Marriage & Divorce - 4 September 2006

especially when all the guy ever did was give his heart to her.
live his life for her. only to have his heart ripped out and crapped on.

2006-09-04 15:16:08 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

she keeps running from, me and i cant find them... I scared my daughter will think iam leaving her.. your sugg. are needed

2006-09-04 15:15:45 · 8 answers · asked by waysexy26 1

We have been together close to 7 years, not married and neither of us have kids. we each live in our own home (we each own) and we spend 3-4 nights a week together , we are considering moving in together. We are concerned the changes that may take place may not all be good ones.The time we spend together now is truely quality time, we wonder if the time together will become routine rather than special as it is now. after 7 years I do feel there is something lacking in our relationship but we both fear that we may loose the special quality we have now, as my boyfriend has said "if it aint broke why fix it". we have heard from other couples that when you live together they sometimes become "ships passing in the night" are there any other (current or former) 2 houshold couples out there? and how did it work for you?

2006-09-04 15:14:52 · 4 answers · asked by foxyraley 2

2006-09-04 15:06:14 · 10 answers · asked by Lillian S. Phx Arizona 4

My ex still calls me to see how I am doing. He tells me he is lonely & misses me, yet he is constantly telling me to move on with my life. He says he still has hope that we will get back together. He is sending mixed signals & I am a nervous wreck. I know he is getting booty calls from his lover. How can I stop making myself crazy?

2006-09-04 15:05:59 · 13 answers · asked by mari 2

She has moved back to her hometown, Des Moines, to start anew life. She left because of what happened in the past but admits things are great now. There was no infidelity involved, but I was untreated with bipolar and did some stupid things. To make matters worse I have an aggressive case of prostate cancer.

2006-09-04 14:58:09 · 36 answers · asked by Terry K B 1

2006-09-04 14:55:51 · 38 answers · asked by sweetie pie 1

do men really like longerie?

2006-09-04 14:55:00 · 5 answers · asked by jerbear0510 1

2006-09-04 14:53:25 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous

and for those not married always go for married guys?
whats up with women and their cheating ways?

2006-09-04 14:48:04 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-09-04 14:47:04 · 36 answers · asked by lowkey 1

Were been married for almost 11yrs,I can say that before my husband loved me more than I loved him infact he was the main reason why we are together now,he fought for our love,he sacrificed everything for me and he loved me regardless of our race,religion and differences.
For eleven years he didn't laid his hand on me..........Not until this month,he started to slap me and fulled my hair once. He didn't usually do that to me even how much I made him angry,but now I can't understand that just because of a petty thing and simple arguements he slapped my face.I cried a lot not because of the pain it caused on my face,I cried because of the pain it caused my heart.Why?...Does it mean he's lossing his love?PLEASE HELP ME!

2006-09-04 14:46:34 · 11 answers · asked by msshy 2

I am currently looking for info on legal separation and if I will get child support and part of military retirement pay

2006-09-04 14:44:03 · 6 answers · asked by Kathy 1

MY WIFE SAYS THE HOUSE IS HER FINANCIAL SECURITY
SINCE SHE DOES NOT HAVE A 401K,ETC.-the reality is that
she has as much assets as I do. NEVERTHE LESS- SHE IS
WILLING TO BE DIVORCED OVER IT -WE HAVE BEEN SEPARATED 8 MONTHS- AND SHE SO FAR HAS BEEN NOT
WILLING TO NEGOTIAITE ON THIS AT ALL- MUCH LESS
GIVE ME ANY GUARANTEE IN RETURN HOW LONG SHE WILL
STAY MARRIED-WHICH TO ME IS THE MORE IMPORTANT ISSUE. i KNOW EVERYBODY'S AUTOMATIC RESPONSE
IS TELL HER TO GO f**k off - but the problem is
I love her and I would miss her alot-i ahd been married for 12 years- but yet i dont want to ber screwd also-
worse case scenario for me- she gets all this money-
then thing s falre up- and we get back to divorce in a year or so
and i am out mucho buckos.


WHAT SHOULD I DO ??????????????????

2006-09-04 14:41:52 · 16 answers · asked by don;t know 3

We have been married for two years. Neither of us is perfect, but we do love eachother. Some disrespectful and hurtful things have been said and done. We don't really authenically trust eachother and I don't mean physically cheating, I mean with little things besides that. He does worry about me possibly one day leaving him. So, I have a full time job and he does not work. He is job searching a little, once again. He has worked one full month or maybe two since we married. He was a former drug addict and goes to a methodone treatment clinic weekly in the next state. I have full coverage health insurance on us and he has not taken advantage of the insurance to get his needed physical tests run. He is still in the process of getting the insurance to pay his out of network fees for the methodone clinic. He has had since Jan.1 to get that ball rolling-after the $500 deductible was met. I know the insurance company has been a pain, but he has not taken responsibilty for anything

2006-09-04 14:39:23 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

the marriage is over so what something creative i should do with it

2006-09-04 14:27:45 · 17 answers · asked by lordfatrat 2

I am Canadian and married an American. We have been married a few months only. We have started my paperwork. He's resentful that I don't work. I'm NOT legal to work yet! I have lived with him since January and he always said it was not a problem until I am legal to do so. We've had some horrible fights and he said that if he was in the position I am in, he would suck the garbage man for money if he had to. What kind of man says that to his wife? Now I am in Canada visiting and I really am debating on taking some time and getting a job here to save up some money. What would you do? Serious people only. This is hard enough to deal with.

2006-09-04 14:21:53 · 38 answers · asked by Fleur de Lis 7

sorry that's the best way to put it.

2006-09-04 14:18:33 · 36 answers · asked by bigstevesfriends 2

I fell in love with my married friend a long time ago but didn't act on it because I respect him and marriage very much. I know he cares for me and I think he loves me too. He confided in me a couple weeks ago that his marriage isn't working out. I feel like that should've been my cue to say something...but I didn't. He hasn't brought it up since, and I feel like it's my move that he's waiting for. Should I wait until he and his wife legally split...or should I just tell him how I feel now? Or...should I wait for him to say something? I don't want to step on his soon to be ex-wife's toes...but I also can't go on like this. What should I do?

2006-09-04 14:16:32 · 18 answers · asked by vanillaspice 2

Im sitting here watching TV he just comes in sits in front of it and turns the channel! Shoving food down his mouth makes me so freaking mad.

Should I throw my shoe at the back of his head?

2006-09-04 14:15:10 · 13 answers · asked by Addie B 3

how did they behave when they were upset or frusterated with a loved one? what was their tone of voice? how would a women then treat a man if he claims to be seeing his first wife(who is dead), and she is the new, second wife? anyone know?

2006-09-04 14:09:05 · 9 answers · asked by redbedhead_24 1

Istead of helping me pay for school or book he bought himself a stupid gun and bullets. He knnows I am totally against it but he went out and got it anyway while I stuggled to get myself school supplies. I don't know what to do. He also tells him mom he has no money so she is always sending him money which he spends on himself instead of helping me out. He has never taken me out on a date and we always do what he wants to do. When I suggest things he always has an excuse...what should I do?? Should I leave him. His selfish ways are driving me crazy. All I want is some appreciation...please help!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

2006-09-04 14:05:35 · 33 answers · asked by Katie B 1

2006-09-04 14:05:31 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-09-04 14:04:38 · 27 answers · asked by sabrina 3

2006-09-04 14:01:51 · 25 answers · asked by Monique 1

and my wife is 24 she is about to sc--- me to death she says she loves me so much she needs me 2 times a month but i am good for only once every 3 months do i need help from some young stud or just peep trying i know she is really crazy about me and not my life savings which is only 650000.00

2006-09-04 14:01:10 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

I ADORE my husband, he is the love of my life and I cant imagine being without him, we have been married for 15 years and still going strong. What makes your marriage work? my husband is a stay at home dad and takes care of all of us, he is a true man of God with substance and I am truly blessed (and a little spoiled..hehehe)

2006-09-04 13:52:13 · 16 answers · asked by AGgirl 2

A couple days ago my husband got upset because i wanted to drive his car to see my parents ..I told him i wouldnt be long and i would bring his car back. I stayed 2 hours, took his car back, asked him to drop me back off over there. on the way over he asked for his key...as we went over the great miami river i threw it in...i said if you want it go get it. at a stop sign, he proceeded to say something bad about my dad and i smacked him in the mouth. Sometimes i think i would be better off alone, without a man then now. Your comments are appriated.

2006-09-04 13:49:07 · 8 answers · asked by Peg L 2

OK, I know that if I am asking it is probably true. My husband is not violent, but puts me down (although he is very subtle, like mumbling insults or discontent while walking around the house). He is never happy and I am the reason for all his unhapiness (so he says). He used to call me names when he;d get mad, but not anymore, but he is always unhappy (another way of manipulating me I suppose). He is not happy if I work beacuse he wants me to saty home with our children. I am also startin my own business but I have to do it behind his back because he questions everything I do and believes I will not succeed. Eventhough I can take a lot it is starting to wear me out (8 years married). I am starting to be very negative and depressed. I know I need to get out but I worry about my girls 5 and 7) and of course his emotional abuse is so mild and well disguissed that I sometimes feel there is nothing wrong. I need some reassurance, please? What should I do about my girls? What is best?

2006-09-04 13:48:46 · 12 answers · asked by M 1

after two years of happiness, and promises, she dumped me for the financial, breakiing my heart. i told him because i wanted her to prove she really loved me as she said.

2006-09-04 13:46:43 · 32 answers · asked by love 1