Marriage & Divorce - 6 September 2006

im married of about a year and i love my husband so much (no question about it). he's my boyfriend for about seven years before we got married. what concerns me is that, ever since we had relationship, i keep on dreaming my exboyfriend almost everyday until now. and in my dream, it seems that i have regrets ending up with my husband. i know its not true but i wonder if anybody can have their word about this. thanks

2006-09-06 12:31:58 · 7 answers · asked by justsexy 3

SEARCHING FOR HERBERT L. PERILLOUX , IN SALEM , OREGON...I THINK YOU FOUND HIM..BUT I NEED MORE INFO...EX-HUSBAND OWES ME MONEY, HE IS REALLY HIDEING..HAVE COURT JUDGEMENTS, NEED HELP COLLECTING,.PLEASE GET BACK TO ME , MICHELL O , THANKS

2006-09-06 12:29:53 · 2 answers · asked by 65MPH-HA 2

I live in Gwinnett County - Georgia. The father and wife live in FL and we have joint custody, with me being the primary custodian - I want to revise the court order because I feel my son (who is 2) is in a hostile environment when he visits with his father (usually a week) - every time he goes over there, she always starts a problem with him being there.

2006-09-06 12:10:44 · 20 answers · asked by fed up single mom 1

At what point do you call it off? When is enough, enough?

2006-09-06 12:04:45 · 21 answers · asked by SteelJazz 1

My husband is a great husband financially and a great dad, however he refuses to give me attention sexually. I am about 7mth's pregnant that last time we had sex was in February, this is when the baby was concieved. He has not touched me or made an attempt..

To make it worse he sleeps on the couch every single night.. I feel extremely lonely and I have mentioned it to him and it goes one ear and out the other. I even told him that I we should get counseling and he suggested that I go and not him. He does not understand that this a two way thing, we both need to go. I am sooooooooooo frustrated.. What more can I do? Could someone please give me some good advice... Thank you for reading....

2006-09-06 11:59:32 · 42 answers · asked by Vicky 6

My husband thinks I"m crazy... He always wants to stay drunk and he's mean to me when he is.. So I just get drunk with him and then I take up for myself.... is there something wrong with that. ... I don't think he remembers what he does.. but he sure does remember what i say and do.. I"m just so confused.. what should i do??? I love him but you can't be with a drunk without being one yourself.. I need WISE advice... some one with experience

2006-09-06 11:58:31 · 12 answers · asked by amber22davis 1

Some of you will probably be grossed out by this but I'm crazy about this guy. I know he's much older and everything, it doesn't concern me but I don't know about him. I know that he's not married but I'm just afraid that he would reject me.

2006-09-06 11:55:11 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

my husband and have been married a year aug 27 and bout a week before our anny, he told me he just wasnt in love wiht me anymore, (we had been having lots of arguments) and this crushed me cause he's always said he was in love wiht me adn always be, we talked and i asked him why he wasnt and what i could do to make him fall back in love wiht me and he said he didnt know:( weve been doin okay or well better lately and the other night he told me he was in love with me, can this be true or could it be that he saw how hurt i was and he will do anything not to hurt me? please give me your opinoin.

2006-09-06 11:43:07 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-09-06 11:40:36 · 27 answers · asked by urbanbutterfly 3

It happens all the time these days. I know what does on after the final bell rings.

She's lucky I let her work at JC Penny's with all those racy undergarments they sell there.

2006-09-06 11:27:20 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-09-06 11:25:18 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

Long story short my wife felt she had reason to wonder rather or not I am faithful so her being the genius that she is talked her sister into offering me some azz

at the time I didnt know it was a test so I just told the sister I couldnt do that and left it at that...... now she is mad at me because she felt I failed her test by not mentioning what her sister offered.

I didnt do a damn thing wrong and if anything should be mad at her and her sister for playing dumb azz games.

2006-09-06 11:25:16 · 20 answers · asked by RedEye 3

where can she find an omish husbend.only!...only for omish bread!.

2006-09-06 11:23:15 · 14 answers · asked by Beka. 2

2006-09-06 11:14:58 · 29 answers · asked by ? 2

A few days ago my boyfriend asked me if when he comes down in 3 years I'll be 15 and he will be 16, is this a good idea or not? I just turned 12 on the 28th of August, and he turned 13 on may 26th and I don't know if i should, i need answers, give them please.

2006-09-06 10:56:24 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

i mean, emotional threats / blackmail / intimidation / subtle or not so subtle manipulation / trashing your self - esteem, etc, etc
i am interestedi n the dynamics of all this. how they get away with it and are they concious they are doing it? do they think it is right? can they ever be taught otherwise? do they think this is a "love" relationship?

2006-09-06 10:43:04 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am not totally opposed to it. It is a fantasy fo mine. BUT what about afterwards?? And I coudl NEVER watch my husband be with another woman.Is this just a ploy for him to be able to sleep with another woman? Can our marriage survive it? How do we go about doing it? How do you ask someone to do that w/ you? Why watch me? What if the other man is not attracted to me? What if I love it? Am I going to want other men? My husband made the comment that he thinks I want other men. Is he jsut insecure and thinking that he is beating me to the punch, by suggesting it? BTW I do not desire other men.

2006-09-06 10:39:48 · 26 answers · asked by loladoreen 3

i recently got my fiance's name tatood on my back.... people think that i was crazy for doing it but i say this... "even if we didnt work out, he still is the only person that i have ever loved and hated so much at the same time... lol no other person has given me that feeling before*

2006-09-06 10:24:41 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-09-06 10:22:55 · 26 answers · asked by Jon Boy 1

2006-09-06 10:22:28 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

Should you stick it out no matter what?

2006-09-06 10:19:53 · 37 answers · asked by Questions&Answers 4

Reason I ask this question is. Females always want to find that special someone to spend the rest of their life with. I never really hear of males saying that they're looking for that female they want to spend their whole life with. I think it's pressure coming from the female onto the guy and media and society, politics, etc. saying you should get married to a female. World tradition. I've been married and still am married but I feel like I was pressured into it. Too soon at that. Then when you do get married the intimacy slows down because they feel like they(women) got you and they don't have to be as intimate anymore. Excuses: like I'm tired, I've been working all day, I can't because of the kids right now, I have to clean up the house, etc. Marriage is a bad thing for guys don't do it if you're thinking about it. Marriage is something for females benefit and not ours (males). It's the truth. Tell me honestly what does the male benefit from marriage?

2006-09-06 10:19:01 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

.....the Judge, during final divorce hearing said that she was allowed items of hers and her children from his ministorage ( from a list ). He has not complied and now has disappeared or is hiding. Ideas? Will we need to have a judge allow us forced access, or can she take her divorce decree to the ministorage ( along with a police officer ) and ask/demand admittance? Any ideas oh great brain trust?

2006-09-06 10:16:43 · 5 answers · asked by john200981 2

http://cgi.ebay.com/ws/eBayISAPI.dll?ViewItem&ih=009&item=190026436339&rd=1&sspagename=STRK%3AMESE%3AIT&rd=1

2006-09-06 10:08:57 · 29 answers · asked by I'm_gonna_bite_you 1

2006-09-06 10:08:04 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous

of two divorced young people with no kids to have a successful marriage? a friend of mine is really confused because she loves the guy,,, but because both of them think they have "one more chance and that's it" .. she doesn't know what to do or what to expect. he asked her to give him some 'points' to discuss like, what does she want of him etc, but she is clueless. since she would never ask for help in person, i'm asking you to offer some suggestions. i would really appreciate it. what are the things they should not be afraid to discuss?the thing is that they are afraid of losing each other if they make some particular demands/ should they be more flexible or more stubborn now that they've had the experience?thanx a lot

2006-09-06 09:59:52 · 4 answers · asked by LadyPandora 2

Today, I stood up for my wife at a sushi bar and (sad to say) I was not expecting the guy to hit me back for some reason. I never fought anyone before, but enough was enough with the obese jokes about my wife. Well, I suppose I should have taken karate lessons when I was younger.It's funny now I think about me flying over the tables...

The bad part about it was one of the guy's friends contacted my wife after we had left, and apologized. The friend said the guy was drunk, lonely, jealous and :( homosexual. She said he started talking about my wife because he had figured (for some reason unknown to me) I was gay.

Needless to say, that didn't brighten up the situation. The gays said they would pay for the damage. My wife thinks I should apologize as well... What do you think?

2006-09-06 09:59:32 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am looking for the reasons couples stay together for an extended relationship. Please put in your answers the time you have been in your current relationship, what caused you to select this person and if anything was basicly changed in your relationship to cause it to continue. Or were you a complete match from the begining?

Any information will be helpful.

Thanks for your time.

2006-09-06 09:58:14 · 6 answers · asked by SigmundS of Yew 3

i do it to her al the time and i want her to see that im not just the same old f***k

2006-09-06 09:55:52 · 18 answers · asked by tk b 1

2006-09-06 09:55:04 · 27 answers · asked by dave h 1