2006-09-04 14:01:51 · 25 answers · asked by Monique 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Ive had other b/f's that i had feelings for but the one im with now he makes my life seem like the fary tale that everyone wants to live. He makes me smile and i can trust him with everything. Its not even all about sex if thats what ur thinking. We both want to finish school and have a degree before all that comes. Hes not into drugs or partying he has his head on straight and hes helped me be a better person. He made me quit smoking and drinking. I know im only 15 and doing all that bad stuff but at this age most teens are not easy to convince to quit those things and hes been the only one that has made me better in life. He only wants the best for me and takes good care of me. I just cant see myself without him. He motivates me to do good in school and in everything i set my mind to. no one has ever shown me so much love. and thats why i love him....he seems so perfect.
2006-09-04 17:18:13 · update #1
I think its great that you feel that way - but you might want to remind yourself that you and/or boyfriend will probably both make a lot of changes and do a lot of growing up in the next few years. Leave some room in your heart for the knowledge that this guy is certainly a special love, but it is okay if he turns out not to be the ONE. Don't get stuck in a relationship that won't work out for you in the end; but enjoy what you have now!
2006-09-04 14:06:41 · answer #1 · answered by Kaitelia 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He seems to be the perfect boyfriend, it's nice to feel that way about him but you are too young. I think you should wait until you are at least 18 to make a decision like that. Even at 18 is not the appropriate age to marry someone.
Live life and be happy. Keep this person in your life, but don't feel pressured to get married or have sex.
I am 20 and I don't even want to think about marriage now lol.
2006-09-05 21:30:00 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hun there is nothing wrong with the way u feel but u really need 2 understand that ur gonna be around for at least 60 more years n none of us know whats gonna happen.
enjoy the time u have 2gether now but also be real about it n dont get urself into more than u want 2 deal with. my daughter fell in love at 15 and now she is 16 pregnant n the man of her dreams the love of her life is gone n says its not his kid. hmmm be careful
good luck, n worry about ur education cause its something u need way more than a man.
2006-09-04 21:05:26 · answer #3 · answered by Lady Geo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, it isnt wrong, however you are only 15 years old. You have alot of growing up to do. I felt the same as you at 15 years old too and alot of us do, however its all just puppy love. Its a nice feeling to have, but its wayyyy too early to make the assumption that you want to spend the rest of your life with him. Give it all some time. Good luck!1
2006-09-04 21:06:03 · answer #4 · answered by Peanut Butter 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'll just add my 2 cents to this -- what you like at 15 isn't what you like at 16, or 17 or 27. Your hormones are raging, sweetie. Cool it, stay unpregnant--- that means if you have ideas about sex, use safe sex or get on the pill...... you WILL get pregnant if you have sex, absolutely and positively, guaranteed-- at 15, you will never again be sooooo fertile. Mother nature has made you that way.
2006-09-04 22:16:28 · answer #5 · answered by April 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No it's not wrong, but it is to a degree unrealistic. You are still children and have a lot of growing and changing to do. Enjoy your time together without a lot of expectation of the distant future. If you are supposed to be together always ,you will grow and change together.If not ,you will grow and change apart. What ever happens you will always value this time "young loves and first loves" are very cool ,they are pure and uncorrupted, best wishes
2006-09-04 21:14:02 · answer #6 · answered by foxyraley 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its ok to feel the way you do about your boy friend,you will realise in a few years that it wasnt actually lovge but what your feeling is something very real,i suspect this is your first true love,and he will be someone who will be close to your heart probbably for along time,just dont get into anything like sex or things like untill your older or you will have to live with the consequences for the rest of your life
2006-09-04 21:11:12 · answer #7 · answered by treatau 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would not say this is wrong. I would say it is early. You are very young and you will meet many people in your life. It is not impossible to love someone when you are 15, it is just that you need to be careful and realize that 15 years old is very young to be making these serious, adult decisions. Good luck to you, honey.
2006-09-04 21:05:28 · answer #8 · answered by saving.babies 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No offense, but I do not think that you really know what love is! It is not very common for someone to marry their bf or gf that they have at 15! It could happen, but it is not likely! I think that you are too young to be commited to one person! You will miss out on alot. but on the other hand you will jsut have to wait and see!
2006-09-04 21:05:40 · answer #9 · answered by confusedbuthere 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
is not wrong thinkin like dis..i guess...but dats probably how u feel now... you're still too young n ur not sure of what u want...u still gonna meet many men n u realized dis was just a crush...when i had my first bf dats exactly how i felt n we even talked about gettin marry..i was 13 n he was a yr older...we were together for 3 yrs...til i was 16 n he was 17...now we even lost touch...i have dated many guys after him... im not saying ur immature but ur too young to kno what u really want...
2006-09-04 21:07:42 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋