Would you still sleep with your ex husband because you say you felt sorry for him..
2006-09-21 04:56:28 · 18 answers · asked by adapttowhatis 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Eeeewww...sympathy sex? Girl, get some self-respect. Seriously. No, No, No way would I sleep with anyone, ex or not, just because I felt sorry for him. Yuck!
2006-09-21 05:02:26 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What? He's just as capable as any man to grab a magazine and... entertain himself. If he's your X, let him be just that and move on. Sounds like maybe you have closure issues or something and using the sex as a reason to remain with him or a coverup for something else. If you can remain friends, that's fine and probably good, but sex shouldn't be involved, especially under the terms you've specified. Being a man, I'm sure he'd love sympathy sex, over and over and over, but where the hell does that leave you? Pretty soon you'll be feeling sorry for yourself, so don't even go there.
2006-09-21 12:00:46 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Noooooo
2006-09-21 11:57:22 · answer #3 · answered by Ms. Cranky 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's the beauty of divorce... you go your way, he goes his. You can make excuses all you want... "felt sorry for him"... but you need to move on with your life.
2006-09-21 12:01:15 · answer #4 · answered by cgspitfire 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i was considering it cause it felt like a safe way to have sex, but when i realized he was still in love with me & i saw the pain in his face everytime i saw him, i did not think it would be fair to him when i knew having sex with him would only be physical on my part, but obviously was much more to him than that - so if you can both agree it's physical and temporary, then i guess it's OK, but otherwise someone will probably get hurt or misled.
2006-09-21 12:20:14 · answer #5 · answered by livetall1 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope
2006-09-21 12:14:34 · answer #6 · answered by Daisie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's a reason why they're called an EX. Enough said!
2006-09-21 12:06:09 · answer #7 · answered by Maureen B 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ummmm hell no. If I felt sorry for him I would toss him some lotion and a Victoria's Secret catalog.
2006-09-21 12:00:20 · answer #8 · answered by NolaDawn 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
i did with mine a few times, it was a stressful time, we were comfortable with each other, we were horny, we trusted the other not to have any diseases. after a few months though i stopped it from happening it was just part of the process.
2006-09-21 11:59:44 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No - you divorced him for a reason. Remember that!
2006-09-21 13:13:54 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋