they become paranoid that they are being cheated on? Have you ever noticed this? They do not even have to get caught and they give themselves away by becoming so concerned that they are being cheated on.
2006-09-21 03:40:48 · 15 answers · asked by ????????????????? 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Because the cheater realizes that they are getting away with this behavior, and it's just as easy for the other person to get away with it too.
2006-09-21 03:42:11 · answer #1 · answered by Royalhinney 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That's why when a person freaks out and gets overly protective of their spouse, the spouse in turn realizing their partner may be cheating -- because it just doesn't make sense. It's sad really - and answerer #1 is dead on right -- the cheater realizes just how easy it is to get away with it, and panics because they might not be the only one having their "fun." It's a vicious circle, but remember, karma always comes around and it's one tough pill to swallow.
2006-09-21 04:05:30 · answer #2 · answered by Rachel 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's called lack of selfesteem. Once a person is cheated on, their obsession becomes almost unbearable. Of course it's going to happen. Their constanting thinking what have I done to be cheated on, how do I stop it, is he/she out there doing it again sence their late for dinner? It can drive a person nuts, because it HURTS!!
Trust issues have to be addressed, and built back up.
Counseling is required also so the person can learn ways to find their ego's are back in tact.
2006-09-21 04:10:32 · answer #3 · answered by peggin_beast 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yep, cheaters never really do prosper and that's the fact. So if a little paranoid feelings accompany this action then that's the price one has to pay. Realizing that cheating isn't right is probably bothering the person and also realizing how easy it is could be the trigger to their suspicision.
2006-09-21 03:47:12 · answer #4 · answered by crazylegs 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They see how easily they found the person they are cheating with that they, think their partner could just as easily do the same thing. It is funny why they would care if their partner is cheating since they are doing it anyway. Men are territorial!!! They like to cheat but don't want their woman to cheat.
2006-09-21 03:47:57 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
because its same feeling they remember themselves when they cheated n the things they did n wont leave their life n even if they stoped cheating n they r back to their wife / hus whatever the other person is go in to do or say they start doubting it because they loose the trust in themselves n others n its really bad n hard n they think in a bad way with everything they deal with
2006-09-21 03:45:48 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i cheated by accident 2 circumstances. the final time, 0.33, i did it at the same time as on a ruin with my bf. im attempting to compliment no count if i prefer to be unmarried or not. im valuable alot of individuals have been the only helping somebody else cheat and maximum ppl dont are conscious of it. not everyone seems to be honest and in improve approximately each thing, esp dishonest.
2016-12-18 14:15:45 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's called guilt the cheaters game that they play on themselves, it is in a sort of karmic way of guilt getting back at themsleves for doing it in the first palce also in letting their partner know the truth with out having to come right out and fessing up.
2006-09-21 04:05:55 · answer #8 · answered by sophia_of_light 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They realize they are a lousy person and are totally in the wrong. The only hope they have of justifying what they did is catch the other one of doing the same thing,
2006-09-21 03:58:58 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I call it Cheater's guilt
They subconsciencly want to be cheated on so they feel even therefore less guilty
They feel you'll cheat or are cheating because they did it to you so why would you not and could not cheat on them?
2006-09-21 03:49:26 · answer #10 · answered by C.B. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋