my parents got divorced two years ago and i was really sad but the other day my dad came over to talk about divorce papers and i said i had a date and i got home a hour early and i saw my parents making out and they both are already married again what do i do????????????????
2006-09-04 09:18:38 · 16 answers · asked by candy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
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Well, My best advice to you should be going on in your life. They are older, thay can do with their lives whatever they want. My advice dhould be to find your own way, dont talk to them as you dont want they talk to you if you screw with some boyfriend.
Just let them know that is confusing for you and how you feel...
Good luck
2006-09-04 09:21:31 · answer #1 · answered by Armando E 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Those are your parents regardless. Now they both must decide whether a divorce is the answer or choose marriage counselling. Did you say they are re-married again and dad came over to talk about divorce papers? I did not know it was legal to re-married while divorce papers are in the process. Well again, it depends where in the world you are. Good luck. Love mom and dad the same. Let them take care of their own baggage
2006-09-04 16:26:57 · answer #2 · answered by Reidi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pretend you never saw it. They are grown ups and may have just reached a point in their lives where they've realized they made a mistake in getting divorced. You have to just let them be on this one honey. If you ask what's going on, they probably won't even be able to explain it to you and if you hope they'll get back together, you'll end up the one hurt if they don't. I know it's confusing, but just worry about your own life and let mom and dad sort out theirs.
2006-09-04 16:22:11 · answer #3 · answered by Hollynfaith 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mine your own business they are grown both adults. May not be the first time that this has happened and might not be the last. It' s your job no matter if you are an adult or miner to go forth with your own business pretend that you know nothing about it at all, If they want you to know anything at all they will inform. Otherwise stay in your space.
2006-09-04 16:30:38 · answer #4 · answered by mothers finest 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just stay out of it.
It's their choice that they're making. Apparently, they couldn't get along but still have a sexual attraction to one another.
There isn't much you can do because they're the adults, you're the child.
If you want, ask your mom or dad about it, like what is going on. But, don't tell their spouse or be snoopy because it's their problem and concern not yours.
2006-09-04 16:42:25 · answer #5 · answered by ♪Msz. Nena♫ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be understanding deep feelings are developed when two people have a child to gather , go through hard times love each other hate each other and share their most guarded thoughts with each other .Be glad their not throwing blows
2006-09-04 16:25:05 · answer #6 · answered by slfascoc 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow. Well, depends on your age. If you are young, like 13 or so, they may not want to, nor do they have to, talk to you about it. If you are like, 18, then you can sit down and have an adult conversation with them.
Just talk to them!
2006-09-04 16:21:44 · answer #7 · answered by Miz_Kassandra 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you're bold enough to speak to them one on one about it then do it. if they're married to other people then i would stay out of their business. there will be too much stress and anger for everyone involved if you said something to their significant others, ya know! Good Luck!
2006-09-04 16:43:41 · answer #8 · answered by Ruth R 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ummm... wow... just remember they are adults and can destroy or live however they please, with in the law.
The fall out you are observing may be weired... but remember they have had their own lifes experinces that made them who they are.. do you really know there history? what problems and things they had to go through.. so people may do things that seem weird... and fall into the same trap...
or they are just......weird........ America... ain't it great!!!!!
Live your life the best you can and love your parents what ever they decide.. but don't let it effect you as you need to find your own way in life!
2006-09-04 16:24:20 · answer #9 · answered by Maken trax 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to the both of them, wether they realize it or not this situation affects you too. Good luck.
2006-09-04 16:22:01 · answer #10 · answered by friend 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋