He's another customer who's married, but whose marriage is on the verge of over. We went to lunch about 3 months ago, and he poured out his heart to me about his loneliness and disappointment in his wife. He also said that he found me irresistible. I guess it's because of his situation at home, too. We went to lunch again last week, but I brought a co-worker with me. Today I saw him in his office, and told me not to bring a chaperone in the future. What do you guys think?
2006-09-06 14:26:15 · 9 answers · asked by Confused_Rep 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Everything depends on you darling.
He is just trying to take advantage of you as you need sales & he is just giving you crap about his nearly over marriage. Are you that desperate for sales that you would sleep with anyone & everyone or he is too important customer for you??
Good luck & God bless you
2006-09-06 20:19:18 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This guy has issues way beyond being lonely in his marriage. Don't bring a chaperone? A little controlling, a person without control issues might have said, can we meet on on one? leaving you an out if you weren't interested. I would be avoiding this guy, if there are real issues in his marriage, I think I can see why.
2006-09-06 14:31:14 · answer #2 · answered by n_of49p 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He didnt handle the situation well at all. I would feel as uncomfortable as you do. I think id have to back away and tell him youre just not interested until hes legally separated. Then just hold your head high...you dont owe him a thing.
2006-09-06 18:09:29 · answer #3 · answered by Johnny 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What could you possibly hope to gain from someone who talks so poorly about someone he once claimed to love. And if he claims to never have loved her then he has even bigger issues. Right now he has nothing to offer you ( not even his love is yours alone). Be smart.
2006-09-06 14:33:23 · answer #4 · answered by who R U 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you are his rebound, be careful, I would back off for a while let him get used to being divorced
2006-09-06 14:33:17 · answer #5 · answered by Right Wing Extremist 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'VE BEEN IN THIS SITUATION BEFORE. THAT WAS 2 YRS AGO AND THE MAN IS STILL WITH HIS WIFE. THERE ARE PLENTY OF FISH IN THE SEA. I WOULDNT EVEN BOTHER WITH HIM
2006-09-06 15:16:33 · answer #6 · answered by kimandkaitlyn2005 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Piece of SH--!
All men say they are not getting along with his wife so they can get in your pants.
Its simple
2006-09-07 11:02:04 · answer #7 · answered by Mit 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should stay away from this guy, unless you are interested in him too.
2006-09-06 14:33:08 · answer #8 · answered by SimpleGurl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him next time you thought you would BRING HIS WIFE!
You are playing with fire! What a looser!
2006-09-06 14:29:15 · answer #9 · answered by WhatNext 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋