Marriage & Divorce - 4 September 2006

2006-09-04 09:43:32 · 4 answers · asked by aaria 1

Hi I have seen that Southsea Castle in Hampshire, UK, is licensed for civil marriages, but how much is it? Their website tells you next to nothing... (www.southseacastle.co.uk)

2006-09-04 09:32:40 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-09-04 09:29:39 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

I suffer from borderline personality disorder, and have hurt my wife. I have just come to terms with my problems (of course, after I hurt her), and am willing to do anything to fix my issue so that we can be happy together. But how do I show her this? How do I tell her this? How do I make her see that I understand what my problems are and I am willing to go to any lengths to fix them? Help, please!

2006-09-04 09:28:55 · 21 answers · asked by Mr. Spaz 4

My wife has the house and there is a restraining order a against me I can't pay the bils cause I can find work.I took care of her for 17 years,forgave her when she had an affair,always took her out , bought a great house in a great nieghborhood we set up our future income...our daughters future,now when times are tough she bails on me.....its for better or worse.She can't keep what she can't afford and thats all my hard work,she could keep a job,never cooked,cleaned or shopped...what the @##%^.......well get nasty or let it all go ???????

2006-09-04 09:19:40 · 14 answers · asked by Smith & Jones 2

my parents got divorced two years ago and i was really sad but the other day my dad came over to talk about divorce papers and i said i had a date and i got home a hour early and i saw my parents making out and they both are already married again what do i do????????????????

2006-09-04 09:18:38 · 16 answers · asked by candy 1

Regardless of the situation, if a man says that he loves everthing about a woman and accepts her as she is, should he continue to stay with her even though he feels that she constantly puts him down? She's Bipolar and each day her attitude is up and down.

2006-09-04 09:10:34 · 10 answers · asked by Ms-No-It-All 4

This is for you men mainly!!!!

I just got a call from a VERY reliable source that told me that my husband has been cheating on me. This person told me the name of the woman that he cheated on me with. I told my husband what I was told not accuse him. I told him I didn't believe it and when I told him what was said he got mad, threw his wedding ring at me and left.

Tell me why would he do this. Instead of telling me that he didn't he gets mad. I didn't accuse. I just told him what I was told.

2006-09-04 08:56:07 · 14 answers · asked by ? 2

He'll notice a woman a few yards away and make eye contact.
He's attractive so she always looks back. Then she comes his way. He'll find some reason to stall until she gets there. When they meet, they look directly at each other. To me, it doesn't evoke jealousy but I feel disrespected and angry. Yet, he becomes angry and pretends I'm making it up and asks who I'm even talking about. Needless to say, his escapades don't work anymore as far as confusing me but it does cause me to distrust him and it does chip away at our relationship. He never admits and simply waits for me to get over the anger thinking I get over the entire situation bc he has. Am I over-reacting? This is a trust issue to me and, more then that, it's very disrespectful. One man I dated and both men I've been married to have behaved this way. I'm a very attractive woman, thin, and take very good care of myself. Do all men behave this way? Please don't tell me to ignore it. I did that for quite awhile.

2006-09-04 08:51:29 · 10 answers · asked by Alexi 1

I have been dating my fiance for about 1.5 years. He is kind and good to me. We have a very good relationship. Honestly, I can't figure out why I am so nervous about it. Except perhaps the having children thing. He really wants two kids. I love kids but I don't have so much time before I can't have them. Less than 5 years most likely. I am finishing grad school. I make great money. He is more or less just starting out. But he works hard and he has drive. But I have the cold feet thing. And we were thinking of eloping next month. Your thoughts.

2006-09-04 08:49:43 · 9 answers · asked by kishoti 5

My wife works 40 hours, goes to school full time, we have two kids, I do all the work around the house raise the kids when she is not around or doing homework. I also work 40 hrs and as soon as I come home my second job begains. I have to clean up the mess they made all day, cook dinner, get the girls to bed, go to sleep myself and then start it all over again. I don't understand why she won't try to fit in a few minutes for me. When we do make love it is maybe once every two weeks and only for ten minutes max. there is no foreplay and rarely do I even get to see her naked. Is it wrong to want more affection from her when she is so busy?

2006-09-04 08:45:29 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

I think so

2006-09-04 08:40:36 · 64 answers · asked by andy l 1

Do you think its wrong for a man to be insulted if a woman wants to keep her last name or hyphenate her name with his? What about the kids having hyphenated names as well?

2006-09-04 08:37:45 · 24 answers · asked by nik 1

I'm young, I'm 21, my boyfriend is 29 and weve been with each other for 3 years, he is perfect for me.. he's loyal, respectful, and adores me.. I have a lot of experience in life..but do you think it might be early for me to get married?

2006-09-04 08:31:53 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous

I mean, we get along great, been together 4 years, have 3 kids. But every once in a while, we fight. And when we fight...WE FIGHT! Both of us have bruises and cuts. He punched me in the jaw and I kicked him in the face. I have a bruise on my arm, shoulder, jaw, and face (by my ear) and he has scratches all over his arms. Is it normal to fight like this? Does this make both of us ghetto? It didnt' happen in front of the kids, but I'm sure they sense the tension between he and I.
The thing is, everyone looks at us as the 'perfect couple' and it's not an act...we are. We have everything going for us, but sometimes, when we argue, it turns physical. I used to just let him hit me and I would take it, now I'm starting to fight back. How crazy do I sound???

2006-09-04 08:24:41 · 12 answers · asked by amyvnsn 5

A friend sais his wife left him for another man and moved out of state.He pays support but says he can't see them

2006-09-04 08:19:27 · 11 answers · asked by smoothshirl1 2

2006-09-04 08:14:48 · 37 answers · asked by cross 2

I have been divorced from my wife for six months. Mostly amicable but I still hurt.
She is now dating a man who she has invited to move in to the house with her and our five-year-old daughter.
I have met him and he seems nice enough but the idea of someone else sleeping in the bed I paid for and waking up to the woman I still love makes me upset and angry. Not to mention that he will have more time with my daughter than I will.
I know I have no right to tell her how to live her life but the situation is making me crazy with jealousy.
Any suggestions? From adults only, please
D

2006-09-04 08:03:44 · 29 answers · asked by Bugsy Groucho 4

I have been married for several years and I always had domination fantasies. I want my wife to make me satisfy her every night orally.
I want to tell her I love her while I give her analingus, I want her to tell me to show her how much I love her while I am doing it. I really dont want to be dominated outside the bedroom, why is this?

How can I get her to do these things and say these things without her thinking I am a freak?...Am I a freak?

Do any of you want this?

2006-09-04 08:01:57 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-09-04 08:00:09 · 13 answers · asked by xxx 4

and if so, how do you do it?

2006-09-04 07:58:37 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

on me? It's been at least a year since he's done it. He never was one to do it all the time but it was pretty frequent. I gave him oral the other day and made a comment about how we don't do that for eachother anymore and he just ignored it. What do you think the change is that he doesn't want to do it? Otherwise sex is almost daily and good.

2006-09-04 07:54:12 · 17 answers · asked by Curious1 1

please dont judge, but i left him for another man, in another country. i did not have money for a lawyer, so he got everything including custody of my children. is there anything i can do like appeal the custody issue?

2006-09-04 07:47:54 · 18 answers · asked by woman 2

The problem is that my boyfriends wants to move there (to work for the CDC) and I would love to, but i think we should be married before I move hundreds of miles away with my (fr. a prev. relationship)4 year old son to start a life with him.We're both in our late 20's and have been dating for a little over a year. I'm a nurse so finding work is like piece of cake but still Am I wrong in thinking he will never marry me if I agree to go without getting married first?

2006-09-04 07:45:49 · 4 answers · asked by AudioPhilia 4

My wife recently found about something I did with an ex girlfriend of mine over 10 years ago. I never brought it up but she wanted a straight answer so I told her the truth. now she is mad and deprresed for something that happen a long time ago. The thing is that before we got married she would talk about her past relationships,and I would always tell her to not talk about it because it bothered me and she would say its all in the past.I feel bad that she feels this way but i cant seem to snap her out of it. what should i do?

2006-09-04 07:43:37 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-09-04 07:36:52 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

specialy when she si from canada and will marry soem oen from her home land liek pakistan or india what should she look for?

2006-09-04 07:36:03 · 25 answers · asked by ruby f 1

I'm an advocate of taking care of children and I think child support was meant to insure that the child(ren) is financial stable, but sometimes really good guys involved in sour relationship suffer grately out of spite and a system. I think instead of taking a persons pay off top, they should take into account preexisting and residual bills dating back a certain amount of time, subtracted by the cost of living, and/ or take into account both parents income and the percentage that it would take to raise the child(ren). It shouldn't be a set percentage in my opinion. Because, if I can't afford a car, or to let alone catch the bus and feed myself, how am I able to maintain a job? I can't get to work because I can't afford a car or bus fare for a month and I can't afford to take care of myself. FYI, I am happily married w/ two kids. I just had this on my mind and I have a dear friend that's going through similiar situations. God Bless!!

2006-09-04 07:35:52 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-09-04 07:35:00 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

Long story short- my mom is divorcing my step-dad and I specifically told her I wanted to move in with my step-dad. She said no. Now we are in the divorcing stage of the finishing 6 month process.

Is there some legal way I can move into my step-dad's house? And if I tell a therapist my problem,can they help in the legal matters? Don't they have some sort of power over that kind of stuff?

2006-09-04 07:33:56 · 9 answers · asked by Kiri 1