My long-time live-in girlfriend and I were watching a movie last night and a part came on where it was mentioned that the woman had sex with someone in a famous restaurant. My girlfriend proceeds to tell me that she too has had sex in the same restaurant. Granted it was before we were together, but makes me look at her like a slut when she tells me all these things she used to do. Would you be pissed off too? It makes me feel sick when she tells me all these random sexual activites she has done. What do you think?
2006-09-21 04:43:11 · 27 answers · asked by raiderphan79 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Let me tell you my story! My boyfriend (now husband) use to tell me these same things. ABout this girl and that girl and he was drunk and so one and so on... but me on the other had... I had NEVER done anythikng like that! I had been with one other person then him! and I was ith that guy for 4 years... so I use to get sick and angry with his stories and it was a total turn-off! After alot of fights and me realizeing that his past is his past... we moved on! Yeah I'm jealuos these other women experienced with my husband but i have him now! SO think of it that way... Your girl may have done some things... but do more with her... show her... YOU are better! See the picture!! Good Luck!
2006-09-21 04:51:37 · answer #1 · answered by NaVy WiFeY 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you are very lucky that you have a woman as a wife who is sexually experienced and did all the things other women are dreaming about. Since she did all that before being married she will not cheat on you and be a good wife.
Besides - a woman thinks she can impress a man with talking about her sex adventures. She would never even think that you could be pissed about her telling those stories.
Women think they can impress men with those kind of story telling because men usually brag among each other with the same stories. Besides a lot of porn suggests that men like to hear sex stories.
So - in fact she was telling you the stories because she wanted to impress you. You should be very happy, she really loves you.
And I bet she is giving you what most married men don't get - a lot of really good sex.
So - I am glad you asked that question. - But you could have as - with some humor and laughter - asked your wife.
2006-09-21 04:54:38 · answer #2 · answered by spaceskating_girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would get a little pissed too...its not easy to hear or think about the one you love being with other people even before you got together. My fiance and I don't ever bring up our past relationships, we just try to focus on our own. Maybe you should just let her know that you aren't very cool with hearing about that kind of stuff....if she truly loves and respects you she will think twice before saying those kind of things in front of you again.
2006-09-21 05:01:49 · answer #3 · answered by Katy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she is probably trying to make you see her as a fun sexual being again. Are things OK in that department? not being rude but i know when my boyfriend became live in things went off for a bit...when you've been with someone for a while you have to make an effort with sex. do you tell her she looks sexy or you want to rip her clothes off from time to time? Odds are she hasn't had sex in this restaurant, she's trying to make you want her as much as you used to.
2006-09-21 04:51:56 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Grow Up. You are living with her out of wedlock. Don't pull that she has random sexual activities crap. It's just a bit hypocritical for a guy who will not get married. History is just that history. Let it be. You have no business being upset that she did things with other people before you.
2006-09-21 05:33:09 · answer #5 · answered by Flagger 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you should be talking to her and not us? Have you told her that you don't care to hear about her previous escapades? Communication is the key to any relationship 's success. I also think you should be a little more open minded but thats just my humble opinion. It is 2006 and people have had previous experiences before us...and not all we are going to agree with....so talk to her and tell her how you feel....
2006-09-21 04:48:43 · answer #6 · answered by valleysexpet 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you should lighten up. It did happen before you were together. Are you upset because you didn't have sex before you met her??????? If her talking about her past sex life makes you SICK then you are with the wrong person.
2006-09-21 04:50:00 · answer #7 · answered by sexyladyinak 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My husband and I have been married almost ten years. He doesn't know anything about my sexual past (how many partners, what I've done and haven't) and I don't know about his. It's best that way - we are never p'ed at each other. Just tell her you don't want to know about her past exploits; you want you and her to live in the present and future. Good luck.
2006-09-21 04:48:21 · answer #8 · answered by DMBthatsme 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it bugs you then tell her to know it off. I dont wanna know what my wife has done with other guys.
On the other side if you like the activites she has dont dont you one up her and do something better!
2006-09-21 04:51:26 · answer #9 · answered by Night Guru 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude, take her to the friggin resturant, and anywere else she has done it.Just make sure to outdo the last guy and her memories should be reorganized.A girl that loves sex in public,I would not let that go.
What am i missing?
2006-09-21 04:52:04 · answer #10 · answered by desayunogratis 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋