Tell me who has the right to be mad at who?

Question

Long story short my wife felt she had reason to wonder rather or not I am faithful so her being the genius that she is talked her sister into offering me some azz

at the time I didnt know it was a test so I just told the sister I couldnt do that and left it at that...... now she is mad at me because she felt I failed her test by not mentioning what her sister offered.

I didnt do a damn thing wrong and if anything should be mad at her and her sister for playing dumb azz games.

she is mad because I didnt tell her about her sisters offer.

to me this is a lame azz test because only someone who doesnt care would sleep with there damn sister-n-law.

Answer 1

Good for you for not cheating!!!

I can see both sides of this, but really, you are right here. Just tell her that you said no and that you didn't tell her because you didn't want her to hate her sister. Not to mention the fact that it was just a test so who really gives a crap....it wasn't real!

Besides, she should have tested you before she married you. What brains.

Answer 2

She's a psycho: Anyone who would think this up let alone act on it, is a bit off. The fact that her sister went along with it proves the insanity runs in the family.

She's a moron: It's not even a valid test of your fidelity. If you were going to cheat and have half a brain, you certainly wouldn't do it with your sister-in-law.

Tell her to get some counselling or at least some decent medication to control her raving imagination.

Answer 3

You turned down a set up by the sister in law and are still catching $hit? You need to make it clear in no uncertain terms that her test was BS. That you turned her down thus proving your fidelity. That the decision to be quiet about it was to maintain family unity ( with her not being forever angry with her for hitting on you). That you handled it appropriately with a " I'm flattered ,Thank You, but I'm married" and that should have been the end of it. Go further to tell her that her jealous games are starting to get in the way of your trust of her and if she does not stop the BS it will adversely affect your marriage.
How's That?

Do not forget the final subject changer. If I'm going to have to put up with this BS for turning her down the next time I won't.

Answer 4

I totally agree with you.Being a female myself l cant believe that your wife could be so stupid. What if you were to do the same to her . Would she find that amusing ? I dont think so. Perhaps you should have told her about it but if it was me l think l probably would have just avoided the sister like the plague and hoped it would all blow over. Explain your reasons to your wife and if she cant understand where you are coming from just do what you got to do. If she loves you she should believe you unless you have given her a reason to doubt you. You cant just be mad at her sister after all they were both involved although l find it hard to believe that her sister would agree to somethink so stupid.Good Luck with it all.

Answer 5

Tell her you've been out of 4th grade a long time ago. You saw no reason to stir up chaos over it. She's immature and she should relies she was being goofy. I agree it was a dumb azz game to be playing.

Answer 6

You should just tell her that considering the way things were set up, you did what you would have under any other circumstances, (even with other females). She don't have a right to get upset, she should be glad to have a loyal man in her life which is a rare breed these days.

Answer 7

You failed the test by staying with a controlling, insecure and ignorant woman who has no respect for you, herself, or her sister. Be prepared for more of the same in the years to come.

Answer 8

hey I'm with you buddy, that IS a screwed up thing for her to do, and you where (not knowing to the situation) trying to spare her relationship with her sister by staying mum about the whole thing, she was manufacturing things to be pissed at you about, i mean i tease my BF and say i am so mad at you hunny, you (insert some crazy thing here) so now we have to have make up sex, but what she did was pretty f-d up.
if i were you i would be royally P.O.'d.
sorry man remember not all of us are bit ches.
good luck dude.

Answer 9

She is lame. End of story. Marriage isnt a game and shouldnt be treated as such. You have every right to be mad at both of them. How childish and immature.

Answer 10

Well, welcome to club marriage!
A woman who would stoop to 'testing' her mate is nothing more than a idiot that doesn't respect you at all. I would tell her to bite my fat @ss and then go piss up a rope for trying such games.
Typical woman....has to have turmoil in order to fill the void in her oh so uncreative and pathetic life. I am sure she is on top of the world right now.