how can u say if ur husband is cheating on u?

Answer 1

Well, God gave you instinct for a good reason. Most women have that intuition that something is wrong, and unless you are an extremely jealous wife with nothing to back up how you are feeling, which I doubt you are, chances are the way you are feeling is correct. And I am going to assume that since you have asked the question in the first place that this has been on your mind for a while. There are many signs, even though they think that they hide it well. Starting with their emotional input at home. Sex life being non existent. Being there, but his mind is somewhere else. Coming home late, having to work when he normally wouldn't. E mails, messages, and secretive phone calls. Not being able to explain where the perfume smell came from. The emotional detatchment is the biggest thing though. If you feel that this is a valid concern, you need to confront him. Cheating takes a lot out of a person because you spend so much time trying to keep up with your emotions and don't want anyone, especailly your spouse, to find out what you have been doing. Go with your gut honey, and if you really truly love him, and you decide to stay instead of packing up your life (and maybe children) and leaving, make sure that you get counseling because once they do it for the first time, there is no stopping from there. Even the ones that get caught. Good luck, and God bless. :)

Answer 2

The only sure way is to catch him in the act. However, here are the 7 signs that he MAY be cheating:

1. The most common warning is when a partner tells you something is amiss and you don't believe it. He or she may say, 'This marriage isn't working,' or 'I am not happy.'
2. Sudden Change -- or Interest -- in Appearance.
3. If your partner says, 'You need to see a psychiatrist,' 'You need help,' 'Get a job,' 'Lose weight,' or 'Go to the gym,' and is constantly critical, it's all part of the same theme -- which is that there is something wrong with you. Unconsciously, they are setting it up to say their partner was nuts and wouldn't even go for help. Another tip-off is when he or she starts picking fights about something you are good at, so you fight back and then he or she calls you argumentative.
4. Gives you guilt gifts.
5. If you get the cold shoulder at your spouse's company holiday party where everyone used to be friendly, it's a sign that his colleagues either know about the affair and figure you are on the way out, so why be nice? Or your partner has been making critical comments about you so they think you are no good.
6. When a partner is sneaking around a bit, it's a sign. Maybe he or she takes secret cell phone calls on the porch instead of using the phone by the bed, or maybe he is out on weeknights whereas he used to be home watching television. If you see that a person is not around that much and is gone on different nights, something may be up.
7. Sometimes people with a background of these types of things may be more likely to repeat them. There are exceptions and people can change patterns in their life, but if we are talking about red flags, history is a red flag.

Answer 3

You can't really say he is cheating on you unless you have straightforward proof that he is cheating. When I say straight-forward proof, I mean you have to catch him or he tells you. Under no circumstances should you believe he is cheating if somebody tells you, they could be deceiving you. Knowing if your husband is cheating is hard to tell. If he is acting standoffish and neglecting you, he could be cheating, then on the other hand, he could have something on his mind that he really needs to talk about and is just keeping it bottled up inside. Then you should go to him and ask him what's wrong. The problem could be as simple as needing to get something out that is being bottled up inside. On the other hand, if he is coming in late and just disrespecting you, he is probably cheating. But still don't jump to conclusions, do a little snooping, but don't let him find out and don't come right out and ask him. Whether he is cheating or not will soon come out in the open, believe me. But in the meantime, be safe in the process. Good luck.

Answer 4

Oh, there may be evidence you can find. The possible cheating isn't the problem. You can't legislate morality and the problem is that you feel there is the potential for cheating. The potential for cheating is the problem. In other words, the problem is in the relationship, not the potential cheaters outside the marriage.

Answer 5

There are several ways to tell if someone is cheating on you... unexplainable telephone calls, cell phone bills increasing... watch the cell phone bill for a number you do not recognize, at work at odd hours, not comming home at night, then the great rumors that women will pass along.

Answer 6

There is no sure way to tell if he is cheating or not. If you suspect it do a little investigation on your own. Usually as long as you are not typically a paranoid person if you have a strong suspension it is a good possibility that he is......but not always!!

Answer 7

You just come out and say it...If you are wrong ...well...your wrong...but expressing the reasons you suspected this in first place with your mate will allow him insight into his behavior. Accept or don't accept..that's about it in a nutshell,...Trust me spending your time worrying isn't the answer. The best lessons in our lives learned are from making mistakes and confronting and/or asking questions.
JUST DO IT ..lol
GOOD LUCK
and
GOD BLESS

Answer 8

if he comes home after work and has red lipstick on his cock, and you dont wear lipstick... thats a good sign.

if your best friend just had a baby, but has been single for 3 years, and the kid looks AMAZINGLY like your husband, thats another good sign.

when you ask his sorry *** who he's been fukcing, and he answers back somebody OTHER than you!.... thats usually a dead give -a-way!

Answer 9

do you think your husband is cheating on you? thats how you know.

Answer 10

If he starts to act differently around you.