He'll tease me all day but then when it comes time for bet he's says I'm begging him and its a turn off. HELP!
2006-08-06 03:27:10 · 25 answers · asked by tushpush1966 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I've tried jummping his bone and all I get is pushed away.
2006-08-06 03:51:06 · update #1
hey is ur husbands name henry haha its been a year ahd a great life b4 now its very sad that i beg...what is the answer tell me too..i am still attractive hygenic etc haha really im frustrated over the answer and its not an affair i know that isnt hte answer
2006-08-06 03:36:14 · answer #1 · answered by ihave2knownow 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
O' my Gosh. What is going on with you guys? Tell him how you are feeling. Why is he not interested in Sex. It is part of a very healthy marriage. Don't beg for anything. Set up the right circumstance for something to happen. Maybe the tables need to be turned. Do some teasing of your own. Find out what gets him interested. Ask him! Open lines of communication.
2006-08-06 03:40:15 · answer #2 · answered by Jan 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First you need to put up your "anti sex" shield on days he teases you about intimacy. Block every insinuation, he throws your way. Keep him at arms length all day. When the sun goes down, and the stars appear you are now ready for the "turn around play!" Shower, fix yourself up, put on his favorite perfume, dig out the sexy nightie, and strut around in front of him, without any intentions of sex. Go to bed, kiss him good night and roll over. Be strong, if he reaches for you, push him away. And when he starts to beg, tell him "your begging is so unattractive, go to sleep." Now your in control.
2006-08-06 03:53:42 · answer #3 · answered by smplyme132 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is not interested, then I would shop around for something on the side. If he teases you and then does nothing, he has a problem not you. You should never have to beg for sex unless it is role playing with a partner.
2006-08-06 04:08:25 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't beg. Just take control of the situation and jump his bones. If you start off with a little oral on him, he will continue with you. If he doesn't dig that, throw him to the curb. As a guy, the way I describe the worse oral I ever had is, "REALLY, REALLY GOOD!" But seriuosly, many guys dig a gal who likes to take control in the bedroom....or kitchen....or car.....or beach....get my drift? GOOD LUCK! or should I say GOOD LICK?
2006-08-06 03:49:28 · answer #5 · answered by Greg 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He sound like an immature boy that gets his cookies with the idea of having sex, but not really wanting to.
Get a vibrator and after he goes to bed, dress up really sexy and lie beside him and get you vibrator out and buzz yourself to "Cookie heaven" a few times, let him hear you moan with pleasure, then roll over and go to sleep.
Do this a few times and if you still don' t get his attention then he's probably dead, but you at least are getting the sexual pleasure you deserve.
2006-08-06 03:47:06 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The next time he teases..control urself...and i bet...this would be the biggest tease for him. Be sure to let him go down on his knees so that he knows how it feels when it comes to tease and then turn away..making a turn on a turn off....
2006-08-06 03:34:01 · answer #7 · answered by Sunshine 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Satisfy yourself. Stop begging, it actually is a turn-off.
2006-08-06 03:57:01 · answer #8 · answered by Kyra B. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i go thru the same thing.my husband will call me from work and tell me hes gonna do this and hes gonna do that and at bed time its all lies.im really tired of that.i have three kids and i take care of them all day.i figure when its time for bed then its my turn.
2006-08-06 03:51:51 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is his way of having power over you and is unacceptable behavior. You could try couples therapy if he is willing but if not or if it does not help, I would get out of the marriage.
2006-08-06 03:39:42 · answer #10 · answered by Jennifer S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋