told me any overtime I do at work will deducted as well even though I have to do it to survive. with the new version of the csa coming about can I get this situation sorted? I currently work 60 to 70 hours per week and on the verge of a nervous breakdown.Also the ex refuses to work full time even though our youngest is a teen.
2006-09-21 11:48:35 · 7 answers · asked by HIMSELF 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Big hug xx
2006-09-21 21:56:56 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
If your youngest is a teen he/she could get a weekend job to help out if they need the money so badly. Cut back on your work-hours, its not healthy for you and if you ended up having a breakdown you'd be no good to anyone! If need be take her to court offering to pay less and suggest she does more to contribute herself. It takes 2 people to produce and decide to have a child so she should do her bit! Health means a lot.
2006-09-21 11:59:14 · answer #2 · answered by mistickle17 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
is ur ex partner on benifits ?? if so then they benifits office will not put up with excuses of not workin as she asnt got ne dependent children now as ur youngest a teen so get on 2 benfits agency see if that will do ne thing
2006-09-21 22:33:08 · answer #3 · answered by pollypocket150 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
if your youngest is a teen, it wont be much longer before you wont have to pay anything. Give her EXACTLY what you've been told and NOTHING more. Good luck
2006-09-21 11:53:01 · answer #4 · answered by I know nothing! 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Carnt you appeal m8.....seems as though your paying way over the top
2006-09-25 09:22:20 · answer #5 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hope we all helped to sort your life out.
2006-09-21 22:30:01 · answer #6 · answered by dave p 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
k
2006-09-21 11:49:30 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋