09/2006 filed for divorce 12 yrs married. 2 children. how to stop the divorce process now that it has been filed?
2006-09-21 06:23:45 · 21 answers · asked by SHELLY 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Drop the charges through your local courthouse...or talk to your lawyer
2006-09-21 06:25:54 · answer #1 · answered by fwog_fwog 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I served my husband the papers and we got back together shortly after. Yes, talk to your attorney. It is very simple to stop the process. BUT you may want to leave the case open. In my situation my lawyer kept the case open because my husband had to make some changes as far as addictions and behaviors. If you keep the case open and your husband does not hold up to his part of the bargian, you just continue the process. It is super easy. God bless your marriage! ;) Oh but DON"T do it unless you know for certain he feels the same way.
2006-09-21 06:32:33 · answer #2 · answered by jenlovely01 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well.......You may and may not be able to reverse depending on whether or not he has already signed the papers. If you are serious about wanting to work it out SEE YOUR ATTORNEY IMMEDIATELY! If it is not reversed before you go to court...make sure your husband wants to save the relationship as well and all you have to do is tell the judge that....Both of you in court. Umm.......you may also wnat to find a counselor and use that as proof for the judge that you two are trying at it one more time.
2006-09-21 06:37:17 · answer #3 · answered by arielchrisandjunior 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course he has rights! Geesh, think about what you're saying?! You need an atorney to amend your custody agreement. They are his children too and he has a right to have a voice in ALL matters concerning them. Dopn't just hop up and leave with those kids without getting a written court order saying you're allowed to do so OR you just might find yourself losing custody in the end.
2016-03-17 23:38:54 · answer #4 · answered by Frank 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is no big deal. I have done this a couple of times. All you have to do is call your attorney and tell him to stop it. Or you can tell him to put it on hold for a while to see if things will work out. If you stop it you will have to go through the whole process again. If you put it on hold and it doesn't work out then all you have to do is call your attorney and tell him to proceed.
2006-09-21 06:27:29 · answer #5 · answered by jeter2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can drop the case, it is not difficult, you need to make sure though that you want to go through with it. I've been there and if you can work it out, then do so, but make sure that the relationship is salvagable. Good Luck.
2006-09-21 06:27:18 · answer #6 · answered by mrswilkerson0306 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call your husband and tell him not to sign the papers. Then talk to him about it being salvageable. Then call your lawyer if you still want to stop it.
2006-09-21 06:27:15 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
most divorces take at least 3 months to become final depending on what's involed and they also have mediation advocates and when you go in for the hearing the judge will sometimes ask if you are willing to reconcile, and your husband can also contest the divorce to stop it if he wants to try reconcilation along with marriage and family counseling. so see what your husband says and watch what happens in court. you can still save your marriage.
2006-09-21 06:29:00 · answer #8 · answered by Mary S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
filing for a divorce makes it legal. They call it "disolution of a marriage". I personally don't think it can be done without misery. With 2 children involved it get messy. Think it thru. Talk with your attorney. Let them know what "you" want. (The attorney only sees $$$$). Either way they will get paid.
2006-09-21 06:30:24 · answer #9 · answered by Spann M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to your husband about your feelings and see if he feels the same. a divorce can always be reversed. Depending on how you filed, just tell them to stop the proceedings and pay the fee.
2006-09-21 06:28:16 · answer #10 · answered by pj 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some states (like california) have a 6 month grace period exactly for situations like this. Call the court where you filed and ask them what you need to do.
2006-09-21 06:26:06 · answer #11 · answered by jimjones3 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋