on me? It's been at least a year since he's done it. He never was one to do it all the time but it was pretty frequent. I gave him oral the other day and made a comment about how we don't do that for eachother anymore and he just ignored it. What do you think the change is that he doesn't want to do it? Otherwise sex is almost daily and good.
2006-09-04 07:54:12 · 17 answers · asked by Curious1 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
my spouse hate to do it! maybe ask him why tell him to tell you the truth JUST be where if he gives you the truth you can be mad or insulated! I had that area "odder" change (not bad but not good either i guess) after having a baby and getting my tubes tied and he was afraid to tell me so be propped just in case!
2006-09-04 07:58:50 · answer #1 · answered by lori b 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should have kept the conversation going when he ignored you question. You need to find out what has changed for him.
By the way sex daily and good. Don't want to bust your bubble. Sex should be Great with your fiance. If not there is more wrong than just oral.
2006-09-04 15:06:17 · answer #2 · answered by Mit 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's the only one who can tell you that. Wait till you are not in a sexual situation. Maybe the timing of when you asked him was wrong, and your question only made him feel guilty and uncomfortable. It is possible that he does not enjoy it and only did it for you. It is also possible that (hate to say it) your hygiene is not as good as it was before, and there is an unpleasant taste or smell. Talk to him about why he doesnt do it, and if he just does not enjoy it, do not expect him to do it, because whatever you are doing should be pleasant for both of you.
2006-09-04 15:03:07 · answer #3 · answered by Cyndi Storm 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Probably because when he was performing oral, it was to get you. Now that he has you as a fiance and future wife, he doesn't have to do it anymore. He thinks that you won't break off the engagement just for not recieving oral anymore.
2006-09-04 18:49:30 · answer #4 · answered by Janelle B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
most men love to go down on a woman, maybe you did not clean yourself well and he does not want to experience that again and by the same time does not want to tell you because he's afraid it will hurt your feelings. Ask him if that's the case and make sure you clean yourself well.
2006-09-04 15:03:07 · answer #5 · answered by venus11224 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make sure you are clean and put some nice smelling perfume in the area of interest. Maybe do a littel trimming of the area and tell him you have a suprise for him.
Best of luck!
2006-09-04 15:14:57 · answer #6 · answered by ferretcoach 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Maybe he never liked to do it in the beginning. He probably did it, cause he knew he liked it. But now since, the two of you are getting married, he feels like he don't have to do it!
2006-09-04 15:29:53 · answer #7 · answered by Ty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he thinks he's not doing a good job, next time you get him to do it tell him exactly where to lick or it could be what everyone else said, maybe it's just plain nasty down there.
2006-09-04 15:52:04 · answer #8 · answered by John4no17 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you've changed something since when he was doing it ?... maybe he never really like it.. but did it for you.. and now he doesn't feel the need to do it .. since you say the sex is good..
maybe you should stop doing it for him..
2006-09-04 15:25:39 · answer #9 · answered by Lyne B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Initally he may have just done it to please you. He is obviously not that into it. Can you live with that? Stop hinting around and tell him how you feel. Be prepared to deal with his response. IMO, you should have waited until you were married anyway.
2006-09-04 15:15:05 · answer #10 · answered by Chris 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋