2006-09-04 14:47:04 · 36 answers · asked by lowkey 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
It's like fishing. The woman uses sex as bait, then when she snags her man, she sells the fishing pole.
2006-09-04 15:18:40 · answer #1 · answered by donronsen 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
sorry to say that is not always the case,but us women are the ones that are mostly running around after the kids so sometimes we are just to tied for sex,and to be honest marriage is not just about getting sex when ever you want it, it's a two way thing
bring some romance in to her life take her out for a meal if you can't cook if you can get the kids to stay a night at there grandparents if you have any go and run her a bath get some candles around the bath give her a glass of wine and cook her a great meal with more candles, soft music turn your phones off dim the lights tell her how much you love and she will be putty in your hands, don't let the love die do something different once a month for her,
hope this helps and have a great night
2006-09-06 11:04:24 · answer #2 · answered by .â?¢Â°*â?¥.Shall.â?¥*°â?¢. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because she gets fed up with all the child care, cooking, cleaning, errands, you know doing everything under the sun while her husband sits on his tukis in front of the computer or TV all day doing absolutely nothing. Not only that, but he has the nerve to whine if he has to do something, won't take her anywhere, complains if she spends a nickel on anyone but him, and shows her no affection whatsoever. Then when it's bedtime, no matter how tired she feels or is sick, she's supposed to roll over and let him have his way with her and she's supposed to be enthusiastic about it too. Try treating her better and she'd be more eager.
2006-09-04 14:52:50 · answer #3 · answered by ♥Raven 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Because after we've worked all day, then come home and take care of the children, help with homework, cook and clean, while the husband comes home from work and does nothing, WE ARE TOO FREAKING TIRED. Help with the children and the chores sometimes and your wife may have a little energy left over to give your sorry *** some.
2006-09-04 14:55:14 · answer #4 · answered by Princess 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There could be a lot of answers to your question...perhaps you don't make your wife feel sexy anymore...or maybe life has gotten the better of her and she has no time to think about sex. Here's the deal, women (or at least most of us) need time to think about sex and make ourselves feel sexy before we are in the mood. So, when dating her, she had the time to take to make herself beautiful and to think about the date and what might or might not happen. Maybe you should try taking a little of the work load off her and tell her to relax in a bath (or something along those lines) and see if that doesn't help.
2006-09-04 14:53:41 · answer #5 · answered by stall_out 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It's called comfort. A happy marriage is not based purely on sex. From newly-wed to dotage you gradually fall into a comfortable routine where the need to express your love for each other, sexually, diminishes.
2006-09-04 19:11:31 · answer #6 · answered by Phlodgeybodge 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
perhaps for some women dating was more sponteneous where as they feel obligated to have sex when they are married. Not to mention, when kids come in to place, then the tables will turn drastically.
2006-09-04 15:50:38 · answer #7 · answered by southern-belle 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do you know when you have your 1st argument and you cannot find him coming up to you to kiss and make up you end up turning over to go to sleep with just tears not thinking of sex but the pain and hurt caused.men are nothing but a put off most of the time.they think women are in love with them for there money not love.if there is no love there is no money.
2006-09-06 08:32:53 · answer #8 · answered by mariolla oneill 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't know my hubby and i still have great sex but most women it just gets to be the last thing on the list at the end of the day because your so tired but thats no excuse in my opinion because just because you have kids and a job doesn't mean your hubby should come last.
2006-09-04 14:56:33 · answer #9 · answered by samwise25 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not really sure bc i have been married for 13 yrs and we still do it all the time and when i say all the time i mean everyday and some times more than once or twice a day
2006-09-04 14:50:25 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a simple matter of availability. When dating it is a adventurous thing not available easily. When married it is a common commodity which is available easily in abundance and in easy reach.
2006-09-04 22:05:13 · answer #11 · answered by Ss 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋