Ex-husband calls me to discuss our adult children. He stays on phone for 1.5 hours and is so sweet and understanding and calls me "Hon" twice. We've been divorced 8 years and he has remarried. This is the first time he has called. Before this I was a name that was unmentionable.
2006-09-06 15:32:13 · 20 answers · asked by lavenderbluelassie 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Maybe he's trying to bury the hatchet? Let him. Don't read more into it.
2006-09-06 16:15:42 · answer #1 · answered by shomechely 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like a little nostalgia hit him. Guys usually go through a stage of reflection every once in a while. They don't necessaliy want a relationship...but they want the comfort of keeping in touch and reminicing the good 'ole days. In this case, the kids are what you have in common. It's the common ground in which is safe to talk about...he may keep in touch and expand on other issues...like what went wrong, and so forth. It's okay. Don't worry about it...it's usually middle age creeping up, and he wants peace in his life, and resolution from issues in the past. In other words...it's a guys why of trying to say "I'm sorry, and let's leave the past behind us, and let's be friends."
Hope this helps.
2006-09-06 23:22:08 · answer #2 · answered by Chistiaŋ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's entirely possible he's experiencing some problems at home and just recalled all the sweet times he's had with you (obviously he's forgotten any bad things... men have selective memory with women)
In the end, he's remarried and you're both divorced. That's the point.
2006-09-06 22:46:22 · answer #3 · answered by Hang Tough 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My ex called me baby and we also have a child together,we talk for hours on the phone,but in don't think noting of it because i do not want him that the reason is an ex,he probably having problem with his wife and trying to use you and you are falling for it.
2006-09-06 22:38:54 · answer #4 · answered by jolie minouche 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like he's having trouble in his current marriage and is now realizing that the grass is not greener where he is. Of cousre by now he's not angry with u anymore and thinks he can "test" the waters with u again. How u handle this is up to u but just remember that he is your ex for a reason.
2006-09-06 22:43:51 · answer #5 · answered by cheetah7 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Looks like he finally realized that it was better for everyone to get along with you. It really is hard to go thru life hating someone so much that it consumes you. My ex is still mad and we've been divorced since '79. She calls me sperm donor. Classy for sure.
2006-09-06 22:40:42 · answer #6 · answered by nicksriders 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont make to much of it he is to be considered a friend and father of your kids. Just be nice back with him because you and him need a good parenting relationship. Be cool dont get your intentions high beside its been 8 years and he has moved on.
2006-09-06 22:43:07 · answer #7 · answered by cupcake 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he's having problems with the new wife and misses what you guys had.
2006-09-06 22:36:10 · answer #8 · answered by Amanda 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he's going through a low point in his marriage.
2006-09-06 22:57:28 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
are you saying this is a bad thing
your adults, you can easily have a conversation with those you may not like
2006-09-06 22:36:15 · answer #10 · answered by B pyro 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋