I still love my wife. The only thing that has ever made me feel better than her is my son. I dont know if ill ever get over her. I miss her more every day.
2006-09-21 09:43:52 · 15 answers · asked by joezelk 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Just take it one day at a time.
2006-09-21 10:04:01 · answer #1 · answered by cheetah7 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
get busy, take a class, take up a hobby, volunteer your time to some cause.
Don't sit home alone. Don;t drink, don't sit chatting online. See real people.
Give yourself time. It will take time to mourn the loss of the dreams that you had together. It is hard, but will get easier, I promise. One day at a time. You will feel stronger every day.
Love your son. Make sure he is okay and that he knows that you both love him and it is not his fault. Be civil with her - no matter what. Don't bad mouth her in front of your son or to your son.
NO matter how hard it is for you - it is harder for him even if he doesn't show it or know how to show it. Better for him to see his parents apart and being civil, than together and unhappy because you would not want him to stay in an unhappy situation so that is why it is better not to give him that example.
Show him that even apart you care for him and more importantly his mom. Give her support. If she marries, be respectful, maintain contact with him at all costs.
good luck. see a counselor if you need to
2006-09-21 09:51:14 · answer #2 · answered by island3girl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Spend time with your son.
Please don't make the mistake my father did and leave the woman and the child until the child decides to have a relationship with you.
And above all remember that you are SEPARATED not divorced so try not to commit Adultery. THat woman deserves a husband.
2006-09-21 09:49:58 · answer #3 · answered by Psychia22 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you still love her try working it out. Therapy, or maybe talking to a Pastor or Priest. Pray Pray Pray. The ONE who created both of your has your answers. HE knows what's best for both of you, and your son. HE is really the only ONE who can do anything about it. Pray, HE will answer you I promise you
2006-09-21 10:24:55 · answer #4 · answered by mickey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
start loving yourself hun! it doesn suck major when you leave someone that you love but that's life we all have been there we all have done that well most of us have! seems like you need to get some new goals to focus on get a new vision and carrie it out! when you have something else to focus on time goes by faster and the pain seems to ease a bit!
Good luck
My hearts with you!
Mad luv
2006-09-21 09:47:00 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
A seperation is much like a death. You go through all the ame emotional stages. The more time that passes, the better you will feel.
I know it hurts, but it will get better.
2006-09-21 09:48:25 · answer #6 · answered by Simply Lovely 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try finding something to do that gets your mind off or her. Do something that you love to do that she never liked you to do. That will help. Stay busy and your days will go by faster.
2006-09-21 09:47:51 · answer #7 · answered by dollfacedbaby1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are going to be okay. You just have to find something that interest you and put all your energy into it. Find a hobby, maybe something that you enjoyed doing before you got married and had a child.
2006-09-21 09:50:26 · answer #8 · answered by heaven o 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try seeing if you can spend the time with your son. Sad however that you two could not make it... as love is there.
2006-09-21 09:47:10 · answer #9 · answered by Tricia P 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time is the only thing that will help. I wish I had a better answer, but I don't. Sorry my friend.
2006-09-21 09:47:02 · answer #10 · answered by Jewells 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋