Marriage & Divorce - 6 August 2006

and why?

2006-08-06 04:40:44 · 8 answers · asked by ~yAnKeE neNa~ 1

I like this guy.Would like to date him.Were both in out 40s.Weve been friends for yrs.Weve both been married and divorce.He just recently got divorced.Im not sure where this may go.Ive asked him if he would like to go out with me.He said he didnt want to ruin our friendship.Fine.He kept flirting with me.When I tell him to stop it & say itll never happen,he tells me you never know.So 1 day we chatted again about possibly dating.He said he didnt have an answer for me.Fine.I figured hes just not interested.Soon after,I asked him to do me a favor and he said he would, then 3 wks before hes suppose to do me the favor he starts saying he doesnt want to.The very day before he left a mess.on my cell & backed out w/a totally different reason.Wouldnt tell me why.When I asked him;he got all pissed off at me & told me why.Then told me I just dont give a s**t!Now, if he's not interested in me,why the hell would he say something stupid like that?Why did his feelings get hurt?Im confused?OMG!

2006-08-06 04:40:24 · 6 answers · asked by Fuzzy 2

I got married 2 years ago and and we don't have good sex , we have sex just like once per month, I always want to have it but he doesn't and is very hard to seduce him, he told me that he doesn't feel passion for me. but I really love him and I want to change it.

2006-08-06 04:29:54 · 31 answers · asked by soledad 1

2006-08-06 04:23:05 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband becomes jealous if I send IMs on the computer, to ANYONE, wants to know who I talk to on the phone, if i talk about anything concerning work or my day ,HIS day was more important and everything affects him personally. He will call me at work just to "check -in". He even asks my neighbors to "keep an eye on me'.There is NO reason for this. I can't stand it! I have told him, if he keeps this mis-trust up, he will drive me away. What can I do?

2006-08-06 04:16:42 · 19 answers · asked by jazzy 1

wife left from a fight that originated over a notebook that she still don't know i read.about her and Dex B. he lives down theroad from her mothers house and she thinks i'm cheating my soul has been crushed. i love my wife and will protect her but she didn't think what i came to talk to her about was that important. we fell out now she want a divorce its been rocky at times like most marriages but why run out if yall have accomplished so much in so little time.

2006-08-06 04:12:30 · 6 answers · asked by kenyard x 1

I have never been drunk so I always wonder what it's like. Is it really like liquid courage and make you do stupid things? Are you aware that you're being stupid?

I tried beer once but hated the taste so much never drank again.

2006-08-06 04:11:05 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have heard these words at weddings - really neat

2006-08-06 04:05:58 · 3 answers · asked by Red Robin 3

for an example, after 1 to 5 years of marriage and two children later, their spouse says, "Honey, I'm gay. I've always had a passion for men (women). And Oh, by the way, I'm leaving you for John Doe or Jane Doe? This is assuming that the straight party had no idea prior to marriage that their soon to be husband or wife was gay before they met.

2006-08-06 04:02:43 · 12 answers · asked by Kooties 5

2006-08-06 03:58:18 · 8 answers · asked by T N 3

We women need to come together to help each other. I know there are women out there who is with a man who is either physically abusive or verbally abusive, if not, then you might know someone who is. Please talk about it, it will make you feel a whole lot better.

2006-08-06 03:39:28 · 10 answers · asked by Ms. C 1

I LOOK AT THE YELLOW PAGES AND THEY GOT LIKE 50 PAGES JUST FOR CALL GIRLS. SO IT'S LEGAL RIGHT?

2006-08-06 03:28:28 · 11 answers · asked by JUST ME 1

He'll tease me all day but then when it comes time for bet he's says I'm begging him and its a turn off. HELP!

2006-08-06 03:27:10 · 25 answers · asked by tushpush1966 3

is the grass really greener on the other side ?? Im just curious dont mean to offend anybody ..Im married and had so many problams been treated pretty badly but i chose to try and make it work cuz i mean thats what married couple are suppost to do ?? I mean we marry for better or worse till death do us part ?? we share a child together so i have sacrificed alot to keep this marriage going am i the fool ?

2006-08-06 03:12:26 · 12 answers · asked by heartbrokenthensum 1

2006-08-06 03:08:28 · 29 answers · asked by lex 2

My boyfriend and i live together with his parents and he has a serious drug problem. last night he went off and stayed out all night smoking crack and came home and raised he**! I talked with my mom and she said i could come home but I am scared to leave. scared that he might hurt me. what should I do? Please help!!
Thank you

2006-08-06 03:02:48 · 20 answers · asked by Babygirl86 2

The other day i told my husband i use him for sex, you should of seen the look on his face. i love him with all my heart though. i told him most husbands dont have sex with their spouse as much as they'd like too. most men would love it if their wife used them for sex. I just love sex with my husband, i cant help myself.

2006-08-06 03:00:20 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband and I have been together for 8 years. During this time, I've tried to endure his friends and have been more than friendly to them and their girlfriends and wives. They're a diffuclt bunch, and I don't feel I have much in common with them. Their idea of getting together is sitting around and drinking too much. All of the couples have complained to us about each other over the years. We've stayed pretty neutral and have never repeated anything that has been said. Recently, one couple repeated an off-handed joke my husband made about another couple to them. They also told this couple I had said things which I had not. Naturally, I called them on it. This, in turn, has somehow made things worse and now everyone is angry with us. I personally don't care, but I feel bad for my husband. He's supportive of me but does feel that I've caused his friends to pull away from him. I don't like to see him so upset and so badly want to fix this situation. Is there anything I can do?

2006-08-06 02:59:17 · 14 answers · asked by Phoebe 2

his cell is off.makes me crazy

2006-08-06 02:49:04 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous

My girl said I was mad about something last night and I wasn't?
Every time I go visit some friend of mind I come home upset she say and I told her I was find.
But last night she wanted just, me and her to go out last night. No friends just me and her so I said ok that what we would do so I left my friends house and came home so we can get ready to go out
she said what's the problem I said everything is fine she said you lie something is wrong. So when i started getting my cloths ready to go out she turns around and said IM NOT GOING OUT WITH YOU T'ILL YOU TELL ME WHAT'S WRONG. And again nothing is wrong by then I got mad and I went to bed so now just don't have anything to say to her. Oh she said I wasn't happy to see her when I walk in the door ... How should I deal with this. It has happen more then once before... I am just getting tired

2006-08-06 02:39:54 · 14 answers · asked by CL 1

I'm doing a research paper for school and trying to find pros and cons for each but haven't found that much reasearch done for when parents do stay in the marriage for the children just how does divorce affect the children. Thank you for your help

2006-08-06 02:38:38 · 9 answers · asked by Pink B 1

my ex is appealing about how much she should pay for my child who lives with me she is paying out of her wages but now she is appealing the csa decision about what she has to pay

2006-08-06 02:35:08 · 9 answers · asked by andy_wilcockson 2

2006-08-06 02:19:41 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-08-06 02:18:07 · 13 answers · asked by spanners 1

she is depressed and i have suggested to see a doctor but she wont. she wants to seperate to spend time alone. we have 2 kids and everything that goes with it. we have been together for 9 yrs. i dont see how spending weeks, or months apart will help, someone help me.

2006-08-06 02:17:46 · 25 answers · asked by freezerdog69 1

married 1 year spouse seem to have money but is broke as a joke.

2006-08-06 02:11:05 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

my husband left me about two months ago saying he was unhappy. We have two children. one 16 months and the other is 11. I am trying to be strong and move forward. Everytime I see him the feeling are still there. He hardly sees the kids, because he is too busy with his new life, and a girl friend. She is much younger than him. He is going to be forty. He walked out on me and the kids. A house with unfinished work. How long can his behavior last. He went out and bought himself a mercadise and a lincoln Navigator. He has bought him self all new clothes and even wears cologne. How could someone be such a PRICK> We have been married for 14 years and highschool sweethearts. He treats me like he doesnt even know or like me. Im the mother of his children. Im sick too my stomach over this. I dont even want to know what he is doing because it tears me up inside. Could this be a phase. He treatens me with divorce papers when he is angry with me. But has not gone through with it.

2006-08-06 02:06:11 · 15 answers · asked by carol s 1

She told me she could never get pregnant(she said she had a Hysterectomy) ..now she is 3 months pregnant?
Thats one of the reasons i married her She knew I did not want kids ever and she agreed ..now she wont get rid of it.What can i do???????????......can I Sue her to get rid of it
I have three pitbull dog's ,They are my children .they are not too friendly with children .Can you beleve it....My wife has the nerve to ask me to get rid of my boy's(the dogs) What kind of mother would she make if you can just throw out part of your famiy members (the dogs)Should we seperate.or is there any legal action i can take.

How can i ever trust her again?

2006-08-06 01:50:55 · 31 answers · asked by WomanCandy 1

i am married for 7 years but its not a typical normal marriage.
We are only married in name. We live together but led separate lives.We can both date other people and that we agreed that no one including our friends or family members should know.We both got married only because some stuff about getting an apartment.
we were strangers when we got married. Currently i'm in a serious relationship with my bf, and both of us wants to settle down but the problem is my "husband" seem to be making this
annoying attitude whenever i bring us the topic about getting an anullment but he just keep avoiding it and he keep insisting that it will be a divorce instead of annulment. Ok it was only 1 time dat we had sex which was like a year ago but both of us were drunk at that time.i noticed that ever since dat day he kind off tone down is "player" ways. he used to bring girls home all the time ..he even cooks me dinner now~

2006-08-06 01:45:26 · 24 answers · asked by ? 1

Why do men and women think the other one is a mind reader? Why do we always have to play games in our relationships with each other?This guy that I like is so like that.Im one who doesn't beat around the bush.If I like you I'll tell you.If I don't I tell you that too.Why lead someone on?I asked this guy(who has been going through alot lately)if he was interested in dating me.We've been freinds for yrs.He recently got a divorce and has had some money problems.Anyway,he said he didn't have an answer for me.I guess Im confused.I'm thinking he doesn't cause if he did he be making it very clear that he did want to go out with me.Then again,with everything going on in his life,maybe he just needs some breathing room.He flirts with me,but doesnt act on it at all.He's always been a man to tell people what HE thinks.Hes always been blunt.Now he's all quite and has nothing to say about us possibly going out.He should just tell me what hes thinking and feeling, don't ya think?I can back off&have.

2006-08-06 01:21:29 · 14 answers · asked by Fuzzy 2