I have been married for several years and I always had domination fantasies. I want my wife to make me satisfy her every night orally.
I want to tell her I love her while I give her analingus, I want her to tell me to show her how much I love her while I am doing it. I really dont want to be dominated outside the bedroom, why is this?
How can I get her to do these things and say these things without her thinking I am a freak?...Am I a freak?
Do any of you want this?
2006-09-04 08:01:57 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
This is actually far more common than most people realize
or care to admit.
See "www.aroundherfinger.com" for information about how
entire relationships are based around a change in the male/female
dynamics of a relationship.
See practically every bondage site out there for links to sites
where women dominate men during sex.
Are you a freak? Not sure what that means. Most long term
heterosexual relationships experiment around with bondage
and role reversal. However, most relationships do not have
women physically sexually dominant most of the time.
2006-09-04 08:07:08 · answer #1 · answered by Elana 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
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Why do I want my wife to sexually dominate me?....?
I have been married for several years and I always had domination fantasies. I want my wife to make me satisfy her every night orally.
I want to tell her I love her while I give her analingus, I want her to tell me to show her how much I love her while I am doing it. I really dont want to be...
2015-08-10 03:48:56 · answer #2 · answered by Florry 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The marriage bed is undefiled. That is, UNLESS YOU GO AROUND BLABBING WHAT YOU DO IN PUBLIC! Yuck, ewwww, phitth! See what I mean? Work these issues out with your wife. Personally, I perfer the man to take the lead in the bedroom. It is the only place I enjoy being dominated. Now you have my opinion, did it get you anywhere? Of course not. TALK TO YOUR WIFE. (Although, if I were her, I'd be totally grossed out! sorry.)
2006-09-04 08:10:25 · answer #3 · answered by Chris 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you want it, go for it and talk to your wife. The worst thing that can happen is she freaks out and divorces you, leaving you to find a woman that will fulfill your fantasies. The best that could happen is she goes along with it and does it for you.
2006-09-04 08:06:25 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You ask,
"Why do I want my wife to sexually dominate me?"
Because Women are by nature the superior sex, they are more intelligent, more knowledgeable, wiser, cleverer, more articulate, better educated, better informed, better manipulators, are so much more attractive than men, have lovely silky smooth skin, beautiful hair, their complete overall body shape is far superior to ours, their clothing is far better than ours.
I other words they are “Perfection”, and therefore, deserve to be kept continually in a state of idle luxury, at our expense.
We males should realize that we are only here to be used by women for their pleasure, enjoyment, entertainment, amusement. To do all the housework, cleaning cooking, shopping excreta, and thereby enable our owners to enjoy a life of comparative ease, whilst at the same time exercising complete and total authority over a member of the inferior sex.
Any male who a woman chooses to use as her slave should consider it an honour to have been selected by her. In fact he should worship her as the Goddess she is.
Yourstouse.
2014-04-19 06:40:47 · answer #5 · answered by faceunder1 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
ok first, ask her if she wants it done. most of the time, its not a 'top priority' for women and ask her if she likes it.
ask her to dress up (bondage style) and make you do things.
if you are the 'breadw inner of the house' you are probably telling people what to do at work all the time.
its natural to come home to your wife and want her to be in control in the bed.
its oposite with my hubby. he gets shitted on at work, and when its 'bed time' he wants to be incontrol, and i let him. its his castle.
try this website,
www.talksexwithsue.com
its very very informative and sometimes you can call in on her show and she will help personally.
hope this helps
explain to her that this is one of your fantasys and it would mean alot to her that she helps you with it, you never know, she might be willing to help you.
2006-09-04 08:08:15 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes you are a freak...but that doesn't mean it's a bad thing. You just have to find a woman that wants to do that too. Or someone who loves you enough to give it a try.
2006-09-04 08:26:33 · answer #7 · answered by amyvnsn 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No, you're not a freak. People like different things in the bedroom. Tell her about it, it sounds hot to me.
2006-09-04 08:05:06 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing wrong with it.No your not a freak lots of people practice S&M privately and publicly.If my husbad wanted it i would try it i love him so i would try to give him what he wanted. At least i can say i tried. ;-) Good Luck
2006-09-04 08:05:45 · answer #9 · answered by Rain S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are not a freak, different stokes for different folks, my friend.
I wouldn't mind a guy who wanted to satisfy me every night.
2006-09-04 08:04:49 · answer #10 · answered by amb6487 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋