Marriage & Divorce - 6 September 2006

the divorce, if you can share?

2006-09-06 15:40:15 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

I would like to get the opinion of those who have experience from marriage failures only.

2006-09-06 15:39:48 · 12 answers · asked by dtmc542006 3

We hardly talk since going through our custidy battle. Now its over she seem to text me allot. Your a cheater or Happy Labor Day.No matter how much I tell her I havn;t cheated its in one ear and out the other. It never seems to be enough. I told her that it sounds like the guilty is comming out in her.

2006-09-06 15:37:04 · 24 answers · asked by simplisticsimple 1

Ex-husband calls me to discuss our adult children. He stays on phone for 1.5 hours and is so sweet and understanding and calls me "Hon" twice. We've been divorced 8 years and he has remarried. This is the first time he has called. Before this I was a name that was unmentionable.

2006-09-06 15:32:13 · 20 answers · asked by lavenderbluelassie 3

I don't feel it. I try but I feel I know him more than what he can say to a counselour. Its hard to explain but I feel that route can't work. And I don't want it, truly. Did I not try hard enough? Or am I listening to my heart and thats a good thing?

2006-09-06 15:30:33 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

i wanna marry my fiance before i go in the military. i have two weeks.

2006-09-06 15:26:30 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

When there is a parent who is the primary custodian and denys the other parent their visitation rights for no substantial reason? how does a judge determine who is right and how to enforce their agreement?

2006-09-06 15:25:34 · 6 answers · asked by orange_girl_2003 1

What makes you think my son is a spoiled brat, I hardly ever see him. I see my daughter in law and my grandson more often. I keep my grandson almost ever weekend and give up my free time, which I do not regret at all because I love my grandson with all of my heart. I do this so my son and his wife will have more alone time to work on their marriage. I guess it did not work. What do you suggest I do now?

2006-09-06 15:22:48 · 12 answers · asked by PegSl 2

I have been in a 4 year relationship andtold him I want to be single due to many, many personal issues he needs to deal with. When I am with him I feel down right miserable. But when he's away and we are seperated, I feel guilty and I miss him too. I am very confused, do I not know what I want or am I just making the wrong decision or...? Help!

2006-09-06 15:19:35 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

Been married over 25 yrs to older man who is good to me and loves me but is not "in love" with me. I just want to find happiness again and think I can with this other man.

2006-09-06 15:18:27 · 30 answers · asked by confused and unhappy 1

2006-09-06 15:00:11 · 10 answers · asked by Jon Boy 1

When I met my wife, she was a smoker. On our second date, I told her that I could not continue to date a smoker since I can't stand it. So she stopped immediately.

Six years later, she has taken up smoking again and I can't stand it. She only smokes two a day but sometimes more. She does her best to keep herself from smelling bad. When I tell her that she is being stupid, she tells me that I am trying to control her life.

I know that it is her life. I assume that I either have to live with her habit or leave her if I feel that strongly about it. Are there no other options? Is there any way for me to deal with the pain without affecting our marriage?

2006-09-06 14:58:55 · 36 answers · asked by Brad T 2

I'm 45 and have loss both parents unexpectedly to death but the pain that I feel now that the woman that I have loved for so long has left me. How can I stop this gut wrenching pain from controling my life. I walk in the house and I just start crying my eyes out because I don't see her on the patio waving at me with her lovely smile. Everything that I look at from the coffee mugs that we had coffee in every morning to the bed, decorations that she hung and placed around the house, everything makes me so sad. I had no idea that she was so unhappy, at least to the point of sneeking away. I've talked to her on the phone and she says that it is not another man, just that she didn't feel loved. She stopped drinking 5 months ago and since then she went on a health kick and I didn't. I love her with all of my heart and would do anything for her. I have no family or friends, 2400 miles from where I grew up and no money. I just don't know what to do with my life, I am so sad, the saddest ever.

2006-09-06 14:57:50 · 24 answers · asked by sharkscue 3

2006-09-06 14:52:59 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-09-06 14:52:51 · 17 answers · asked by Jon Boy 1

They have a four year old son that needs both of them. There is no other party involved. He wants to be a free spirit and she is controlling, He wants out, but she doesn't want a divorce, she says she loves him and wants him to come home. He moved out two days ago after a fight. Please help me. My main concern is my grandson. I don't want him to be hurt.

2006-09-06 14:45:02 · 19 answers · asked by PegSl 2

I did this the other day b/c getting engaged isn't really a surprise to me, I pretty much helped my guy pick out the ring. But he made the final selection. Anyways, I tried on the rings to make sure they fit (turns out we had to get both of them sized-twice!). I told my best friend about this, and she completely freaked out. She said that is really bad luck to do so. I've never heard this superstition. What do ya'll think? Bad luck or no?

2006-09-06 14:40:51 · 14 answers · asked by MegW12 4

get him served? i've been to the WV child support agency with all the info i have and he hasn't even been served papers yet! he sends nothing and never even calls his son. his name is Darin Lee Corn and if anyone has any info about getting a deadbeat dad to pay up i'd love to know!thanks.

2006-09-06 14:40:21 · 5 answers · asked by sweet_shy_blondie 3

I think my husband has been lying to me about money. He is a compulsive gambler (recovering), but I'm worried he has started again. What are the signs that someone is lying, such as body language, etc.

TIA

2006-09-06 14:39:46 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

I know that many people will tell me that it doesn't matter if she is a virgin or not, but I would like to know which would you prefer better. Few men are virgins before they marry, so that's something women can't expect anymore.

Anyway, I would like to know your opinion.

2006-09-06 14:39:27 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

I've been married for a year and a half and together with the same man - i mean really together (living with, etc) for three years prior to the wedding. i am unhappy - pretty much have been a good portion of the relationship - i feel stiffled and humiliated and all that bad stuff. i know i am not perfect - it takes two to tango - but i know that it is time to leave.... so now what? where do i go? who do i contact? how long does it take? How much does it cost? who is responsible for the fees? so many questions. thankfully, even though we had been pregnant many times, the lord did not bless us with earthbound children. i still love him - but i moved into our guest room last week - one can only take so much rejection before they just quit. it wont be easy getting him to agree - i've tried before to get him out - i had to call the cops (i just wanted to be alone!).
suggestions?

2006-09-06 14:32:24 · 11 answers · asked by Amber S 1

Has anyone ever has anyone ever had a physical attraction to one of your wifes sisters? did you act on it or keep it secret? if you did act on it what happened?? did the sister tell or did she give in to your advances??????

2006-09-06 14:29:12 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

He's another customer who's married, but whose marriage is on the verge of over. We went to lunch about 3 months ago, and he poured out his heart to me about his loneliness and disappointment in his wife. He also said that he found me irresistible. I guess it's because of his situation at home, too. We went to lunch again last week, but I brought a co-worker with me. Today I saw him in his office, and told me not to bring a chaperone in the future. What do you guys think?

2006-09-06 14:26:15 · 9 answers · asked by Confused_Rep 4

Our divorce was final a year and half ago, my ex is telling me that it's against the law to live with your boyfriend when you are not marrried with a minor child.

2006-09-06 14:24:00 · 9 answers · asked by MasterJ 1

My two year old angel is the first and only child me and my wife has had. (We might be too old now for more.) I'm so scared sometimes, when she falls, when she scratches or bumps her head. I know it's normal. Also, when I take her to the park or the play-pen, I always check for loose swings or nails, then look around for suspicious men, who could be pediphiles.

Is there any way to keep her a two year old? I don't want her to change from Miss Tea party. My wife says I spoil her (which I probably do.)

How do I know she won't become like the Hilton sisters? How do I know she will talk to me when she becomes a teenager about peer-pressure or boys? I feel so self-consious sometimes that I might be parenting all wrong. Is that normal?

2006-09-06 14:22:07 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

today I went to pick up my check from my job when the girl that my husband had a affair on me with walks in wearing my work uniform, I asked my boss if she hired a girl named allanna she said yes and I told how I know her my promblem is that I thought I forgave her when I came to christ, but I was all shaky and my heart was beating real fast plus my husband has to stop of at my work to drop off my unifrom, I'm scared that he might ask her to go to chruch I know everyone needs to be saved I just dont want her to go to my church,she can be saved and go some where else I know thats not very christian like but I've only been a christian for a year, not that that's any ascuse am I wrong here? please help!

2006-09-06 14:08:58 · 38 answers · asked by sunistao 3

2006-09-06 14:02:26 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

im just wondering i have had lots of sex and now me and my wife want to have children will the fact i have ejaculated every day efect my having children?

2006-09-06 13:59:43 · 8 answers · asked by amad b 1

ok i haven't been able to have an "O" for a long time now i been having to fake it several times (89%), there are times i do tell my bf. i'm still physically attracted to him so i don't understand why i just can get there. so help, any adivce or is it me?

2006-09-06 13:58:06 · 8 answers · asked by no one 1

2006-09-06 13:44:45 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous