Marriage & Divorce - 21 September 2006

My wife and I have been friends with another couple for about six years. This other couple were married young, didn’t take much time to “sow their oats.” Last year, while on vacation with this other couple, they admitted to us that they had attended a “swinger’s party” because they had been curious about what it would be like to have an “open relationship” where they could stay married, but also be free to explore their fantasies with others outside of their relationship. But a problem arose when she ended up enjoying the experience far more than he did. Since then, the couple has been dealing with issues of jealousy and distrust of one another. My wife and I were not surprised by this and thought immediately that our friends should have expected this. But the question is, are we being too prudish? How many married couples have been involved in "Open relationships" or have attended a "swinger’s party?" If you have, did you find it pleasurable or did it create a rift between you and your significant other?

2006-09-21 06:31:06 · 15 answers · asked by Desiderata of Happiness 2

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2006-09-21 06:25:15 · 9 answers · asked by Frank R 1

09/2006 filed for divorce 12 yrs married. 2 children. how to stop the divorce process now that it has been filed?

2006-09-21 06:23:45 · 21 answers · asked by SHELLY 1

My husband is in a band and normally when they finish playing he will come over to where I am and hangs out. Last time they played he spent quite a while chatting with some girl and left me sitting on my own. Stuff like that doesn't usually bother me but the night before I had told him that I had been feeling down and wondering if he was still attracted to me. He said work was getting him down and he was tired etc but then he goes and starts chatting with this girl.
Am I wrong to be mad at him?
What do you think

2006-09-21 06:23:20 · 14 answers · asked by cazzi_g 2

I like his facial hair, but I miss his face. I haven't seen his face without hair for at least 10 years now and I miss it. I would just like to see a hairless face for our anniversary... he can always grow it back! Could someone help me understand why this is such a big deal? Particularly since it's something he can grow right back in a week or two? Please help! It's the only thing I want for our anniversary... just to see his face (and kiss it) without the fuzz.

2006-09-21 06:20:57 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

Do you think that main reason of divorce is lack of sex satisfaction?

2006-09-21 06:19:41 · 19 answers · asked by Raja Asim 2

I was married in Wyoming and divorced in Utah. I have been divorced for two years and want to restore my maiden name on all my personal records (including social security). How do I go about doing this when it was not stated in my divorce decree that my maiden name could be reinstated?

2006-09-21 06:19:24 · 12 answers · asked by ttbt7 1

I am looking for questions that would lead each of us to feel and understand the other's point of view, etc. Maybe questions like a marriage counselor would ask.

2006-09-21 06:19:03 · 4 answers · asked by pinkadink40 2

She also witholds my son from me unless I give her the extra money.I give her about £100. on top of her csa payments plus she demands more. I cant carry on like this the stress is making me ill.

2006-09-21 06:14:35 · 31 answers · asked by HIMSELF 3

need someone to talk about it

2006-09-21 06:14:34 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

Im not a creative person so it;s hard for me to put together.
Thanks

2006-09-21 06:00:54 · 6 answers · asked by linda d 3

It's been 10 years of me being worried he will cheat, then him flirting with a 19 year old co worker 4 years ago infront of me.
That is when I really should have left him, I just can't get over that, some may think it's lame but there is more to it.
Now, I'm to the point I don't care.
I don't want to look at him I don't want him to touch me, I have nothing left for him. I think I really lost every ounce of feelings about a week or so ago, we were at a resturant and he was eyeing the very young waitress everywhere she walked.
I thought it was me, and then I thought ok 1 more time, and he did it again.
I just wanted to walk out.
So yea, how do I get over it....
Especially when I don't care now...
Makes me want a divorce so I can be free again.

2006-09-21 05:59:36 · 40 answers · asked by ShiftyShadyBitch 2

2006-09-21 05:55:52 · 1 answers · asked by sandeep k 5

my husband left me and my kids for another woman now he wants to come back home because she left him I miss him and the kids miss him but I don't know what to do what if he leaves again

2006-09-21 05:53:11 · 61 answers · asked by Anonymous

After 9 years of marriage my wife moved out. We were arguing a lot. She has been gone for 6 months. We have run into one another lately, over the last six wee and it's ben nice. We both have said that we want to work it out. Isn't six months too long? We barely had contact for th efirst 4 and a half months. Is it worth it? Has anyone returned to a spouse in similar circumstances? No one has ever filed any papers. Thanks.

2006-09-21 05:46:15 · 11 answers · asked by jesse b 1

bored, lonley, looking for some fun and games, to laugh a lot, with possible meeting later?

2006-09-21 05:40:59 · 10 answers · asked by tom 1

father of disabled son not paying arrears or current support. unable to afford another lawyer to take father to court in california(I live in Texas) & unable to get through by phone--am left on hold. What can I do to get support orders & arrears arranged? Thank you for any help.

2006-09-21 05:40:25 · 6 answers · asked by Dolores V 1

For people married or dating, what is it that your mate does that get's on your last nerve? Something that no matter how many times you tell them not to do it, they do it anyway?

2006-09-21 05:39:07 · 22 answers · asked by Lady Tee 2

i was having an intimate friendship with a married man, we live miles apart and spoke regularly, now his wife found out by reading his mails and texts, should i try to contact him to put accross my side or just let sleeping dogs lie, and let us both get on with our lives and try to move on ? we both aleays knew this would never last or go anywhere

2006-09-21 05:34:56 · 37 answers · asked by Anonymous

I got married 3.5 yrs. before, I found my wife very hyper & hash to everyone
In my family. So many times I tried to make her understand but she refuses to listen to me
As her stubborn nature. I’m a social businessman but she never understands my problems
& difficulties.Becase of her this aggressiveness I lost my newly born baby.
Now she blames on me for this accident every time. After this I underwent to depression.
But still her behavior is same. (After 2 months of my marriage we found she is suffering from psoriasis so I took her to Doc.he told us the treatment will start after pregnancy
Then after all these I took her to Doctor He said while the course of medi. We should not try for baby, but even she does not take the medicines)
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Once I tried to tell my in-laws about my problem but they
Again blamed me for these all.
These all happened 2 yrs. back, after these all her mother got sick seriously (she loves her widow mother lie anything)
She stayed couple of months with her. When she came back again she is behaving same.
Kindly help me How to solve this problem as I can't discuss this with my mother-in-law & other relations.

2006-09-21 05:34:27 · 13 answers · asked by sandeep k 5

And they both have equal pros and cons about them. In some ways they are alike. I can't see myself living without either one. But they are forcing me to choose. How do I do that? Help!!
We are in our forties...not teenagers here.

2006-09-21 05:23:08 · 17 answers · asked by greeneyes 3

Would you marry your best friend that you have had since you were about 12 yrs old. Even though you have been married to someone else and divorced .Even if he keep showing up why you were engaged to another person at the time.

2006-09-21 05:17:14 · 19 answers · asked by adapttowhatis 1

Last night I had an arguement with my live in boyfriend. He says I'm rude to him all the time. In his words I "always have an attitude" but I don't see it that way. He comes home from work and ignores me and my boy. If I try to tell him something or ask him something I just get the answer of "Hmmm" My son notices that too. I'll admit I did have an attitude last night because he kept pushing for it and telling me I was wrong. I took a class in the subject we were discussing and I KNOW this time I'm right. I'm not always right. Everytime this happens he has to ask his friends or look it up or something. He has NEVER took me at my word. He says I have a bad attitude but I get tired of cleaning his clothes, washing his dishes, cooking his dinner ect. I know these are things I should be doing but I don't get much in return. We have had sex once in the last year. I think hes out of love with me...does it sound like it to you? Serious answers only please. Thank you.

2006-09-21 05:15:44 · 12 answers · asked by musicpanther67 5

I thought it a funny site and lots of pple seem to be judging the product advertised. I found that most answers were judgemental and unexpected. To those who saw the site and gave a holier than thou answer. Look deep inside at why the product bothered you. For those who suspect their significant other of cheating the answers I received were.... you shouldn't have gotten married, you should learn to pick them better, if you suspect them then get out of the relationship are among the answers I remember.
To you who gave these answers (you know who you are) may I wish the serenity of the ignorant, the peace of the peacock with their heads in the sand, and the wisdom that even if your spouse/partner is cheating that you never have to deal with the STD's in the world.

Ok I've vented....

2006-09-21 05:12:12 · 6 answers · asked by lisa n florida 3

I have children, and am concerned about their reaction, as well as reaction of community if I dont wait until divorce is final - almost seems like bigamy? Advice or thoughts?

2006-09-21 05:07:57 · 23 answers · asked by hipmc 1

What exactly do I do, get a new marriage licence, or a renewal or what? I don't want to accidentaly do something illegal or something wrong.

2006-09-21 05:01:54 · 16 answers · asked by delphina0723 3

Would you still sleep with your ex husband because you say you felt sorry for him..

2006-09-21 04:56:28 · 18 answers · asked by adapttowhatis 1

I left my husband five months ago. I met up with an old friend, and we dated. I broke up with him because I missed my husband.
My mom told me I was codependant.

2006-09-21 04:54:56 · 7 answers · asked by LaceyPie 3

My long-time live-in girlfriend and I were watching a movie last night and a part came on where it was mentioned that the woman had sex with someone in a famous restaurant. My girlfriend proceeds to tell me that she too has had sex in the same restaurant. Granted it was before we were together, but makes me look at her like a slut when she tells me all these things she used to do. Would you be pissed off too? It makes me feel sick when she tells me all these random sexual activites she has done. What do you think?

2006-09-21 04:43:11 · 27 answers · asked by raiderphan79 2

My fiance and I just moved from MD to MI to live with my father who has recently become quite ill. He has a lung condition that makes it very difficult for him to get around without someone there to monitor him. My fiance wanted us to move here as soon as he understood the situation. Now he is working and I am taking care of my father each day. He loves spending time with my father and he never ever complains but I know that this must be hard for him. He knows no one and I can't give him the same amout of time and/or intimacy anymore. My father is now selling his home and is looking for a home that will give the two of us our privacy. What can I do now to make things more comfortable for my fiance? Thx!

2006-09-21 04:42:09 · 14 answers · asked by Heather C 3