2006-09-06 14:52:59 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Get involved with your child's activities. You will find people who are as involved as you are & then you just might find someone you really connect with, male or female! You need to get friends!
2006-09-06 14:59:24 · answer #1 · answered by dollface 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
date
2006-09-06 14:54:54 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is normal to feel lonely. Get out and meet some new people. Join a health club, do some type of charity work. There is always something to do out there. The more you let your emotion control you will never get over it. We can only grieve so far in our self pity in life. Take your separation as a learning experience and grow from it. It may take awhile to forget, but you have to make an effort to do it for you. Remember life is too short do not waste it. Someday you will find your happiness and contentment in life. Goodluck.
2006-09-06 16:00:11 · answer #3 · answered by leyte6519 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This happen to me in 2001 and I felt soo alone. But I got on my friends computer and started going out a little and meeting people and things started getting better. It takes time and I know it seems like its never going to end. I moved in with my buddy I had known for years and I started getting in shape . Mountain biking , bow flex and then I joined a gym where I met some people and before you knew it I wasn`t so lonely anymore. Now we go camping when it gets cold here in Florida and I`m always doing something. Just hang in there and try to get yourself feeling better by looking better. How you look at yourself and is how other people are going to look at you. Get yourself into shape and when you look better then you feel better. Good luck and we are always here to answer your questions.
2006-09-06 15:02:37 · answer #4 · answered by bren_jim 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
will i guess the key word is seperated. so i guess it all depends if you and your other plan on working things out or not. you can join a gym,go play bingo,volenteer at a nursing home or hospital,or soup kitchen,and meet great people. get a part time job,and if it over for sure,i guess you could try on line dating or have a friend hook you up. but most important is do alot of fun stuff with your son.bars are not a good place unless you want to end up with a drunk .also a very important place to try to meet good pepole is church.
2006-09-06 15:04:50 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
will need to find something to keep you busy and get the child involved in activities if not involved and make sure to have time for yourself. Don't know if you believe in the power of pray, it really helps, is what I did when in your same situation. Get involved with a singles group at a church and this will enable to meet other singles. Good Luck!
2006-09-06 14:58:06 · answer #6 · answered by beaderlovinglife 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is hard to get through this time, I know. But you will get through it. I wouldn't try to date just yet. Give yourself some time. Spend time with your son...and get involved in his school. Go out with friends if you can. There are support groups for people going through divorce, try one of these.
Hope you are able to ease your loneliness soon. I know, because I am lonely too.
2006-09-06 14:58:05 · answer #7 · answered by littleflower_57 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel your pain, in a similar situation. You forgot to add the stressfulness and exhaustion involved in it. If you are comfortable with the idea, try to start dating. Otherwise, tke some time for yourself. My personal favorite is a manicure and pedicure. Can't affoard a real one, but after a nice long bath, I like to pamper myself a little. It will easer eventually, hang in there.
2006-09-06 14:57:49 · answer #8 · answered by Lemme tell ya... 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sunflower, I have been where you are and it is ok. Sometimes we have to go through things in order to find ourselves. Being alone is not a bad thing. Learn more about yourself and what you like to do with your son. You don't know this yet but you have been freed, and there is nothing like your freedom.
2006-09-06 14:57:29 · answer #9 · answered by phattybiggums 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Join a club or participate in an activity with other single adults. Or just spend the time with your son and show him how much he is loved.
2006-09-06 14:55:14 · answer #10 · answered by Miss J 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Embrace loneliness for a while. Learn to enjoy your self and love yourself and time with yourself. Maybe it'd help you feeling independent and strong on your own.
Teach your son how to read -- both of you could read Eats Shoots and Leaves together.
2006-09-06 14:57:20 · answer #11 · answered by wrathofkublakhan 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋