Marriage & Divorce - 4 September 2006

I have a very serious question,so I need some honest help.Ok I am married, but am not in love with my husband.To make a long story short.It feel like we just wanted to be with one another.At the time I had just broken up with my boyfriend of 3 years,and he had broken up with his girl.We knew if each for a long time,and had always had a crush on him.Anyways,we got married, but I am still in love with my ex!My husband and I fuss and fight a lot.We have even filed for divorce,but he stopped it.He wanted to work things out.So right now,we are trying to work on things.But I just cant give my all to him,because I dont deeply love him.I have feelings for him,but my love for my ex is even stronger.Ok we live in CO,but when we have a fight he,always wants to send me back to SC.I really am trying to make it work,because we are married.The smart choice would be for me to stay with my husband,because he is a better financial provider.My ex has my heart and soul.What should I do.Any advice is good.

2006-09-04 13:46:17 · 11 answers · asked by Ren 1

Is it so HARD for people to admit they LOVE S E X ?

2006-09-04 13:41:59 · 20 answers · asked by Not Spoiled Just Loved♥ 3

OK I am wondering if anyone has gone to court to get their child support increased, with out having a lawyer? I have heard you can just file the paper work especially if it's been a while since it's been increased and you can prove the dad has had pay increases. Anyone have any ideas? also we were married and divorced in Ky but both live in different states now,, do I have to go back to KY to do all this?

2006-09-04 13:41:37 · 4 answers · asked by B V 5

I have lots of anal hairs. If someone put a finger on there, my affluent hairs won’t let it go^^ But It has not seemed to be a problem to me before my girl friend saw them accidentally, she told me it made her phew
What can I do?

2006-09-04 13:32:22 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous

Maybe get engaged and live together for a year or so.

2006-09-04 13:22:21 · 31 answers · asked by juju 3

I am 49 and single. I divorced six years ago after an 18 yr marriage ended. I returned to college, aquired two advanced degrees and have a sucessful career. I'm not sure if I want to ever marry again, but I would like to have a male companion to enjoy activities together and to communicate hopes and dreams. It seems like most men are afraid that women are out to marry them and are reluctant to get involved. Then there are those men who are just want sex. I just want a relationship!! What do you think?

2006-09-04 13:16:59 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

I may have just saved someone's life.
Did I?

2006-09-04 13:06:27 · 9 answers · asked by Rusty 4

my parents hate my boyfriend to the point that they will only allow me to see him once or twice per week, and he is not allowed in our house.i know that most of you are thinking he must have done something bad, but he didnt. they think he is rude because he "didnt tell them hello" when he walked into the door, and just went straight to another room.he said hello he is just shy so did not hold conversations with them.i love him with everything i have and want to marry him, i know that if i do my parents will never accept, but i love him and i will be happy. what would you do?

2006-09-04 13:04:17 · 18 answers · asked by shabookie 1

But he has not filed any papers I love him madly and he says he's going to do it should I give him more time or leave him and find someone else help me I'm very confused and in LOVE

2006-09-04 13:00:37 · 47 answers · asked by Sassy Sistah 1

He's been dodging childsupport for years. My daughter is19 and away in college. Her fees are to much for me to handle. We have his address but the state can't find his employer. Are there other options I can take?

2006-09-04 12:58:13 · 17 answers · asked by Jazz 1

2006-09-04 12:54:46 · 32 answers · asked by karlos 2

Seriously, I've asked my friends before, and it started as a joke, and I think it would be kind of cute. Silly, but cute.

2006-09-04 12:54:46 · 11 answers · asked by Janet 2

I am 24 and I am with a man who is 36, for 8 months now.
We are living together and we are having a good relationship in general, we have fun. But we want different things from a relationship. He wants something relaxing and I understand; he had a really bad divorce, he needs to chill out. But I want kisses,sex,hugs and passion!
He says that our relationship has progressed, that we are not as crazy as we were in the beginning, but I miss that beginning so much! I still feel crazy for him like I did on our first month, but he doesn't. I know he loves me, but for me this is not enough.
That situation makes me self concious and depressed from time to time. Every 2 months I explode and cause a huge fight. The next morning I just can't apologize enough..
I can't leave him and I can't stop trying because this is the first time that I'm in love..I used to get bored so easily, now I just can't get enough, I'm always thirsty for his love!
Does any one have any advice for me, please?

2006-09-04 12:51:29 · 22 answers · asked by Irouli 2

after divorce with a man the children or she can get the share on property or not

2006-09-04 12:51:20 · 4 answers · asked by sheik 1

My mom is starting a gifts/collectibles business and needs some suggestions for a good business name for her company. Any suggestions? Thanks.

2006-09-04 12:42:30 · 4 answers · asked by choosinghappiness 5

I found out with my mother last night that my father (married 27 years to mom)(I am 27) has beed caught on numerous ocassions doing things suchj as kissing another woman he was seen with his arm around another woman and pinching another ones behind. ( Who knows what else?) This was devulged but another family member after some serious anguishing years trying to let it go. This family member is my female cusin whom is 30 years old. She also says that when she was 10 my father touched her in the wrong spots once.. (My father has been nothing but wonderful to me growing up). My mother is anguished as you can imagine and staying with me now. I gave here medicine to help sleep a little but she will wake soon and i just dont know how to help and want really good ideas from anyone???? Thanks(My father is not yet informed of the information but will deny it till death..(so it is hard for her to find closure...

2006-09-04 12:42:09 · 13 answers · asked by noot1980 2

2006-09-04 12:32:38 · 3 answers · asked by shermynewstart 7

2006-09-04 12:23:45 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have been getting calls at all hours of the day & night. I am afraid it's my ex trying to find me.

2006-09-04 12:22:18 · 16 answers · asked by shermynewstart 7

At a recent dinner program that I sponsored, the Speaker and I were working at the computer to load the slide deck. He gently said to me, "Not the porn, that's for you and me to watch tonight." He and I have been flirting off and on for months now, so go figure. What was that all about? What exactly did he mean by that? How was I supposed to answer?

2006-09-04 12:21:21 · 14 answers · asked by Confused_Rep 4

i am the primary custodian and have had numerous problems with my ex and harrassment, mainly because he just simply will not contact his lawyer if he has quesitons instead of showing up at my house or calling my phone repeatedly, i think he thinks i will just give in to his annoyance. but its quite simple that i will not allow my daughter to go with him if it is not his visitation period.
so i am looking for some links relating to what he must provide as the non custodial parent. im looking in particular to the fact that he has moved and not yet supplied me with any info on where my daughter is going to reside. do i have to let her go without knowing where she will be? i have an appt with my attorney on thurs, but looking for something to read in advance. or if anyone feels likes chatting and knows some about this subject feel free to IM.

2006-09-04 12:15:36 · 5 answers · asked by collaredfairy0304 1

I am 24 years old and have been married for 3 1/2 years to my husband. My marriage has been pretty rock for the last few months. We have taken on alot of obligations in the little time we have known each other. I guess my question is has anyone used marriage counseling and how does it work? I am leary of it because we will have a big fight and after the dust settles everything is great for a few days. I don't want ot get my hopes and think marriage counseling will work. I have reasearched it on the web and alot of people say they are worse off after the counseling.
Please tell me your experiences and how they structure it. Thanks

2006-09-04 12:13:34 · 8 answers · asked by CiCI 2

2006-09-04 12:08:52 · 51 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am a born U.S. citizen and my fiance is from Trinidad. He has a valid passport and visa.I am having a baby thats due in Nov. We just wanted to know on how to get married the legal way with no hassle.He is willing to do anything to become a U.S. So if anybody knows the answers to my questions i kindly appreciate it.

2006-09-04 12:06:27 · 6 answers · asked by JESSICA F 1

I am wondering where people meet their mate, other than in school, parties, or bars.

2006-09-04 12:05:47 · 30 answers · asked by Gypsy Girl 7

and are you still friends after the marriage ended?

2006-09-04 11:57:42 · 32 answers · asked by Carol H 5

This became a problem immediately upon committing to marry her more than 15 years ago. It was as if she was saying, "OK. I got what I wanted now I control everything. Let me make him suffer for all the past failed relationships." I am misreable, and the only reason for staying in the marrigage is our two young boys. Yes, we actually managed to have children despite having sex less than once per month for all of these years. Now it seems that we are down to months that begin with the letter A - April, August. It's killing me and my outlook for life. What should I do?

2006-09-04 11:54:19 · 6 answers · asked by I plead the fifth! 1

2006-09-04 11:41:52 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

If you take the time to read this and help me out, you are an angel. I'm 16 years old, but Im not your normal 16 year old. Im basically like im 30. I met this boy when I was 14, he was 17, we went out. We are still together a year and 8 months later. We act like we are married literally. I basically dropped out of high school to be with him, I left my normal school adn went to a continuation school that was on the itnernet and graduated in 4 months jsut so spend more time with him. So I am a 16 year old in college, while all my friends are out partying and having fun. I havent hung out with any of my friends in like 6 months cuz he is so protective of me n doesnt want me to hangout with other boys.. I feel like I am missing out of getting to be a kid and live my live. He is a great guy its just he dosnt want to be the "boss" and i have to make all the decisions on my own, i have no help with anything.

2006-09-04 11:41:50 · 28 answers · asked by kristen4562 3

After you got married did you or your wife stop wearing makeup all the time or making sure their hair was "perfect"? I know I am quilty of this but I waundered if anyone else was on here. Thanks.
And what their reasoning was for it.

2006-09-04 11:40:28 · 19 answers · asked by melhtims 2