it was only a afternoon delight with the neighbor man, and my hubby says if we dont he'll tell the guys wife. what should I do? serious answers only please
2006-09-21 11:11:45 · 30 answers · asked by marykuntfarts 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
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2006-09-21 11:32:21 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Looks like your husband is giving you an option. You can continue your affair with his knowledge and blessing and participation....OR... you can face an angry neighbor's wife. You think your husband is sick, but having an affair that causes you to lie is also kind of sick.
So, where is the downside of letting husband watch?
2006-09-21 18:33:04 · answer #2 · answered by Brent 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Two wrongs don't make it right! I'd be very suspicious about that. I would just batten down the hatches and prepare for the storm. If he decides to tell the neighbors wife, both you and the neighbor could deny it and act like he's crazy, or you can do the right thing and apologize to your husband, and maybe to the wife, and try to repair your marriage.
2006-09-21 18:28:24 · answer #3 · answered by karen W 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sounds like a set up to me. I would not do it. Because it sounds like blackmail. If you do this, no telling what he will have doing next. He might decide to hire you out for his friends, coworkers, etc. I would keep my eye your husband. Just a thought.....now if you let him watch he might decide to film and then have real proof. For now it's your word against his. Girl, if you are going to have an affair never do it at your house because you will surely get caught by someone.
2006-09-21 18:16:09 · answer #4 · answered by kitcat 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
don't do that. that is sick just deny it to the fullest. uh just tell the guy what ur husband said and u guys come up with a lie or something. because that is gonna cause a lot of trouble if u guys go through with that and let ur husband watch. (blackmailing is not a good thing)
2006-09-21 18:16:35 · answer #5 · answered by b_ladyme 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This is different. He is either angry and this is a way to humuliate you and the guy. Or...he is interested in exploring some new sexual experiences. Is your husband bi-sexual or maybe gay?
In any event your marraige is in crisis. Time for some counseling.
You must stand up for yourself and say no way. even if it means he tells the wife.
2006-09-21 18:34:13 · answer #6 · answered by L.lion 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow thats out there.I figured hubby would be pissed.Whats the other man say about this?I think i would let the other man tell his wife while you deal with your hubby.Obviously somethig was wrong in your relationship to make you cheat.My concern is hubbys reaction being so nonchalant i thik i would keep my eye on him big time
2006-09-21 18:19:31 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Did you enjoy the afternoon delight? If so then by all means get on with it. Enjoy,.
2006-09-21 18:15:44 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
wow, i would never think of that kind of reaction, but don't you think he's just extremely mad???
if he's serious, you may want to give it a try...it's weird, and sick, i think, but there are a lot of sick and weirdos out there.
on the other hand, you already did it with the guy, so, what's to lose...
2006-09-21 18:15:20 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
wow...dude...thats weird! Most husbands would be very pissed but he seems to be turned on. why isn't he mad?....Is he having an affair too? its a messed up situation but if ur not comfortable w/ ur husbands request dont do it.
2006-09-21 18:14:16 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should leave, he maybe wanting to watch you through a rifle scope. Or perhaps he'll vidio tape you for another sick reason.
2006-09-21 18:16:40 · answer #11 · answered by luvofxanth 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋